How about this problem?
Okay you attract people, flirting is easy but you get bored, easily distracted, and just plain turned off by the people that refuse to take a hint
Are you sure you know what you want are your standards too high or too low?
Do you spend too much time focused around one particular area of your life?
Are you happy with you?
Can you shrug off break ups or does it feel like the world is ending?

I consult the magic 8 ball. Shake it up...and it never lies.

i love the magic eight ball, it may never lie but sometimes its so hard to make the connections with the answers........how many answers can you get from the magic eight?

Damn women can't we just have a drink?..........

My ideal relationship is one where I have freedom, the thought of a confining relationship just isn't for me.
As for the up and down question, I am bi-polar, so when I'm not on my medication, if I have a bad day, I just loose it, and when I'm manic I'm entirely too happy (which is real, don't let anyone fool you), and I'm fill of energy and start too many projects, and soon I'm swamped!
Sometimes I'm alright with me, but sometimes I look in the mirror and I'm just unhappy with me. I like my personality, I love to be kind, and I never try to change people, since it's not my place.
Standards, well. It depends on the personality.

DRINKS!! well okay but i must warn you i'm one of the most affable people you will ever meet, i think anyway...did you say drinks?

I never did really get the whole flirting thing (I'm oblivious to it, if/when it happens), but I do historically tend to get bored in relationships rather quickly. Part of that is because I've had a tendency to get involved with one-dimensional people, part of it is because they tend to be dishonest about what they want out of the relationship.



I know what I want; and perhaps that IS too high of a standard because, apparently, what I want doesn't exist.



Yes.



For the most part. I am not particularly happy with my environment, but I'll do something about that when the opportunity arises.



I go into relationships expecting, and sometimes even planning for, a breakup. I know, going in, that there is going to be a point where I want nothing more than to get out of the entanglement.

You might ask: Then, why bother? I can't really answer that. I don't particularly want to be alone for the rest of my life, but haven't found anyone who was ultimately more appealing than being alone.

Freedom is good

being loved in-spite of, well you know is fabulous

my standards are i actually have to be attracted to you

bravo!!

LEX
I love you and i'm positive I'm three dimensional can we have short periodic bursts of insanity together and then longer periods of "oh! i got lost in my own little world there for a bit, sorry!!" strictly platonic of course :P

Sounds like you know exactly what I'm talking about!

I count 5...where are the rest of the questions??

HEY!! it says i get easily distracted!! I saw something shiny and forgot...i know i had a candy bar somewhere....

mmmm...candybar.....

What's flirting?



Yes, and it apeears that my standards are too high, but I think they're pretty low actually.



Maybe



No, and I don't see it ever happening.



It feels like the worlds is ending for about 1/2 a second, then I move on.

my gosh.. i bought new shoes for the trip and everything!!! well i haven't yet but buffalo skin moccasin boots are pricey just a little so i'm thinking about it...but the relocation expenses sheesh oh yeah it gets cheeper if ya let go of the baggage!

It happens, but it's usually mutual. Also, I'm a little clueless, and it takes a while for me to figure out that someone is actually into me. Haha, that may be some of the problem.

My standards are where they need to be, I believe.

No, I don't think so.

Yes, 90% of the time.


It's hard at first, but yeah...I'm able to shrug off a break up.

16...I think. When your drunk? 32. Seeing double. Oh Yeah!

How about this problem?
Okay you attract people, flirting is easy but you get bored, easily distracted, and just plain turned off by the people that refuse to take a hint

....so you want to hook someone, be entertained by them and then expect them to get your secret code for f *ck off..?

Are you sure you know what you want are your standards too high or too low?
i KNOW exactly what I want in every aspect of my life.

Standards...Who decided the benchmark to what is too high or too low?...my standards are perfect...for me.

Do you spend too much time focused around one particular area of your life?

yes...this life....I only have this one, right now, so it is my single focus.

Are you happy with you?

Yes
Can you shrug off break ups or does it feel like the world is ending?


Like it is a light summer shower...thats how easy it is to shrug off...

I thought it was just a reference to Alanis' "21 Things I Want In A Lover."

When I think about that song and actually try to make a list of the qualities I look for in potential partners, I keep ending up with the list of the qualities I'd like for other people to see in me. Which means that I instinctively end up looking for someone a bit like myself. Unfortunately, experience has taught me that the things that I think I want and the things that are actually best for me or that I actually need in any given situation, more often than not end up being two very different things.

I want to try that now ty for the idea