Topic: How does it feel
ChangeofHeart's photo
Sun 12/19/10 05:34 PM
To be a afterthought by people that love you, when they have something better to do with people they dont think you fit in with?

krupa's photo
Sun 12/19/10 05:43 PM
Maybe you are viewing it wrong.

What if you really wouldn't fit in with what they are doing and they are doing you a favor by not forcing you to deal with crap you wouldnt like anyway?

I personally am thrilled to be left out of gatherings of the other side of the family or church funtions or water board council seat election dinners.

Did they all go to disney land?

boredinaz06's photo
Sun 12/19/10 05:46 PM



Can I get my nipples pinched at Disneyland? Isn't that a new ride kinda like Magic Mountain only different?

mightymoe's photo
Sun 12/19/10 05:47 PM

To be a afterthought by people that love you, when they have something better to do with people they dont think you fit in with?


pretty much every day of my life... sometimes it bothers me, but whatever i'm sure they still love you, but you can't be with them all the time. What about when you go out with the guys, and leave your wife at home? same thing, just a different situation. don't worry about, even family needs time and friends to themselves.

ChangeofHeart's photo
Sun 12/19/10 05:50 PM

Maybe you are viewing it wrong.

What if you really wouldn't fit in with what they are doing and they are doing you a favor by not forcing you to deal with crap you wouldnt like anyway?

I personally am thrilled to be left out of gatherings of the other side of the family or church funtions or water board council seat election dinners.

Did they all go to disney land?
That maks sense

no photo
Sun 12/19/10 05:51 PM
Good friends are life's compensation for our families.

ChangeofHeart's photo
Sun 12/19/10 05:52 PM


To be a afterthought by people that love you, when they have something better to do with people they dont think you fit in with?


pretty much every day of my life... sometimes it bothers me, but whatever i'm sure they still love you, but you can't be with them all the time. What about when you go out with the guys, and leave your wife at home? same thing, just a different situation. don't worry about, even family needs time and friends to themselves.
You are right

krupa's photo
Sun 12/19/10 06:00 PM


Maybe you are viewing it wrong.

What if you really wouldn't fit in with what they are doing and they are doing you a favor by not forcing you to deal with crap you wouldnt like anyway?

I personally am thrilled to be left out of gatherings of the other side of the family or church funtions or water board council seat election dinners.

Did they all go to disney land?
That maks sense


God has truly given humanity the finger when I have become the voice of reason..........

Unless they all went to $1 nite at Hooters...you are probably luckier than you realize.

mightymoe's photo
Sun 12/19/10 06:01 PM



Maybe you are viewing it wrong.

What if you really wouldn't fit in with what they are doing and they are doing you a favor by not forcing you to deal with crap you wouldnt like anyway?

I personally am thrilled to be left out of gatherings of the other side of the family or church funtions or water board council seat election dinners.

Did they all go to disney land?
That maks sense


God has truly given humanity the finger when I have become the voice of reason..........

Unless they all went to $1 nite at Hooters...you are probably luckier than you realize.


lol

Jess642's photo
Sun 12/19/10 10:25 PM
....it doesn't feel like anything.

I am only an afterthought in other people's minds when I project my own ego onto them...

why should they give a wet slap what the hell I am or am not doing?

I am only the most important person in the world in my own tiny ego..

you could perhaps learn from this.

Loves2Please's photo
Sun 12/19/10 11:02 PM
You can do bad off by ur damn self,,why u need someone to make u or break u ,friends are dime a doz so are familys,,but the ones that give back to u as u give to them thats TRUE FAMILY not only just friends or close ones true family,,where u always Fit in to place with them all the time,,,,