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Even if it was overrated, I would still be doing it. Nothing quite like licking a nice, wet pus.......(End of transmission). 
OOO OOO where are the mods???? Goof has gone XXX
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Even if it was overrated, I would still be doing it. Nothing quite like licking a nice, wet pus.......(End of transmission).
OOO OOO where are the mods???? Goof has gone XXX
Tis the Guiness talking. Haha! |
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ok, lets speak virgin wise. All my friends told me that when they lost their virginity 2 the guys they thot loved them, ended up dumping my friends and they were hurt 4 a while, feeling stupid....I guess after a couple times you have sex, you end up having an "idc" attitude....this doesn't apply 2 married couples, but um if more girls give themselves up, then how would sex be special? just like currency, the 100 dollar bill currency is limited because if it was thousands more 100 dollar bills than currently circulated, it would lose its value and become like a penny, basically useless, because everyone would have it...so, if a girl didn't want 2 have sex because she feels, "why have sex now because on our honey moon (if we get married) sex would lose its value because he already knows what it is like 2 have sex with her, and might just move on to the next girl....relationships are not just based on sex anyway but, if all girls put out then what really is the point of marriage? most guys tell me they like a challenge and just use the girls that would "put out" after like 2 weeks, and I heard my bros friend say that the girls that do that have a low self esteem problem or whatever so they try to keep the guy by giving him whatever he wants but that doesn't work, so the marrying type are the ones that treat themselves as a prize and let the guy chase them......wait! im totally off topic (-_-) lol oh well Ok here's my view. Sigh.. 
After you have sex for the first time, you wont see it the same anymore. You will see that he loves you and you love him and that will be enough for you to feel the comfort to continue to have sex, plus you will crave it now. Sex will become something you do on the normal, like drinking water, and you wont have second thoughts to continue the act with him. After you break up or divorce. You no longer have his love. You no longer trust him. That comfort is gone. But you will begin to crave that comfort, affection, companionship and sex that you once had. You can take different routes at this point. As you said, have the "IDC" attitude and fck around to fill that void. I can tell you though, this usually doesn't end well. You will probably end up hurt. And yeah, we've all heard guys like the chase blah blah. But here's the thing. If the guy you really like isn't looking for a relationship/marriage, he's not going to stick around whether you do him or not. The difference is that when he leaves, you can either be left hurt because you got attached after you did him, or have no regrets and move on.  There's too much to type. But yeah.
wow, you made the most sense! you are so right.....well, I'm a virgin believe it or not and this boy and I used 2 stare @ eachother everyday and it got so intense, like we could feel the regular love attraction but the sexual attraction took over, so I wanted 2 have sex with him but I'm scared he would leave but I can see that he is a sweet guy. I also read about virgo/aries relationships and that's what I want, thatz how my heart feels it will happen. The reason I know this is because during our college break for christmas n stuff, I drempt about him every night and I went through this whole phase and I thot he didn't actually like me so he gave me the wrong number because evertime I txt'd him or called, it didn't work, so my best friend told me 2 4get about him but my heart told me to not give up on him, so I stopped tryna call but never gave up, and what just so happened was, last week sumthin told me 2 try 1 more time and if nothing happened then delete the number, and so I txt'd him 1 last time and he answered....all I'm saying is, if things are going like this, if we got 2gether, does it sound like it would be a good idea to have sex with him?...I would try 2 hold out until I really get 2 know him but the sexual tension is always sitting right in front of our faces, so idk if it would be that long... |
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Even if it was overrated, I would still be doing it. Nothing quite like licking a nice, wet pus.......(End of transmission).
OOO OOO where are the mods???? Goof has gone XXX
Tis the Guiness talking. Haha!   
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Virginity is only as important as you make it out to be. Personally, I was 20: a little pain, a little blood, no big deal.
However, I was also the victim of a 'Virgin Killer'. He dumped me not long after. He made it a point of getting chicks who hadn't had much experience or no experience-- he likes being first. A lot of guys out there chase the girl 'who never gives', just to get it, not b/c they care about the girl. Also, a lot of virgins are very clingy to their firsts, and that can get old quick for a guy. They end up cheating or dumping, either way the girl smothers them til they find someone more realistic. One thing I do know for sure, it almost always hurts a little the first time. And with the right partner, all the other times can be awesome. |
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Virginity is only as important as you make it out to be. Personally, I was 20: a little pain, a little blood, no big deal. However, I was also the victim of a 'Virgin Killer'. He dumped me not long after. He made it a point of getting chicks who hadn't had much experience or no experience-- he likes being first. A lot of guys out there chase the girl 'who never gives', just to get it, not b/c they care about the girl. Also, a lot of virgins are very clingy to their firsts, and that can get old quick for a guy. They end up cheating or dumping, either way the girl smothers them til they find someone more realistic. One thing I do know for sure, it almost always hurts a little the first time. And with the right partner, all the other times can be awesome. why don't guys get clingy with their first? and I see that you answered my question. I asked if people should wait for marriage to have sex, but that's only if you want to save yourself from being crushed, by the guy leaving you after you fell in love with him or became clingy right? also, it's all about the male ego when they try to get the girl that never gives...for them it's like cracking a code, if they end up cracking it and getting inside, then they will feel accomplished, tell their friends, then go try to crack another code.... Thank you, you were helpful! |
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Virginity is only as important as you make it out to be. Personally, I was 20: a little pain, a little blood, no big deal. However, I was also the victim of a 'Virgin Killer'. He dumped me not long after. He made it a point of getting chicks who hadn't had much experience or no experience-- he likes being first. A lot of guys out there chase the girl 'who never gives', just to get it, not b/c they care about the girl. Also, a lot of virgins are very clingy to their firsts, and that can get old quick for a guy. They end up cheating or dumping, either way the girl smothers them til they find someone more realistic. One thing I do know for sure, it almost always hurts a little the first time. And with the right partner, all the other times can be awesome. why don't guys get clingy with their first? and I see that you answered my question. I asked if people should wait for marriage to have sex, but that's only if you want to save yourself from being crushed, by the guy leaving you after you fell in love with him or became clingy right? also, it's all about the male ego when they try to get the girl that never gives...for them it's like cracking a code, if they end up cracking it and getting inside, then they will feel accomplished, tell their friends, then go try to crack another code.... Thank you, you were helpful! You are welcome. To answer the question about why guys don't get clingy, its because they have that happen at a younger age. Most boys lose their virginity in their teens. Believe it or not, it is by girls who have lost their virginity at a young age as well and ALSO have that tendency to try unmarked territory. By the time they go out with girls like myself, they have already covered a lot of relationship ground. They know that sex is just a side effect of being with someone. ITS A HELLUVA LOT OF FUN, but its not the connection to love and happiness either. I have a friend whose husband is severely disabled in his back, they can't do much. However, they love each other and that is what is important to them. My brother, has no emotional connection to any of his girlfriends. He never wanted to get married and he doesn't. He still has no problem finding girls to get laid. He'd never knowingly be with a virgin b/c he knows the score and prefers women who know as well. |
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Sex cannot be overrated. I'm almost positive. We just don't want our kids to find out the secret too early
As far as urges, etc. I think the purpose was to make us want to reproduce. From my experience, labor did not give me a strong urge to do it again. |
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Sex is definitely not overrated. I get the feeling that those who think it is aren't getting it enough.
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Sex is definitely not overrated. I get the feeling that those who think it is aren't getting it enough.
could be lol im a virgin |
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Sex is definitely not overrated. I get the feeling that those who think it is aren't getting it enough.
could be lol im a virgin |
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Sex is like pizza... even when it's bad, it's good.
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Sex, as an unavoidable impulse, is overrated
sex, as a bond between two committed people in love with each other and wanting to share their life as one,, is very very UNDERRATED |
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Sex is definitely not overrated. I get the feeling that those who think it is aren't getting it enough.
could be lol im a virgin Yep....and I am a Chinese Jet Pilot |
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Sex is definitely not overrated. I get the feeling that those who think it is aren't getting it enough.
could be lol im a virgin Yep....and I am a Chinese Jet Pilot hmmmm thought so! 
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Sex is totally UNDERRATED! Just sayin... it should be more of a priority than some people make it. I believe it is absolutely essential to have plenty of sexual activity in order to keep a relationship strong.  but sexual activity is must hahaha
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I think sex is oversold as a mere 'activity',,yes
I also think it is over encouraged as some adult necessity. I think great sex is great sex, but especially when its actually between two who love and are committed to each other, because sex has too many serious consequences to be just treated like a ride at the amusement park which is how I think we are being taught more and more to look at it |
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If Sex is overrated youre probably with the wrong person then again it could be you
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the thing is
the question is not if 'good sex' is overrated or 'sex with the right person' is overrated its whether sex, in general, is overrated its kind of like asking if alcohol is overrated because many people tend to have much more peace, sounder mind, and less stress when they dont drink likewise, many people have much more peace, freedom, sounder mind, and less stress when they dont engage in sex with others which can bring on all types of unwanted long term consequences that dont end up being 'worth' the short term physical gratification.... |
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I mean, it was actually ment for reproduction, which is one of God's favorite things he gave 2 humans, so he also made it pleasurable...BUT humans also have sexual cravings that is hard 2 cope with, so we do "the deed" 2 satisfy our bodys way of telling us it is ready 2 make babies. So, is it really over rated? or is it just apart of human nature, even though God says to not do it out of wedlock?....the reason why God said don't do it out of wedlock is a totally different subject. well Dick Van Dike show and his wife slept in separate beds and they were married back in the 60's.....So I think that was underateed in that day and time, but it is so" over rated in our time because children see it(Sex) right in front of them watching Nickelodeon. 
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