Previous 1
Topic: I'm not sure about this
no photo
Fri 10/02/09 02:20 PM
I have been talking to a guy from a different dating site since the beginning of this week and he wants to meet but I'm not ready and I don't know when is the right time. I don't want to meet too soon or wait too long. We have talked on the phone once and now we only been texting. He asked me twice when I want to hang out and says he want to take me out. We haven't text each other much because I assume he works during the day. He seems like a nice guy but I'm uncertain when to meet up.

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 02:24 PM
Go only when you feel comfortable. Do not let him pressure you. Make sure you meet at a public place.

catseyes1's photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:25 PM

I have been talking to a guy from a different dating site since the beginning of this week and he wants to meet but I'm not ready and I don't know when is the right time. I don't want to meet too soon or wait too long. We have talked on the phone once and now we only been texting. He asked me twice when I want to hang out and says he want to take me out. We haven't text each other much because I assume he works during the day. He seems like a nice guy but I'm uncertain when to meet up.



You have to feel comfortable with the meeting, but I would say if you wait to long you may miss your chance. You never know he could be the one.

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:29 PM
Let him wait... you have to do it at your own comfort level...

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 08:37 PM
If you feel weird about it, don't do it. I let a guy pressure me into meeting him too soon, worst mistake of my life. If he can't wait, screw him, he's not worth your time.

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 10:39 PM
You have only talked on the phone once.
You do not know what hours he works, do you know his occupation?
I think you should wait awhile.flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 10/02/09 10:40 PM
Go with your gut feeling...

TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:11 PM
I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend.

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:14 PM

I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend.



Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea.
I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd spock

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:16 PM


I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend.



Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea.
I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd spock


It is weird, a guy did that to me once, they were both so freaky looking, I just walked out.laugh

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:17 PM



I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend.



Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea.
I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd spock


It is weird, a guy did that to me once, they were both so freaky looking, I just walked out.laugh



laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:25 PM



I say you should meet him. Better to find out now if you two connect berfore you invest too much time. Ask to meet in a place where you feel comfortable. You could even bring a friend.



Bringing a freind for safety is probably a good idea.
I was thinking if a man brought a friend with him to meet me I would think it wierd spock


It is weird, a guy did that to me once, they were both so freaky looking, I just walked out.laugh
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

bohemianbugeater's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:35 PM

Go with your gut feeling...
:thumbsup: ditto

sagacious22's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:39 PM
Think of it like this once you meet, USUALLY things get more serious OR you both go your separate way, so if you don't want to meet this guy yet, then don't. What's the rush? If he makes you actually look forward to meeting him then it will be worth your time.
Good lucksmile2

Winx's photo
Fri 10/02/09 11:39 PM

I have been talking to a guy from a different dating site since the beginning of this week and he wants to meet but I'm not ready and I don't know when is the right time. I don't want to meet too soon or wait too long. We have talked on the phone once and now we only been texting. He asked me twice when I want to hang out and says he want to take me out. We haven't text each other much because I assume he works during the day. He seems like a nice guy but I'm uncertain when to meet up.


That's too soon for me to meet somebody but that's just me.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sat 10/03/09 02:34 AM
Way too soon. You need to be detective or a defense attorney here. Demand some more phone calls, talk more and get a fair assessment of what type of person he is. And then when you do go out, go somewhere fun and innocent like a coffee shop or mini-golf, or a day-date at the mall. You have that gut-feeling, then make him jump through some hoops, and be sure that you want to date him. Worse case scenario, it's only one date, you gave it a shot.

Englishrose2's photo
Sat 10/03/09 02:42 AM

Go only when you feel comfortable. Do not let him pressure you. Make sure you meet at a public place.


Words of wisdom....and let your family and friends know where you are going and the place you are meeting the guy, but any doubts then dont go hun. Anna x

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 10/03/09 02:48 AM
Go only when YOU feel ready

Don't rush it!!

Maybe you should know more about him first though!!!

jon46410's photo
Sat 10/03/09 02:49 AM
When it comes to a first meeting (I recomend at least a few) you should meet in a very public area like restaurants and malls. If he wants to take you somewhere you drive and follow him. Do this till you find out what he's really like and you feel comfortable with him. Goodluck.

SexyDannilicious's photo
Sat 10/03/09 03:32 AM
Edited by SexyDannilicious on Sat 10/03/09 03:32 AM

Go with your gut feeling...

i Agree :smile:

Previous 1