So... im in college and this guy is soooo confusing. Last year he took me out twice and things went great... then i didn't hear back from him the entire summer. (except for 1 'whats up' text)... So the other day he asks me if i want to 'hang out' bc we talked for a few secs at a party last week and we seem to get along really well. I went, thinking that since he hasn't talked to me in six months, hanging out would mean going to a party or smthg with him... turns out we went out to dinner (which i paid for, cuz he got the last two times) and then rented a movie. So movie over and we had a great time, great convo's and everything, and im thinking hes goin to take me home. then he pops in a lost episode i never saw, and i still haven't seen, bc hes all over me the whole time... not that i really objected. But before he could get me in his room i said it was late and time to go home, so home it was. Now, its a week later and haven't heard from him again. So, what do u think? Is he just not that into me and lookin for a piece of as', or is it smthg else?

It sounds like he just want to have a good time and not commitment or long term relationship. Sounds like a player to me and maybe was lonely and would just want company to kill his time and loneliness. I I could be wrong. But if It was me, I would just X him and move on... life is too short to wait and linger with someone who has a different agenda than yours..Buh bye for me....

Yeah, sounds like most the classless fellows here in Utah. Some guys just don't have any character and think that we want what they want. If you like hanging out with this guy you're gonna have to establish clear boundaries, If he makes you uncomfortable, then forget him. He probably thinks his actions make up for not having a personality

dude's tryin to get laid.

so if that's what you want... have at it. if not... don't worry about it until he contacts you again. let him know you're not down.

unless you are.

then really.. have at it. LOL

Pffffffft! Booty call...dump the chump.

One question: Did he actually ASK you to pay for dinner when HE was the one who asked you out?

Being a man(I think anyway) this guy is looking for ONE thing, and honey I promise U it starts with an A and ends with an S, kick him to the curb!!

well...uh hmmmm this is kind of an easy one..he just wanted a piece of azz

DUMP HIM

The fact that he took so long to get back in touch with you the first time should have been a red flag. When a guy makes a point of ignoring me, I take it as disinterest and move on, by the time he comes back, oh well, too little, too late. Sounds like he was trying for an easy piece and once he realized you're not a slut, he moved on. As he should have. Next time, ignore him.

Booty call

Yep, well, a failed attempt anyway.

LOL, that's when you know you suck

About the time to wear a t-shirt that says "I'm doing it wrong constantly".

I'd love that shirt, then people would wonder, well, more than they already do, of course...

Don't know you...but I know you're better than him! hA ockey player..He shoots...he scores! Good block...find someone that is there for you consistently...not when he just wants to get laid!
Good luck!

I'm going to get a shirt like that! I'm going to make it pink too.

Time to move on, And I think the guy owes you some money for the date!

He is trying to get into your pants hon. Nothing is wrong with that, unless you don't want to.