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| Topic: No sex!! Is that ok with you? | |
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Is a wet dream, No sex?
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Is a wet dream, No sex?
Regardless, the little guy's will find a way out! |
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..oh ..there will be sex ,whether it be blow up dolls,knot holes or holes in the drywall ..there will be sex..whether it be with the dog..a dry mop or a watermelon..there will be sex..whether you're having any makes me no difference..as long as i getz minez..  jk
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NOw a blow up Doll, U are talking my language!!
 
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Could you live without sex if everything else in a relationship is great? I'm not asking because I don't want to have it.... just so you know.... : 0 Hard to be in an adult relationship and not have intimate contact. I'm all for more friends though, cuz that's what it would be. |
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Could you live without sex if everything else in a relationship is great? I'm not asking because I don't want to have it.... just so you know.... : 0 Only if I'm a monk who's taken a vow of celibacy ... and y' can't even trust them anymore - knowhutimean ... ? |
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I don't think I could, no.
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Take it from someone who knows. When you go long enough without sex, it becomes something separate from the idea of a relationship. Sure, sex is something that should, in time, be a part of any healthy, loving relationship. However, it isn't what a person really wants from a relationship, a relationship is more about other things. Do I miss having sex? Well, I would miss it more if I could remember it, but what I miss most is feeling close to someone. I miss having someone to talk with. I miss having someone hug me when I'm happy or sad. I miss sharing a laugh, or a knowing look. I miss seeing someone smile just at the sight of me. I miss having someone get excited because just the two of us are doing something together. Sex, well it can be found anywhere. They outright sell it in Nevada and Amsterdam, but it isn't the same as a relationship. It isn't even the most important part. |
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Isn't that called friendship? now you got it right .. might as well be a friend or in the clergy if you're not going to have sexy. there is no bonding between the two..rommates could be a term too..but if you're not having sex why be together .might as well be a hermit someplace..IMO 
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Take it from someone who knows. When you go long enough without sex, it becomes something separate from the idea of a relationship. Sure, sex is something that should, in time, be a part of any healthy, loving relationship. However, it isn't what a person really wants from a relationship, a relationship is more about other things. Do I miss having sex? Well, I would miss it more if I could remember it, but what I miss most is feeling close to someone. I miss having someone to talk with. I miss having someone hug me when I'm happy or sad. I miss sharing a laugh, or a knowing look. I miss seeing someone smile just at the sight of me. I miss having someone get excited because just the two of us are doing something together. Sex, well it can be found anywhere. They outright sell it in Nevada and Amsterdam, but it isn't the same as a relationship. It isn't even the most important part. I agree too....
Just another question though....what if a partner becomes a paraplegic after an accident? Would anyone think of leaving them because they could no longer have sex? |
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Yes. It is OK with me. I think it's the way the Lord wants it, till people are married. Yeah, I know this isn't a common view these days and I've lost a few relationships over my viewpoint. I've tried both ways. When you sleep with someone it draws you close to them, whether your relationship works or not. It can be years till you find out you're incompatible. That's what happened in my first marriage. In my second, we slept together before being married and we were (luckily) compatible. My second wife passed away and I'm trying God's way this time, figuring he knows best and I messed up enough without him before. We will see what happens.
Interesting topic. Another Mingle 2 member pointed me towards this one. She's not wild about my viewpoint but she knows about it and...we....shall....see.....! |
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I agree with what popcornncoke said. Well put.
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The truth??
I was just talkin to a man about this very thing we both were totaly honest we might stay with them as caregiver but We'd cheat!! Sorry I'm honest! 
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Take it from someone who knows. When you go long enough without sex, it becomes something separate from the idea of a relationship. Sure, sex is something that should, in time, be a part of any healthy, loving relationship. However, it isn't what a person really wants from a relationship, a relationship is more about other things. Do I miss having sex? Well, I would miss it more if I could remember it, but what I miss most is feeling close to someone. I miss having someone to talk with. I miss having someone hug me when I'm happy or sad. I miss sharing a laugh, or a knowing look. I miss seeing someone smile just at the sight of me. I miss having someone get excited because just the two of us are doing something together. Sex, well it can be found anywhere. They outright sell it in Nevada and Amsterdam, but it isn't the same as a relationship. It isn't even the most important part. I see sex from two different views. 1.. Lustful sex: The sex you have with a fwb, just meeting, early dating (try it before you buy it), or just to relieve yourself. No passion, no romance. Just lust. In no way do I want this type of sex. 2. The sex that goes along with passion, making love, and an intimate relationship. I agree with the above, sex should be in time part a a loving relationship. That relationship also supplies your need for talking, hugging, sharing a laugh, a knowing look, a smile, and someone who is exciting to be with. PASSION. It is all part of a whole, not the whole. The original poster asked about living without sex when the relationship is great otherwise? Again sex can be a part of the passion and intimate relationship, but is it the most important? Ron msharmoney, I agree with everything you've said on this topic and many others. You are wise. |
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yes...believe it or not..Sex is not everything.
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The truth?? I was just talkin to a man about this very thing we both were totaly honest we might stay with them as caregiver but We'd cheat!! Sorry I'm honest!
Did I mention I'm available ... and easy ... ? |
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I totally agree. but it makes people act in strange ways like most people want to look good to attract the opposite..or same.. whichever one you prefer.
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how long no sex?
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If I could still have intimacy with that person, then yes, I could live without sex.
 Did I really just say that?
But I could not live without both...not for long anyway. (Boy does this topic hit close to home for me!!!) |
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anymore than 2 months is uncalled for
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