Topic: so guys, what makes...
PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/18/09 01:03 AM

>>> sneaks into unapproachable girl thred, with the prowess of a he-tiger, prowling around beneath the sawgrass, peering into the thread as if there is something to be found...


Gewhiz Telephone man until I read your later post I thought you might be trying to be a little sexy there.

Jess642's photo
Sun 10/18/09 01:03 AM

>>> Gets out pad and paper to write down all the usernames of man-hating, prejudiced women posting in this thread.

>>> Marks them "note to self" permanently non-approachable.


rofl :thumbsup:


If it's any help.... I don't discriminate.....

I dislike everyone equally.flowerforyou

Baabs's photo
Sun 10/18/09 01:05 AM


>>> sneaks into unapproachable girl thred, with the prowess of a he-tiger, prowling around beneath the sawgrass, peering into the thread as if there is something to be found...


Gewhiz Telephone man until I read your later post I thought you might be trying to be a little sexy there.


drinker

TelephoneMan's photo
Sun 10/18/09 01:05 AM


>>> sneaks into unapproachable girl thred, with the prowess of a he-tiger, prowling around beneath the sawgrass, peering into the thread as if there is something to be found...


Gewhiz Telephone man until I read your later post I thought you might be trying to be a little sexy there.


Its just another "why don't people like me" thread, that typically gets visited by people with personality disorders. LOL.

How sexy....

Jess642's photo
Sun 10/18/09 01:07 AM



>>> sneaks into unapproachable girl thred, with the prowess of a he-tiger, prowling around beneath the sawgrass, peering into the thread as if there is something to be found...


Gewhiz Telephone man until I read your later post I thought you might be trying to be a little sexy there.


Its just another "why don't people like me" thread, that typically gets visited by people with personality disorders. LOL.

How sexy....



Hahahaha another case of cyclical logic.....

YOU posted in it, you great pillock!!!! slaphead






PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/18/09 01:14 AM

Cause they're skeeered of us!


Men find women unapproachable, because we dont do the baseball cap tap, the subtle nod, the ball scratch, the adjust the belt shuffle, or the high five.

Women are verbal , men are non verbal ....so they have no idea how to approach a woman who holds direct eye contact, matches their toe to hair visual sweep, and doesn't give off any non verbal cue.





I think you might be on to something there. Unfortuneately many of the ways women used to give visual clues men could pick up on are considered lame now days.

sagacious22's photo
Sun 10/18/09 01:16 AM
what makes women unapproachable?


the death glare

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 10/18/09 10:03 AM




Cause they're skeeered of us!

Men find women unapproachable, because we dont do the baseball cap tap, the subtle nod, the ball scratch, the adjust the belt shuffle, or the high five.

Women are verbal , men are non verbal ....so they have no idea how to approach a woman who holds direct eye contact, matches their toe to hair visual sweep, and doesn't give off any non verbal cue.


Wow....

That is a lot of discriminatory quotes for one girl.

I nearly feel like I need to call the American Civil Liberties Union after that one... LOL.




Go for it!


I'm not American.....


LMAO!!!!!!!rofl


guess that would be a bit of a problem....lmao


No it wouldn't. The ACLU is all ABOUT fighting for people who aren't Americans.

kaadeshka's photo
Sun 10/18/09 10:23 AM


Cause they're skeeered of us!


Men find women unapproachable, because we dont do the baseball cap tap, the subtle nod, the ball scratch, the adjust the belt shuffle, or the high five.

Women are verbal , men are non verbal ....so they have no idea how to approach a woman who holds direct eye contact, matches their toe to hair visual sweep, and doesn't give off any non verbal cue.





I think you might be on to something there. Unfortuneately many of the ways women used to give visual clues men could pick up on are considered lame now days.


What are these visual cues that are lame? I get approached a lot...by all sorts of people but, what is it that I'm doing that makes it okay sometimes and not others?

prisoner's photo
Sun 10/18/09 10:26 AM
A very large boyfriend.scared be seeing you

kaadeshka's photo
Sun 10/18/09 10:28 AM

A very large boyfriend.scared be seeing you


What if he's not my boyfriend? He could be a relative or a friend.

no photo
Sun 10/18/09 10:42 AM
If there is a huge guy next to you it doesn't matter if he is related, a friend, or your vato. It's the fact that he could probably kill with one punch.

kaadeshka's photo
Sun 10/18/09 10:52 AM

If there is a huge guy next to you it doesn't matter if he is related, a friend, or your vato. It's the fact that he could probably kill with one punch.


What guy throws a punch just because some guy is talking to the female he is with (involved with or not)? That's a little jumpy and a wee bit pushy don't you think?

Just because a girl is standing next to a big guy doesn't mean said large man OWNS her. Nevermind that! Do you honestly think that if he could kill with one punch he'd get away with it? A person who could literally kill someone with one punch isn't going to punch a dude just cuz that random dude started talking to the female he's standing next to.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 10/18/09 11:32 AM

...a woman unapproachable to you?









I am gonna be completely honest here....if she has big boobs, I say "No way....not gonna even bother talking or looking at her...those big boobs are just gonna make me vomit!".:tongue: laugh

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 10/18/09 11:45 AM


...a woman unapproachable to you?









I am gonna be completely honest here....if she has big boobs, I say "No way....not gonna even bother talking or looking at her...those big boobs are just gonna make me vomit!".:tongue: laugh



uh huh :tongue:

RKISIT's photo
Sun 10/18/09 02:57 PM

...a woman unapproachable to you?






if they are butt uglyindifferent

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 10/18/09 03:14 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sun 10/18/09 03:15 PM

A very large boyfriend.scared be seeing you


:laughing: You nailed it Prisoner!

When I am out with my friends, I always make sure the guys stand away from me if I see a hottie I want to meet. winking
I don't want anyone thinking I'm "with THAT guy!" slaphead :laughing: My guy friends know better than to kkock block! :laughing:

As a one-on-one example, I think women that avoid eye contact are probably not approachable. That body language is a sure sign that she is not open to meeting someone new.

I can't really say on a larger scale why a woman is deemed untouchable. There are too many variables associated with the curious man as well as the intended object of his affection; esteem issues are at the top of the list.

A lot of times the PEOPLE that seem unapproachable are usually the nicest, warmest people you can meet. Their sense of humilty often gives off signals of snobbery when it's actually shyness. :angel:

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/18/09 03:24 PM



Cause they're skeeered of us!


Men find women unapproachable, because we dont do the baseball cap tap, the subtle nod, the ball scratch, the adjust the belt shuffle, or the high five.

Women are verbal , men are non verbal ....so they have no idea how to approach a woman who holds direct eye contact, matches their toe to hair visual sweep, and doesn't give off any non verbal cue.





I think you might be on to something there. Unfortuneately many of the ways women used to give visual clues men could pick up on are considered lame now days.


What are these visual cues that are lame? I get approached a lot...by all sorts of people but, what is it that I'm doing that makes it okay sometimes and not others?


Well it used to be ok to ask for help to carry something, or have a man pump gas, or even open a door for you now women are so liberated that is considered lame to flirt like that. Men have always known women were strong or skilled but it was part of the social dance to be "helped".

Goofball73's photo
Sun 10/18/09 03:25 PM

...a woman unapproachable to you?








It's funny. My ex told me that the only guys who will talk to any and every woman is the guy who feels he has nothing to lose...and most of the time these guys are "losers". By losers, I mean the guy that will always treat a woman wrong. I actually went to a club with her after she said this and observed, and it is true...guys who are players, who just want the one thing, who will say smooth stuff just to get into her pants, have no fear at all. If she says no, then no loss. Move on to the next one. If you talk (or attempt to talk to) 30 ladies within a night, the chances are high they will get one to believe there lines.

Now, I think that alot of times that when a guy is shy, he is trying to not appear to be a player. I don't think you have to do this. A confident man is sexy to alot of women. I always feel that you just talk, and if she responds, you go from there. If not, no biggie. But, men do hate rejection, so if a woman is really attractive, most men will be fearful of her rejecting them.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/18/09 03:37 PM
I have always wondered why guys will go right past some really normal, average, approriate women who would be glad to say yes for the one show poney in the place knowing they are not going to be any luckier than the last three that tried?