Topic: Do you date fat chicks?
TexasScoundrel's photo
Tue 05/10/11 06:14 AM
I only date women with a BMI of 25 or lower. I make an effort to look good. I pay a higher price for haircuts than most men I know and I like to dress well. I need her to look good because it reflects back on me.

Holly4459's photo
Tue 05/10/11 06:22 AM

I only date women with a BMI of 25 or lower. I make an effort to look good. I pay a higher price for haircuts than most men I know and I like to dress well. I need her to look good because it reflects back on me.
Just wondering here...what if this lady had the porportions
you wanted but was taller than you ? Would you still date her?


We talk about weight being a factor but there must be other things
that we want or don't want in a date...

In my opinion -it still comes down to personal preferences

Dict8's photo
Tue 05/10/11 06:58 AM
I worry that I'm too skinny. I weight a buck 30 soaking wet. I could get hurt.........

laugh

misty_57's photo
Tue 05/10/11 07:03 AM


Yes or no?
First a chick is a bird rofl lollllllllllllll and a lady is a woman now that we got that sorted out .....women big or small medium or tall if they have a great heart why not? I did in the past and would in the future:) their fun and more to love :) but i don't judge outer i look to the inner beauty i look to the heart first oh by the way some ladies don't like to be called chicks hahaha they rather be called beautiful you could say would you date a beautiful bigger size lady :))))):thumbsup:


flowerforyou Nice answer
I didn't figure he wanted to hear my yes or no since I could be his mother and would have taught him how to be respectful. grumble

Dict8's photo
Tue 05/10/11 07:05 AM
Seriously though. This is a bad superficial stance. Beauty is within. Beauty is found in all shapes and sizes.......

smokin

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Tue 05/10/11 07:21 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Tue 05/10/11 07:22 AM
Well said (((((Dict8)))))smooched flowers It takes mature men and women, to know that. drinker drinker drinker



Dict8's photo
Tue 05/10/11 07:36 AM

Well said (((((Dict8)))))smooched flowers It takes mature men and women, to know that. drinker drinker drinker



drinker

TattooedDude81's photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:18 AM
I date all shapes and sizes, but my trend has been I'm a chubby chaser!

fireflysgirl's photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:33 AM
If I found her beautiful...then I would date her flowerforyou

size & shape are just arbitrary labels

no photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:38 AM

Seriously though. This is a bad superficial stance. Beauty is within. Beauty is found in all shapes and sizes.......

smokin


Everyone has preferences. If you're not attracted to someone, you're not going to date them.

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:40 AM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Tue 05/10/11 08:41 AM

Yes or no?


LookINg_-- I DONT DATE DIX PERIOD!

Correction, I date MEN with DIX, but not puszies who stuffed their heart in their balls....regardless of looks or wealth.

no photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:45 AM
ok people lets flip the coin....do you date skinny guys ???

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:46 AM
Big and beautiful, Lucious, Vivacious, Plus Size, Vuluptious, all terms you could have gone with-----

BettyB's photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:46 AM
Why are these kinds of threads always about Women.I don't recall seeing one would you date a Fat Man.Just saying.

Tessa02's photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:54 AM

Why are these kinds of threads always about Women.I don't recall seeing one would you date a Fat Man.Just saying.



Why not turn the tables then!!biggrin Fat/Skinny I don't care I wouldn't date a chick anywhere!!!tongue2

BettyB's photo
Tue 05/10/11 08:56 AM


Why are these kinds of threads always about Women.I don't recall seeing one would you date a Fat Man.Just saying.



Why not turn the tables then!!biggrin Fat/Skinny I don't care I wouldn't date a chick anywhere!!!tongue2

Me neither ...I prefer a Rooster laugh laugh

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Tue 05/10/11 09:17 AM
I have had a female best friend for almost 30 years. when I first met her, she was an adorable, very slender blond. Some time in the last 15 years, she put on a tremendous amount of weight. Yes, she got to be a fatty. On the other hand, she developed a magnificent bosom. Her husband (and I) continued to adore her through it all.

So, if I were to meet her, say, five years ago, would I have found her attractive? Probably not. At least not until I got to know her soul, her history, her inner essence. I would have been the loser. That can't be accomplished in a short time, but it can be well worth the effort. If you want an instant romance, go for the perfect beauty queen, and cross your fingers that the rest will fall into place. Otherwise, do your homework and give things the time to learn what you need to know.

Caveat: If you worry about what your buddies think, you are a fool.

Holly4459's photo
Tue 05/10/11 09:21 AM
Trouble is you have to be with them a little while to get to know their soul...

If you base everything just on looks- you'll miss the soulohwell

Mayhem_J's photo
Tue 05/10/11 09:23 AM
Them skinny girls break to easily.

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Tue 05/10/11 09:30 AM
Trouble is you have to be with them a little while to get to know their soul..
Yeah, that's the dilemma, isn't it?

At my age, I have learned to assess each new acquaintance with a view to the past. Try to imagine if we had been together forever, while the years did their damage. Would I love her any less, just because the years had been unkind?

This instant romance stuff is for kids.