My date must be truly interested in me. Can't stand dates who are only looking for free handouts. My date must view it as a special memorable occasion worth dressing up for and putting effort into spending quality one on one time with me. Can't stand dates who view it as thier "treat". Can't stand dates who view it as a fashion show, to be seen in public dressed up with a man and see whose eye she catches. My date must appreciate my efforts and enjoy the event as if it were the best thing ever. My date must understand that she is the only one that I will do so for and it's special, not an experiment. Can't stand dates who treat me like an "option" and who think going out is a casual thing that you do every weekend with different guys. My date must have the stamina to make it through the entire date and have energy left over for bedtime. Can't stand dates who think that going to bed together isn't part of a date.