What are your dating and/or relationship must haves and can't stands?

Well, I only date men and they cannot be smokers. From there the "rules" become a compilation of what makes up a good, interesting, and date worthy person. Sure, I have some standards and preferences...but what is the sum of the individual's character?

it helps if he like good music and good conversation

must have a fearful respect of God
must have good hygiene and manners
must be honest and emotionally mature


cant stand cigarette smoke, or body odors in general
cant stand drunkenness
cant stand negativity/martyrism
cant stand blatant/hateful/jealous bigotry

Must be intelligent, creative, and have good communications skills.

No kids, no drugs, no alcohol.

If she looks like Billie Piper, that's a plus.

Must have a gorilla suit.

Can't stand dates who eat people.

i thought getting eaten would be a plus, for women anyway...

Say that again when your date is gnawing through your femur.

i hate it when that happens...

Just make sure the red light on the *collar is on. :)

*Fido

I just don't like dating

I'd rather sit on a tack

my man he told me he had no internet this weekend and so not to expect him till monday

but I dont b'lieve his azz

I know he be q/ someone else

I seen the signs and I aint stupid

oh well

she dont care about his azz none and that's my justice


rock on

Must be Christian or some type of Christian faith. Must love music, and like to do things like sport events, skating, blading. Also must be in shape, obese women are a complete turn off for me. Must have a great attitude, lots of patients, and be non bitchy. I have dealt with that for many years and I am way passed that.

My date must be truly interested in me. Can't stand dates who are only looking for free handouts. My date must view it as a special memorable occasion worth dressing up for and putting effort into spending quality one on one time with me. Can't stand dates who view it as thier "treat". Can't stand dates who view it as a fashion show, to be seen in public dressed up with a man and see whose eye she catches. My date must appreciate my efforts and enjoy the event as if it were the best thing ever. My date must understand that she is the only one that I will do so for and it's special, not an experiment. Can't stand dates who treat me like an "option" and who think going out is a casual thing that you do every weekend with different guys. My date must have the stamina to make it through the entire date and have energy left over for bedtime. Can't stand dates who think that going to bed together isn't part of a date.

Hmmm,
Must not be a formal bloke, casual is cool.
Must love to laugh.
Love just relaxing and doing not much, but still be able to head outside and have fun if we want.
Being able to ride a bike would be a bonus.
Loving Australi is a must.
Be able to put up with me.

Must not Smoke, Drink or use Drugs.
Needs to have a high tolerence for stupidness.
Oh and love kids and drop ins.

just curious,, does this start on even the very first date?

She doesn't look so hot without makeup.

http://www.womenrepublic.co.uk/entertainment/makeup/billie_piper.htm

Here are some other stars who are glamorous, but no so much without makeup.

http://www.theforumsite.com/forum/topic/Ain-t-so-glamorous-without-make-up-/307062

Must be breathing.

Can't stand stiffs.

I can't stand men who think that going to bed together is part of a date.

Neither does David Bowie, but....OK, I can't think of a way to end that sentence.