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Would you say the same of a skinny woman? If not then you are being discriminatory and that isn't fair. You need to read what I wrote. As a side note, I have no problem being discriminatory or unfair. I was talking about her clothing. Do you go around telling skinny women to cover it up?  Why do you not see what I wrote???? It's like you're reading what you want to read rather than what is there. My very last sentence...."no matter what size you are".
Oops my fault I did miss it. Okay... carry on then clothing police.... 
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Edited by
indianadave4
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Tue 05/10/11 09:00 PM
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Trouble is you have to be with them a little while to get to know their soul... If you base everything just on looks- you'll miss the soul 
1. Few people base a love relationship on looks alone. Physical attraction opens the door: but does not buy the entire farm. Looks attract but character cements the relationship. 2. Most people (men and women) want to be attracted physically to their long term romance partner. 3. Based on world wide studies both men and women want some sort of physical attraction. This is, also, found throughout history. To say looks are not important and personality ONLY should be the attracting characteristic violates our human nature and history. 4. Friendships can be based on charater traits only but not so with romantic relationship. |
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Considering that weight gain is not always a failure of caring for oneself. There are physical reasons for weight gain and there are medications and psychological causes too. It is always easy to sit somewhere else and judge when you can't get into a person's life and know whether it was their fault or not. It is actually more sickening to watch men judge women on this level and make themselves look like a sses. And I suppose some of the yardsticks women hold us men up to are fair too? |
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Considering that weight gain is not always a failure of caring for oneself. There are physical reasons for weight gain and there are medications and psychological causes too. It is always easy to sit somewhere else and judge when you can't get into a person's life and know whether it was their fault or not. It is actually more sickening to watch men judge women on this level and make themselves look like a sses. And I suppose some of the yardsticks women hold us men up to are fair too? Such as? |
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Considering that weight gain is not always a failure of caring for oneself. There are physical reasons for weight gain and there are medications and psychological causes too. The 60% over weight and 33% obesety in the USA is a life style choice. There are small numbers of people who have genetic problems but everyone appeals to genertics as an excuse. Most obese people claim dieting doesn't work. Yet, these same individuals loose lots of weight after Bariatric surgery. This surgery is nothing more than than a FORCED DIET. The person cannot eat more than 3 to 4 ounces of food at one time after surgery so they loose weight. If the same people would restrict their food intake they would get similar results. Unfortunately we Americans BIGGie everythng, don't do much exercise and when they become fat expect society to ignore their aquired adipose tissue (fat). |
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Our country is obsessed with weight. It's kinda' sad. The media portrays an image of women that is almost impossible to achieve. It's an illness in a way. It is responsible for a lot of dis-orders and anxiety......
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Our country is obsessed with weight. It's kinda' sad. The media portrays an image of women that is almost impossible to achieve. It's an illness in a way. It is responsible for a lot of dis-orders and anxiety...... People need to practice common sese. We seem to have a lack on it today. |
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don't mess with heavy hitters
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Our country is obsessed with weight. It's kinda' sad. The media portrays an image of women that is almost impossible to achieve. It's an illness in a way. It is responsible for a lot of dis-orders and anxiety...... People need to practice common sese. We seem to have a lack on it today. |
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It is just so easy to dismiss them as lazy or stupid instead of considering that we don't walk in their shoes so we shouldn't judge.
Besides it seems to make people feel better about themselves if they have a punching bag to dump on whenever they get ready. Instead of learning to love themselves enough to realize that everyone has a or more battles in life to fight and they are never known by those who look at them which would truly makes us better on the inside. |
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Nope..... I like compatible, not comparable
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Considering that weight gain is not always a failure of caring for oneself. There are physical reasons for weight gain and there are medications and psychological causes too. It is always easy to sit somewhere else and judge when you can't get into a person's life and know whether it was their fault or not. It is actually more sickening to watch men judge women on this level and make themselves look like a sses. And I suppose some of the yardsticks women hold us men up to are fair too? Such as? Are we "Successful?" What shoes do we wear... What vehicles we drive... Do we look like Kianeu Reeves, Johnny Dep, Burt Reynolds... Do we own a house... Do we have a dog... How tall we are... Are we the guy all the girls want... (and boy have I seen my share of women all trying for the same guy because he was such a hunk). Is he "sensitive." Is he politically correct... Is he Mr. Popular? Is he like Endicotte? I mean shall I go on? I can't count the number of times I have met women only to have them look right at my shoes and suddenly get cold towards me for no other reason. This is long before I utter my first hello! Men get hung by too many toos. And women complain WE MEN are jaded! I didn't say anything about the game being fair or on any kind of level playing field. Women, like us men have no room to talk! Both sides have some fuqued up rules of conduct. So are you going to try walking on water with me now? It seems I still keep getting wet up to my waist since I didn't go too far in this time! Usually I get soaked all the way to the top of my head! That and I'll never be just like Endicotte! 
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I only date women with a BMI of 25 or lower. I make an effort to look good. I pay a higher price for haircuts than most men I know and I like to dress well. I need her to look good because it reflects back on me. you wanted but was taller than you ? Would you still date her? We talk about weight being a factor but there must be other things that we want or don't want in a date... In my opinion -it still comes down to personal preferences I actually have dated a couple of women taller than myself. But, I'm 6'4" that issue doesn't come up often. But, you make a fair point. There are people with a healthy BMI that have unusual body shapes. I know one woman with very wide shoulders and narrow hips. She was far from unattractive, but she didn't do it for me. |
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I tend to date the type on the right for the most part. |
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I could not see myself chasing after Olive Oil!
Where are the BOOBS? Where is her AZZ?!?!?!? No shape, no dice! And I tend to go for the two body types no the right side! I am a leg and tail man myself! A nice rack is complimentary! A huge one is a turn off. I am not into huge tatas! |
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So sick of this same question in its many forms
I would not date anybody who had to compare me to other people. I am a larger girl, and I would not be who I am today if I were not. We are the way we are for a reason. I have tried to lose weight, it just doesn't happen. But I have issues out of my control. Contrary to popular belief, I do not spend my life sitting in front of the tube stuffing my face. Sorry for the outburst, just couldn't deny y'all my .02 |
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Spending alot of time on the beach as I do I would have to say there are different degrees of overweight. I see women that aren't skinny in tiny bathing suits and there are some that have some pretty nice proportions in all the right places. Then there are some that don't. If a girl has the weight in the right places and a cute face I'm not going to say I wouldn't try them out.
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as a rule, i never date women that are taller or heavier than me...
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Yes or no? I don't date chicks. I date women. Wouldn't dating chicks be like bestiality or something? That's just wrong. |
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Considering that weight gain is not always a failure of caring for oneself. There are physical reasons for weight gain and there are medications and psychological causes too. It is always easy to sit somewhere else and judge when you can't get into a person's life and know whether it was their fault or not. It is actually more sickening to watch men judge women on this level and make themselves look like a sses. And I suppose some of the yardsticks women hold us men up to are fair too? Such as? Are we "Successful?" What shoes do we wear... What vehicles we drive... Do we look like Kianeu Reeves, Johnny Dep, Burt Reynolds... Do we own a house... Do we have a dog... How tall we are... Are we the guy all the girls want... (and boy have I seen my share of women all trying for the same guy because he was such a hunk). Is he "sensitive." Is he politically correct... Is he Mr. Popular? Is he like Endicotte? I mean shall I go on? I can't count the number of times I have met women only to have them look right at my shoes and suddenly get cold towards me for no other reason. This is long before I utter my first hello! Men get hung by too many toos. And women complain WE MEN are jaded! I didn't say anything about the game being fair or on any kind of level playing field. Women, like us men have no room to talk! Both sides have some fuqued up rules of conduct. So are you going to try walking on water with me now? It seems I still keep getting wet up to my waist since I didn't go too far in this time! Usually I get soaked all the way to the top of my head! That and I'll never be just like Endicotte!
The only one I'd even care about is being successful. And by successful, I mean is he financially stable enough to take care of himself? Does he actually have goals that he works toward (can be any number of things)? Stuff like that. Probably not the kind of successful you think most people mean. And some of you men are jaded. 
I have no clue who/what Endicotte is. |
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