Did it make you feel better to try to make me look bad?....no wonder everyone has left this place.

Relax. It was an observation. No need to get upset. If you say you weren't complaining, then I guess you weren't complaining. If other people left because they got upset over a comment, then I hope they're happier somewhere else!

Nah. Lighten up. I'm just glad that I'm not dead. Be grateful for that which you have.

I like it when people b!tch and Moan....


It makes me feel alot better when I am walking away from thier whining @$$es.

Sadly often peole cannot see what others do, just because someone thinks that she is thin, does not mean she sees it herself.
At one time, if I ate I would make myself sick and would run miles, as I was sure that I was fat, that was after, my first hausband left and I had 2 small children, No matter what anyone said all I could see where faults.

Sometimes no matter how thin a person gets they just cannot see what they really look like.
I still cannot stand to look at myself. But I am not silly anymore.


As for whinging, I just switch off and smile if someone start. I think that being grateful for whatever we have is really important, When my children where little, if they whinged they had to tell me 10 things they where grateful for.
The same if they said they where bored, They where then allowed to go and scrub out toilet. They soon found something they wanted to do.

True. However, if a girl did it, she'd just accuse her of being "jealous."

I'd love to have seen her reaction to that. I wish I could tell this woman that, she's sooo freaking annoying. But she's my co-worker's wife so he'd get pissy.

It'd be better coming from you, if I did it, they'd fire me.

Well, this woman isn't pretty, but she could do something to fix herself up if it bothered her that much. And she complains about being fat, but she does nothing to try to lose weight. And I really think she only complains so people will tell her she's wrong.

Then that just makes her a pain in the butt.

I have a skinny coworker who is always talking about how she needs to lose weight. One day, instead of arguing with her about how thin she was, I agreed and said her arms were especially flabby.

She got so upset, she never came in to work any more.

Ten years later we found out she was getting her regular paycheques all along, never mind her absence.

Then an external investagition by the inspection department found out her work was being performed all along. Our boss says, yeah, it's been funny like that. I never thought how that was possible, she said, her work done, but I wasn't going to complain, I mean, why? The boss said.

So at the end it turns out she did keep on coming to work, but my comment ten years ago made her lose the remaining 32 lbs that was between her and her target weight. At the time of my remark, she weighed 32 lbs.

There is always a rational explanation.

I love complainers because I love to tell them to quit whining.

I did that....told her there were people a lot worse off and she should just be happy she is able to go to the doctor....and got my head bit off!!!

Don't react to her emotions. Just tell her to quit whining.

OMFG....am peeing myself here...


looks like the campaign for new moderator just got smashed back into smithereens...


people always show themselves...


LMAO!!!!

Oh dear!!...am gonna snort my coffee outta my nose!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Kim...this is not directed at you....


oh f *ck...my sides hurt!!!

My nose is burning, my ribs are aching.... I nearly fell off my stool....have tears running down my face...


OMG...this is the best whinge I have had in ages!!!!!!!


I have been watching quietly for a while now....and I could smell the direction that this person was heading in....and in perfect predictable performance....got the 'snippy's on'...and showed themselves!!!!!

Bwah hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



better than tv!

THANKYOU KIM for the PERFECT thread!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are very welcome Jess.....glad it gave you a tickle

When people complain to me, I just spin it around in a positive way for them. Most of the time, it works, but then you get those that just love to complain and be negative, I just have fun with those people.

I told her that there were so many out there that need a doctor and can't go....it didn't matter, and as a previous poster stated, it's probably a "pay attention to me thing"...and yes...she has always had a pretty good life. Guess you have to do the suffering before you can appreciate.