Topic: Total Turnoff!!!
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Tue 10/27/09 05:39 PM




think down to earth think


This is often accompanied by the presumably-now-mandated "Laid Back and Easy Going."




"Shy but warm up quickly." That doesn't sound very shy to me, when I was shy years ago, I certainly didn't warm up quickly.


There are a number of variations on this, but they all boil down to the same thing -- "I'm shy at first but I talk a lot more once I get to know you." I think 94.7% of all profiles have this in one form or another.




The opposite is usually true for me, the more I get to know them, the less I like them, so I don't talk much, if at all.laugh

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Tue 10/27/09 05:44 PM





think down to earth think


This is often accompanied by the presumably-now-mandated "Laid Back and Easy Going."




"Shy but warm up quickly." That doesn't sound very shy to me, when I was shy years ago, I certainly didn't warm up quickly.


There are a number of variations on this, but they all boil down to the same thing -- "I'm shy at first but I talk a lot more once I get to know you." I think 94.7% of all profiles have this in one form or another.




The opposite is usually true for me, the more I get to know them, the less I like them, so I don't talk much, if at all.laugh



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Tue 10/27/09 05:45 PM





think down to earth think


This is often accompanied by the presumably-now-mandated "Laid Back and Easy Going."




"Shy but warm up quickly." That doesn't sound very shy to me, when I was shy years ago, I certainly didn't warm up quickly.


There are a number of variations on this, but they all boil down to the same thing -- "I'm shy at first but I talk a lot more once I get to know you." I think 94.7% of all profiles have this in one form or another.




The opposite is usually true for me, the more I get to know them, the less I like them, so I don't talk much, if at all.laugh


It would be nice to see some profiles that DIDN'T incorporate the same dozen cliches every time.

Why must everyone be "laid back and easy going"?? Why can't someone be "fidgity and prone to unpredictable violent outbursts"?


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Tue 10/27/09 05:46 PM
:thumbsup: I'm ugly and proud of it!! :thumbsup:

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Tue 10/27/09 05:46 PM

Anything of a sexual nature...WHY do people insist on making EVERYTHING about sex.

And we wonder why our relationships don't last when we take them out of bed...DUH.

And furthermore screennames that have to do with sex annoy me to no end too...We're adults...let's act like adults instead of a bunch of middle schoolers giggling over the definitions of dirty words in the dictionary.

I'm glad to hear someone else thinks this way. I was beginning to think there was something wrong with my thinking. I love sex as much as the next person, but it doesn't need to be the first things someone tells about themself.

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Tue 10/27/09 05:50 PM


Anything of a sexual nature...WHY do people insist on making EVERYTHING about sex.

And we wonder why our relationships don't last when we take them out of bed...DUH.

And furthermore screennames that have to do with sex annoy me to no end too...We're adults...let's act like adults instead of a bunch of middle schoolers giggling over the definitions of dirty words in the dictionary.

I'm glad to hear someone else thinks this way. I was beginning to think there was something wrong with my thinking. I love sex as much as the next person, but it doesn't need to be the first things someone tells about themself.


Exactly! There is more to a person than simple biology -- or there should be, anyway.

Sex-based screen names always strike me as being a little too transparently desperate -- and if that's all they're looking for, I wouldn't be interested, anyway....


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Tue 10/27/09 05:54 PM


Anything of a sexual nature...WHY do people insist on making EVERYTHING about sex.

And we wonder why our relationships don't last when we take them out of bed...DUH.

And furthermore screennames that have to do with sex annoy me to no end too...We're adults...let's act like adults instead of a bunch of middle schoolers giggling over the definitions of dirty words in the dictionary.

I'm glad to hear someone else thinks this way. I was beginning to think there was something wrong with my thinking. I love sex as much as the next person, but it doesn't need to be the first things someone tells about themself.


Yea I figure someone with so limited thinking is probably equally boreing in bed. Someone who doesn't have any imagination, intelligence, or ability to interact is usually so off rythem, self centered, and just plain lazy it is not even worth the effort.

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Tue 10/27/09 07:29 PM
i may never meet anyone from here again. i likes the mental stimulation. too bad my humor tends to be raunchy, but its all 4 fun. people should write someting they might say when they approach somebody 4 the first time.smokin

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Tue 10/27/09 08:37 PM
What turns me off with a male profile is the 1s that flat out lie. like one guy says hes never been married but he is now for sum that dont matter but when u lie then ur taken that choice away from people. and thats not fair.
i think if ur here 2 meet people and want a real relationship the u should be honest in ur profile
















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Tue 10/27/09 08:53 PM
if somebody just wants sex then they should b upfront about it. they may find somebody who wants the same n then there is no hard feelings. people really are amazing creatures

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Tue 10/27/09 09:00 PM

What are some headlines that would make you NOT want to email someone? Especially if it's a woman's profile?
noway I believe it has to be what I have on mine.......


because THAT is what I get back,,,,,,,no replies...laugh laugh

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Tue 10/27/09 09:14 PM


I really have to ask- does it matter?- they don't read them anyway!! am I right?

I just hate the ones from either gender that mention how good they are in bed- who cares? prove it lol


I'm trying to get ideas for a new headline, so I'm asking. Some do read them and they email me about them, so I'm trying to get ideas that will scare them away.


hahahahaha!!!!! put somethin like older woman with herpes ready to f up ur world! hahaha!!!!

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Tue 10/27/09 09:14 PM

if somebody just wants sex then they should b upfront about it. they may find somebody who wants the same n then there is no hard feelings. people really are amazing creatures


If someone wants just sex, even fetish sex, that really doesn't bother me. Two consenting adults, no fees or consideration involved it is their choice and IMHO none of my business.

But at least have a little class about it. There is a time and a place to be rauncy, graphic, and basicly whatever trips your trigger but in headlines and public profiles I find it offensive. Just as I would believe a man would see man-bashing.

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Tue 10/27/09 09:37 PM
Hellowaving
This whole thing is a trip. Profiles, pictures, etc.
We're here for some reason or another, either to truely find that certain someone, or meeting and establish friendships, fun (forums) or some are here for ... strange reason ...or just BS.
I myself have written and shown the true sides of me... the good and the onry winking
Just remember we all are seeking something.

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Tue 10/27/09 09:38 PM
when they say "lets hook up" an give you their cell phone...wtf?!?! Really? Who does that?

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Tue 10/27/09 09:43 PM
One more "walk on the beach" and I'll Vomit---ill

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Tue 10/27/09 09:51 PM
lol...guessing there are many piles already...ill

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Tue 10/27/09 09:59 PM
... From time to time I switch up my "lines" ..once I was feeling I guess use the word...comical? you know, funny?...anyway, I put down that I was lazy, bossy and set in my ways and other honest traits, or habits? I scare most men anyway...because I'm so self sufficent!
...except for heavy lifting! :laughing: winking

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Tue 10/27/09 11:03 PM

What are some headlines that would make you NOT want to email someone? Especially if it's a woman's profile?


Maybe just say something like, "don't even think about contacting me." i like a saying one friend here has that says something to the effect of "i have no interest in meeting you or anyone else"...HAHA....

that should make them stay away...drinker laugh

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Tue 10/27/09 11:04 PM


What are some headlines that would make you NOT want to email someone? Especially if it's a woman's profile?


Maybe just say something like, "don't even think about contacting me." i like a saying one friend here has that says something to the effect of "i have no interest in meeting you or anyone else"...HAHA....

that should make them stay away...drinker laugh


That might work.drinker