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all four together is about tolerance ,acceptance,learning to fit together in a honest way, nothing to do with saying change for me
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others 
Humans tend to be selfish, poor communicators, and rather lazy. Humanity has no space in its "busy" schedule maintaining its own selfish ideology for a relationship. Most, not all people are ultimately useless. Therefore love cannot exist, not now anyway...maybe once it did. |
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Compromise is an agreement that is achieved after everyone involved accepts less than what they wanted at first, or the act of making this agreement.
I am suggesting that in a loving relationship neither person asks for a compromise. But, simply accepts the other person for who they are. If your man is forgetful no amount of compromise will ever change him because he isn't doing it on purpose. Demanding he change will only make both people unhappy. It's better to accept his forgetfulness and love him for his other qualities. |
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Compromise is an agreement that is achieved after everyone involved accepts less than what they wanted at first, or the act of making this agreement. I am suggesting that in a loving relationship neither person asks for a compromise. But, simply accepts the other person for who they are. If your man is forgetful no amount of compromise will ever change him because he isn't doing it on purpose. Demanding he change will only make both people unhappy. It's better to accept his forgetfulness and love him for his other qualities. |
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others
there should be more men on this planet likr you bedlum!!!
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others
Humans tend to be selfish, poor communicators, and rather lazy. Humanity has no space in its "busy" schedule maintaining its own selfish ideology for a relationship. Most, not all people are ultimately useless. Therefore love cannot exist, not now anyway...maybe once it did. It is harder today, far more problems in the world...divorce percentage climbs every year, children born to younger and younger families. It's all really lust under the veil of love, most I think just grin and bear it for any number of different reasons...usually children. Either way you look at it almost everyone fails at one or more of those requirements, most fail at communications (honesty), I figure people don't really like honesty it is just something they are trained to say by the other void profiles on internet dating sites. Actually I think that applies to just about everyone, people expect honesty to be on this high totem of values...so people just say they like it even though they don't. |
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i just know im open enough and have enough compassion to really care what my girls like and dislikes are and if i dont know id want her to let me know "hey that hurt my feelings or i really didnt like that" i appreciate that honesty and personaly like to return it by listening
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i just know im open enough and have enough compassion to really care what my girls like and dislikes are and if i dont know id want her to let me know "hey that hurt my feelings or i really didnt like that" i appreciate that honesty and personaly like to return it by listening Honesty doesn't exist, happy hunting. |
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cooperation
coexistence compassion commonsense consolidation if you achieved those congratulations |
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others
Humans tend to be selfish, poor communicators, and rather lazy. Humanity has no space in its "busy" schedule maintaining its own selfish ideology for a relationship. Most, not all people are ultimately useless. Therefore love cannot exist, not now anyway...maybe once it did. It is harder today, far more problems in the world...divorce percentage climbs every year, children born to younger and younger families. It's all really lust under the veil of love, most I think just grin and bear it for any number of different reasons...usually children. Either way you look at it almost everyone fails at one or more of those requirements, most fail at communications (honesty), I figure people don't really like honesty it is just something they are trained to say by the other void profiles on internet dating sites. Actually I think that applies to just about everyone, people expect honesty to be on this high totem of values...so people just say they like it even though they don't. |
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others
there should be more men on this planet likr you bedlum!!!
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cooperation coexistence compassion commonsense consolidation if you achieved those congratulations 
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cooperation coexistence compassion commonsense consolidation if you achieved those congratulations
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Your four Cs are making a loving relationship into some kind of business deal. Love doesn't work that way.
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compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up communication..like honesty commitment...you know faithfulness trust compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the others
Humans tend to be selfish, poor communicators, and rather lazy. Humanity has no space in its "busy" schedule maintaining its own selfish ideology for a relationship. Most, not all people are ultimately useless. Therefore love cannot exist, not now anyway...maybe once it did. It is harder today, far more problems in the world...divorce percentage climbs every year, children born to younger and younger families. It's all really lust under the veil of love, most I think just grin and bear it for any number of different reasons...usually children. Either way you look at it almost everyone fails at one or more of those requirements, most fail at communications (honesty), I figure people don't really like honesty it is just something they are trained to say by the other void profiles on internet dating sites. Actually I think that applies to just about everyone, people expect honesty to be on this high totem of values...so people just say they like it even though they don't. Not all, Fear. Not all.... and Love is here.... it never went anywhere....it's just humans created a contrived version of it. Some of us remember how to... 
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Edited by
bedlum1
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Tue 09/22/09 08:40 PM
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Your four Cs are making a loving relationship into some kind of business deal. Love doesn't work that way. |
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Maybe you're right. Maybe I don't understand. But, I'm a quick learner. Please, educate me.
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Your four Cs are making a loving relationship into some kind of business deal. Love doesn't work that way. 1 There is no compassion in business so that completely takes us away from business 2 If you learn to coexist then little things become insignificant. There is a difference between coexisting and compromising and if you don't know the difference then I suggest you look elsewhere as i don't intend to start classes. 3 Cooperation of the two people is the opposite of confrontation. In order to achieve goals in life together you need that which in part is the "goodwill" of the pair 4 As for consolidation this is if people are going to move in and how they are going to organize their individual asserts so that the net effect maximizes the benefit to one another. If you understand and achieve this then congratulations and if not condolences Amen |
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crap
constipation cursing condolences |
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couscous
crying chronological order count chocula cereal 
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