look, honestly... its been awhile since i ever had a "serious" relationship, and I ended up with a TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury) and i guess, nobody would like to even come around.

well i dont want to sound desperate, cuz im not i just want to say how lucky everyone without a TBI is

im not badly disfigured, or anything, its just women do not even want to mess with a guy who has a TBI, its like im damaged goods, broken and cannot be returned.

And everything anyone says that i have to focus on what still wrks, my humor, my computer skills, and i can swim...

gaww, this sounds desperate- so nm well chat later

Big Hugs

I'm sure your time will come

injury or not

keep a positive outlook

make loads of friends

fate will work it all out in the end

I send hugs and kisses and lotsa love


Tammy

You know dude. I know you will find someone worthwhile. Forget about your ex leaving you after this happened. What comes around goes around.

I've been through a few things where It was mentioned by the doctors last year, but thankfully it wasn't serious. It did just happen out of nowhere after ice hockey.

Look for some support forums online as well for this. I seriously hope you end up ok. Hopefully your level was in the high range which is mild.

I'm sure you are going to find a GREAT girl one day. You sound way awesome, and really nice too.

Hi

Just keep trying to find someone understanding.

Here is something blunt to consider though. It may not happen for a while. I have been looking for someone who can understand my brain problem for years. Yes some women are understanding but to find one that will stick around and show compassion is a different ballgame.

Just keep trying and it will happen. Good luck to you.

Well my post could be wrong dude....here is a nice woman waving to you!!! Write her and say hello!!

Go for it...she is cute!

thanx 4 understanding...

There ARE good hearted people out there... here on this site even, I've met a few. People that have understood my "issues"... give 'm a chance and don't let the TBI thing be the center of your convo's... GL and Welcome!!

You don't sound desperate i understand where you are coming from and it is okay there is somebody for everyone. I honestly believe that, and even though it may not happen right now it will. you have to always be optimistic and don't let life run you down cause if you do that then no one will want to be around you. you sound like an alright guy to me get your head up high and don't let people or words or life tear your down your soul.

I had a TBI when I was younger...I'm not having any problems. Why do you think it is because of your TBI? Just curious.

We won't make fun of your marbles.
If you don't make fun of ours.

Ex wife of 17 yrs had TBI. Focus on positive and not the losses or it can poison you.

ok, look... alot of u are saying that there is somebody for everyone, right? well what if I wont "settle" for anyone.... my standards have not lowered, they have acually gone up and they are harder to meet... and since all girls/women want 25ish, rock-hard abs, and the exotic look to him... i cannot compete with that, and i wont 'settle' for anything that dosnt reach my standards... and i have uber-strict standards.

but im to nice i guess, i dont wanna hurt anyones feelings (ive always been that way) so i doubt theres much hope for me... so ill go join the celibacy club... where we all sit around and talk about our deep loathing of women... whateve

theres always booze drugs and prostitues ever thnk of that?

is that what ur looking for?

no