Topic: Please unbaffle me!!
Totage's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:05 AM

I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!



They get lonely.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:05 AM


It's cause men are nothing but dirty whores.

:wink: I didn't say that :wink:


Oh...I know you didn't Fran. But hey, I can admit I am a whore....a celebant one.....which is odd.....but hey....in my mind, I am soo tapping chicks.:tongue: laugh laugh

willing2's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:07 AM



It's cause men are nothing but dirty whores.

:wink: I didn't say that :wink:


Maybe 'easy' would be better? I don't think most guys are getting paid...


Hookers get paid.
Whores is free.
Free and easy!drinker

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:09 AM



It's cause men are nothing but dirty whores.

:wink: I didn't say that :wink:


Oh...I know you didn't Fran. But hey, I can admit I am a whore....a celebant one.....which is odd.....but hey....in my mind, I am soo tapping chicks.:tongue: laugh laugh

and I betcha really really really good too laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:09 AM
I know I jumped on the bandwagon to complain about this, but I just suddenly realized that I don't get any dirty emails from strange guys just wanting sex and now I wanna know why! :angry: :angry: :angry:


:tongue: laugh laugh

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:10 AM


I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!



They get lonely.


ok following your response, how would sending an email stating just how "x" likes to please his 'woman' and loves to be pleased help the loneliness?


no photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:10 AM

I know I jumped on the bandwagon to complain about this, but I just suddenly realized that I don't get any dirty emails from strange guys just wanting sex and now I wanna know why! :angry: :angry: :angry:


:tongue: laugh laugh




Sooooo....Do you wanna do it?

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:11 AM




It's cause men are nothing but dirty whores.

:wink: I didn't say that :wink:


Oh...I know you didn't Fran. But hey, I can admit I am a whore....a celebant one.....which is odd.....but hey....in my mind, I am soo tapping chicks.:tongue: laugh laugh

and I betcha really really really good too laugh


I have no equal!:tongue: laugh

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:11 AM

I know I jumped on the bandwagon to complain about this, but I just suddenly realized that I don't get any dirty emails from strange guys just wanting sex and now I wanna know why! :angry: :angry: :angry:


:tongue: laugh laugh



:laughing: I usually never get emails (from M2) but this morning, taaaaadaaaaaaa got one and guess it obviously annoyed the heck outta me. flowerforyou

Totage's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:18 AM



I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!



They get lonely.


ok following your response, how would sending an email stating just how "x" likes to please his 'woman' and loves to be pleased help the loneliness?




If all someone wants is sex, they are most likely feeling some kind of loneliness. But, most of the time that's not what they really need to fix their problem.

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:19 AM




I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!



They get lonely.


ok following your response, how would sending an email stating just how "x" likes to please his 'woman' and loves to be pleased help the loneliness?




If all someone wants is sex, they are most likely feeling some kind of loneliness. But, most of the time that's not what they really need to fix their problem.


not sure that's all he wanted, my complaint is why would anyone with 1/2 of a brain email someone (first contact) with sexual innuendos or information?


Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:19 AM


I know I jumped on the bandwagon to complain about this, but I just suddenly realized that I don't get any dirty emails from strange guys just wanting sex and now I wanna know why! :angry: :angry: :angry:


:tongue: laugh laugh




Sooooo....Do you wanna do it?


Nah, I just wanna b!tch about the fact that I don't get em. :tongue:

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:20 AM





It's cause men are nothing but dirty whores.

:wink: I didn't say that :wink:


Oh...I know you didn't Fran. But hey, I can admit I am a whore....a celebant one.....which is odd.....but hey....in my mind, I am soo tapping chicks.:tongue: laugh laugh

and I betcha really really really good too laugh


I have no equal!:tongue: laugh


tell me more rofl rofl

Totage's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:25 AM





I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!



They get lonely.


ok following your response, how would sending an email stating just how "x" likes to please his 'woman' and loves to be pleased help the loneliness?




If all someone wants is sex, they are most likely feeling some kind of loneliness. But, most of the time that's not what they really need to fix their problem.


not sure that's all he wanted, my complaint is why would anyone with 1/2 of a brain email someone (first contact) with sexual innuendos or information?




I'm sure if he actually got to know you, he would want much more than just sex. Perhaps, that's the problem, they don't have half a brain.

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:27 AM

I'm sure if he actually got to know you, he would want much more than just sex. Perhaps, that's the problem, they don't have half a brain.


blushing aww thank you blushing

no photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:29 AM


I'm sure if he actually got to know you, he would want much more than just sex. Perhaps, that's the problem, they don't have half a brain.


blushing aww thank you blushing



But, but, I can pretend I wanna get to know you.Does that count?

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:32 AM



I'm sure if he actually got to know you, he would want much more than just sex. Perhaps, that's the problem, they don't have half a brain.


blushing aww thank you blushing



But, but, I can pretend I wanna get to know you.Does that count?


sure it counts, I can pretend to be interested as well :wink:

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:34 AM

Sex talk in the first email, or even the first few emails is a big red flag to me. Flirting of the non-sexual variety comes first!


Would you please post an example of a flirtation that isn't sexual. I can't think of what that would be. All forms of flirting I know of are insinuation and double entendre. It's about what you're NOT saying, but implying.

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:36 AM


Sex talk in the first email, or even the first few emails is a big red flag to me. Flirting of the non-sexual variety comes first!


Would you please post an example of a flirtation that isn't sexual. I can't think of what that would be. All forms of flirting I know of are insinuation and double entendre. It's about what you're NOT saying, but implying.


Really? when I meet someone in person my normal response is Hi I'm Frances, nice to meet you.

How do you greet someone you've just met in real life?


TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:40 AM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Mon 01/18/10 10:40 AM



Sex talk in the first email, or even the first few emails is a big red flag to me. Flirting of the non-sexual variety comes first!


Would you please post an example of a flirtation that isn't sexual. I can't think of what that would be. All forms of flirting I know of are insinuation and double entendre. It's about what you're NOT saying, but implying.


Really? when I meet someone in person my normal response is Hi I'm Frances, nice to meet you.

How do you greet someone you've just met in real life?




The same way. But, my eyes might be a little hotter than most. You can say so much with your tone and body without actually saying anything.

But, my question wasn't about that. She said non sexual flirting and I can't think of what that would be. Do you understand it?