I wanna meet an honest man.

wat happen?

Welcome. Ladies.

The saddening truth is that many of us have been hurt in the past however it is what we do with this knowledge that truly matters.It is most beneficial for one to learn & grow from life's experiences.By virtue of this wisdom we become more aware & less vulnerable to deception.If we fail to learn from our past then we are doomed to repeat it.Welcome! & Godspeed!Cy

Of course, everyone has been hurt. It's only natural.

We've all been hurt whether romantically or otherwise. It's called 'life'.

If we hold on to the hurt then the one that we were hurt by owns our future as well as our past ...

Our hurt typically comes out of our own expectations. I expected my husband to be faithful ... he wasn't. We can't always choose what happens to us but we do choose what we do with it. My ex had to own his behaviour which came with consequences. And I choose mine in how I move forward.

Let go of expectations and the fairy tale that you have created in your mind. We often are the ones who deceive ourselves by not seeing the truth of a situation. We fall in love with potential or see things as they ought to be instead of how they are, we make excuses for another's behaviour. It is madness.

The true gift of relationships is that we allow another close enough to see our vulnerability and to poke our wounds. Once we see them we can heal them. So even the relationships that don't work out have great value in allowing you both to grow and progress and move forward...if you are aware.

Be grateful in that knowing that you have grown beyond that relationship and are ready for one that is bigger, brighter and different. The only thing we bring is ourselves. If we aren't growing and evolving then we are bringing the same person into the next relationship ... the same person that chose the last relationship that didn't work.

We willing ... be brave ... be wise as my friend above said and above all, trust in yourself to handle whatever happens.

All the best!

Expectation is the root cause of frustration.

Irradicate expectations from within....

Life is all about experiencing the difference between beliefs & unbelievable.

**** & do a little exercise *******(its very hard )

Just try to recall....

havent u ever hurted someone before....???

******* Dear friends ******

We.... the human beings are only hurting & getting hurted......

I'm sure most people have been hurt at one time or another.

I also believe most everyone is looking for an honest partner.

Join the forums and welcome to Mingle!

I like this person's insight.


I give it a ....9.

yea..................

i been hurt.....more than once.............


i have hurt others............


but i learned from it all............

welcome. i was hurt when a lady just used me for sex.

Been used and cheated on. Only once each time, but still it hurt. It was a long time ago. I'm over it, but I also wouldn't be who I am today - wouldn't have the same values and ideals - if those things never happened. If anything, they taught me something that I've never forgotten. Not everyone understands that, at least from what I've seen amongst the people I know.

It happens. Wounds heal.

And that hurt??

Everyone has...most just move on, I add to my collection under my stoo...erhm, heh, they're like action figures, you can pose them...well, not that I would or anything, heh, not like I'm a sociopath or anything, heh, really...

Everyone has been hurt, when I get hurt I just bury the bastards in my basement

Yeah don't we all want an honest man. Yes I have been hurt dozens of times but after a while you develop a thick skin and don't get too upset anymore. That is just life.

Intensity of HEARTQUAKE / HEARTACHE is directly proportional to the amount of your love for yourself & inversly proportional to the amount of your love for the HURTING fellow.....


I can't understand
Why you turn around
I can't understand
Why you bring me down
Perhaps another day
You'll ask me to stay
Perhaps another day
I'll be the last to stay

I can't understand
Why you bring me down
I can't understand
Why you turn around
Perhaps another day
You'll ask me to stay
Perhaps another day
I'll be the last to stay

My hearts beats for your soul
It'll just stop when you'll get old

Correct me if I'm wrong, but part of the reason for this thread is to create a discussion where maybe she can find an honest man....am I right?

Now I'm here.....

..... HONESTLY.....

***** J J *****


Continue Pls.