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Personally
and I meanno disrespect I feel like I'm interacting with a crazy person you say one thing outa your mouth another outta your azz Ex: Ya love it--ya hate it WTF! Ya gotta get a grip on You before ya can handle any relationship with anyone!: 
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Edited by
2KidsMom
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Wed 08/18/10 12:51 PM
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"I know you people here will not hold back on your opinions and looking forward to hearing what you have to say."
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Is it possible to have a happy ending when in love with a married man that you want him to stay with his wife but still want him as a lover, friend etc.... But that is getting way ahead I don't know that he loves me or that I love him Hmmmmmm..... you said both *sigh* $.02 
no i did not!! dude you read between lines or what ????? first statement said lover for your information that is someone you have sex with that does not always imply love. the second one states just what i am saying i DONT KNOW if he love me or that i love him. Damn I would hate to date you you would have your own little dialog with yourself. It wouldn't matter what the other actually said. |
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omg, i'm in the twilight zone! $.02
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I just hope he puts a stop to it soon. I am too weak for him so maybe he will do the right thing. I am willing to bet he will. I am telling you he is really a nice guy. quit defending his actions! this is not the behavior of nice person. he is a slime-ball based on your version of this story...how can you not see that? all i can tell you is, when you invite trouble to your door, you can not be surprised when it comes knocking. |
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jamie rawxx and seakolony thank you for your words and thoughts on the matter. Oh and 2kidsmom well you make me laugh thanks......lol..... The rest of you keep up the good work. Reminds me why I seem to think outside the norm. You just spew out with what you have already decided in your head without trying to help and answer the real question. Thanks anyway for your 2cents but i wouldnt pay a penny for your thoughts .
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Everyone seems to think including myself that you just have to leave.
Thats the free advice the only other thing I could suggest is seek a good Therapist and lay your story on the line. Good Luck |
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wtf?????? he is not having all the fun. Hell why do you think i am in it??? It is because i enjoy every minute with him. I am having just as much fun as he is maybe more. I enjoy pleasing him and he likes pleasing me. This is not a one way street. That is why it is sooooo hard to walk away. Has not anyone here ever been in this type of relationship or triangle.????? 
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Edited by
Gossipmpm
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Wed 08/18/10 01:25 PM
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Hmm the ones who pacify you you like Hmmmm like I said... I love you!
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oopps sorry ruth34611 and k0003 I really do appreciate your input as well.
I am done you peeps can carry on if you wish but i had my hopes to high when hoping for intelligent conversation about the situation I have found myself in. I guess I am the only one here to ever do such a horrible thing. hmmm or at least admit to it . |
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"I know you people here will not hold back on your opinions and looking forward to hearing what you have to say."
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oopps sorry ruth34611 and k0003 I really do appreciate your input as well. I am done you peeps can carry on if you wish but i had my hopes to high when hoping for intelligent conversation about the situation I have found myself in. I guess I am the only one here to ever do such a horrible thing. hmmm or at least admit to it . |
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You may have a point but I have been dating for a year or so and have not had anyone take a hold of my heart like this one. I really think it is because believe it or not he really is a nice guy. I know he feels guilt too but I am not sure if I feel what he is doing is so wrong. If he stays with her what is the harm in him seeking something missing with her. I know that he has tried to get her to see things his way but she is not meeting his needs. That being said he loves her I know and for what ever reason that doesn't bother me. I know i should set the bar a little higher but i have dated and men and continue to keep options open but no one makes me feel like he does. All the other men I have dated just seem to bore me or no spark. I may be settling but it doesn't feel that way all the time. I am having a hard time letting go. He is the closest thing i have found to what i would like to find in a my next partner. The cheating thing doesnt bother me. I know it happens and i know it doesn't mean you care for anyone any less it is just something that can make you feel good again if kids etc take over at home. |
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oopps sorry ruth34611 and k0003 I really do appreciate your input as well. I am done you peeps can carry on if you wish but i had my hopes to high when hoping for intelligent conversation about the situation I have found myself in. I guess I am the only one here to ever do such a horrible thing. hmmm or at least admit to it . ok you make me laugh too mr important |
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You may have a point but I have been dating for a year or so and have not had anyone take a hold of my heart like this one. I really think it is because believe it or not he really is a nice guy. I know he feels guilt too but I am not sure if I feel what he is doing is so wrong. If he stays with her what is the harm in him seeking something missing with her. I know that he has tried to get her to see things his way but she is not meeting his needs. That being said he loves her I know and for what ever reason that doesn't bother me. I know i should set the bar a little higher but i have dated and men and continue to keep options open but no one makes me feel like he does. All the other men I have dated just seem to bore me or no spark. I may be settling but it doesn't feel that way all the time. I am having a hard time letting go. He is the closest thing i have found to what i would like to find in a my next partner. The cheating thing doesnt bother me. I know it happens and i know it doesn't mean you care for anyone any less it is just something that can make you feel good again if kids etc take over at home. not sure what you are getting at i haven't had those parts in quit a while but try to find something else as vulgar i sure you will |
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What kind of feedback did you expect? There is only two options here
A. Be selfish and break up a marriage. B. Be a woman and walk away. This dude is not a good guy. A good guy would never hurt his family like this. Why did you even get involved in this situation? Shame on YOU! |
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You may have a point but I have been dating for a year or so and have not had anyone take a hold of my heart like this one. I really think it is because believe it or not he really is a nice guy. I know he feels guilt too but I am not sure if I feel what he is doing is so wrong. If he stays with her what is the harm in him seeking something missing with her. I know that he has tried to get her to see things his way but she is not meeting his needs. That being said he loves her I know and for what ever reason that doesn't bother me. I know i should set the bar a little higher but i have dated and men and continue to keep options open but no one makes me feel like he does. All the other men I have dated just seem to bore me or no spark. I may be settling but it doesn't feel that way all the time. I am having a hard time letting go. He is the closest thing i have found to what i would like to find in a my next partner. The cheating thing doesnt bother me. I know it happens and i know it doesn't mean you care for anyone any less it is just something that can make you feel good again if kids etc take over at home. not sure what you are getting at i haven't had those parts in quit a while but try to find something else as vulgar i sure you will |
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You may have a point but I have been dating for a year or so and have not had anyone take a hold of my heart like this one. I really think it is because believe it or not he really is a nice guy. I know he feels guilt too but I am not sure if I feel what he is doing is so wrong. If he stays with her what is the harm in him seeking something missing with her. I know that he has tried to get her to see things his way but she is not meeting his needs. That being said he loves her I know and for what ever reason that doesn't bother me. I know i should set the bar a little higher but i have dated and men and continue to keep options open but no one makes me feel like he does. All the other men I have dated just seem to bore me or no spark. I may be settling but it doesn't feel that way all the time. I am having a hard time letting go. He is the closest thing i have found to what i would like to find in a my next partner. The cheating thing doesnt bother me. I know it happens and i know it doesn't mean you care for anyone any less it is just something that can make you feel good again if kids etc take over at home. not sure what you are getting at i haven't had those parts in quit a while but try to find something else as vulgar i sure you will |
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