Topic: Please unbaffle me!!
Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:40 AM






It's cause men are nothing but dirty whores.

:wink: I didn't say that :wink:


Oh...I know you didn't Fran. But hey, I can admit I am a whore....a celebant one.....which is odd.....but hey....in my mind, I am soo tapping chicks.:tongue: laugh laugh

and I betcha really really really good too laugh


I have no equal!:tongue: laugh


tell me more rofl rofl


I'm soooo good....I wanna do myself!shocked rofl rofl

BonnyMiss's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:40 AM
Now if THAT isn't a red flag that the guy is a swinger.........

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:45 AM


Sex talk in the first email, or even the first few emails is a big red flag to me. Flirting of the non-sexual variety comes first!


Would you please post an example of a flirtation that isn't sexual. I can't think of what that would be. All forms of flirting I know of are insinuation and double entendre. It's about what you're NOT saying, but implying.


True. Non-sexual was the wrong term. How about subtle flirting? Not "I'd really like to bend you over the table and........". That comes later.

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:55 AM



Sex talk in the first email, or even the first few emails is a big red flag to me. Flirting of the non-sexual variety comes first!


Would you please post an example of a flirtation that isn't sexual. I can't think of what that would be. All forms of flirting I know of are insinuation and double entendre. It's about what you're NOT saying, but implying.


True. Non-sexual was the wrong term. How about subtle flirting? Not "I'd really like to bend you over the table and........". That comes later.

:thumbsup:

TexasScoundrel's photo
Mon 01/18/10 11:02 AM



Sex talk in the first email, or even the first few emails is a big red flag to me. Flirting of the non-sexual variety comes first!


Would you please post an example of a flirtation that isn't sexual. I can't think of what that would be. All forms of flirting I know of are insinuation and double entendre. It's about what you're NOT saying, but implying.


True. Non-sexual was the wrong term. How about subtle flirting? Not "I'd really like to bend you over the table and........". That comes later.


I agree. It's has to be implied at first. Something like:

"Why don't we meet for breakfast? I'm an early riser."

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/18/10 01:34 PM


:laughing: :laughing: I love the ones that say they like to go out or stay in :laughing: :laughing: Really?


I try and make up reasons for people's behavior and actions, but WTF.

Hello my name is 'X', I like to please my woman and be pleased. WTF!!! Can't see this introduction going on in real life, yet these nice guys will cry when their emails are not replied to... WTF!!!

slaphead
I always get "mmmmm you have kissable lips. I can't wait to kiss you" scared scared scared

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 02:01 PM
That and the slew of nice guy threads drive me insane shocked

no photo
Mon 01/18/10 02:03 PM
I am somehow baffled by all these unbaffling comments... what

franshade's photo
Mon 01/18/10 03:46 PM

I am somehow baffled by all these unbaffling comments... what

please say it isn't so; you can't be that easily baffled laugh
don't be like me, be better :smile:

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/18/10 04:26 PM
I get chicks sending emails that wanna drink my fluids. Wait....that doesn't sound right.noway laugh

kaadeshka's photo
Mon 01/18/10 08:00 PM

I get chicks sending emails that wanna drink my fluids. Wait....that doesn't sound right.noway laugh


Watch out they're vampires!

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/18/10 09:15 PM


I get chicks sending emails that wanna drink my fluids. Wait....that doesn't sound right.noway laugh


Watch out they're vampires!


But........But......that's kinda HAWT!!laugh laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 01/18/10 09:21 PM

I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!


It all deals with genetics, see...X chromosome went and tainted the water that Y chromosomes swam in, then it started breeding with the Y chromosomes further degrading the gene pool. That is when Igor went and dumped another bucket of cyanide into the gene pool, we all yelled and shouted for him not too, but I don't think any of us really had the motivation to stop him...as we too are all very much tired of the same washed up poetry that is on just about every single dating site profile.

no photo
Mon 01/18/10 09:32 PM
Ooooo....Baracuda. bigsmile

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/18/10 10:13 PM

Ooooo....Baracuda. bigsmile



:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Tue 01/19/10 01:43 AM


I have been wondering why is it that when I receive an email or contact from men, their emails, notes, or other means of communications always include some sort of reference to sex?

* they like to satisfy their woman - wouldn't be my man if ya didn't
* they like to stay home or go out - hmmmm
* the one's that love their kids first and foremost - not interested taking their spot.

Isn't all this information a little premature when first communicating with someone?

Do I really want to hear about how Mr. X loves to satisfy his woman?

Not sure but I see things as always differently; if 'we' were to get to that level it would be pretty flipping (for pg rating) obvious. But I truly don't care how you like to please or be pleased at first chat.

off soap box just annoyed!!!


It all deals with genetics, see...X chromosome went and tainted the water that Y chromosomes swam in, then it started breeding with the Y chromosomes further degrading the gene pool. That is when Igor went and dumped another bucket of cyanide into the gene pool, we all yelled and shouted for him not too, but I don't think any of us really had the motivation to stop him...as we too are all very much tired of the same washed up poetry that is on just about every single dating site profile.


Now I want to name my first born Igor.

CHutch's photo
Tue 01/19/10 04:04 AM
So...I read through this thread, and can't help but be amused. I'm not surprised , as most (not all) guys do think sex first. Basically predators seeking prey. We've civilized mostly but haven't left that part behind, which isn't a bad thing as we do need to repopulate.

But there are a few of us who don't think sex first. I am actually interested in knowing more about potential mates. Yet I give off vibes that make me very uninteresting. Perhaps this is intentional as I'm really not sure I wish to share myself with another. Post divorce baggage yet to clear I suppose.

Anyway, I digress. Predators seeking prey. Thats why. They're just too civilized to go look at a popular street corner, but not civilized enough to know how to properly talk to all of you.

Hope this helps.

mry's photo
Tue 01/19/10 04:29 AM
I guess its why I'm alone. I don't want to hear about sex right off the bat...big turn off!

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Tue 01/19/10 06:38 AM

So...I read through this thread, and can't help but be amused. I'm not surprised , as most (not all) guys do think sex first. Basically predators seeking prey. We've civilized mostly but haven't left that part behind, which isn't a bad thing as we do need to repopulate.

But there are a few of us who don't think sex first. I am actually interested in knowing more about potential mates. Yet I give off vibes that make me very uninteresting. Perhaps this is intentional as I'm really not sure I wish to share myself with another. Post divorce baggage yet to clear I suppose.

Anyway, I digress. Predators seeking prey. Thats why. They're just too civilized to go look at a popular street corner, but not civilized enough to know how to properly talk to all of you.

Hope this helps.


Many women think about sex just as much as men. More men might get what they're looking for if they were able to figure out how to contact women/talk to women without being creepy.

franshade's photo
Tue 01/19/10 08:16 AM
Update and yes I agree with Sings - women and men both think of sex

gripe was that it was attempted at first contact.

Anyway, I must have hurt his feelings for he hasn't responded and deactivated frown why me????


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