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Topic: the 4 c's to a real relationship
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Thu 09/24/09 01:18 PM


compassion...not just fake interest or what ever shuts you up
communication..like honesty
commitment...you know faithfulness trust
compromise...as in unselfishness a happy medium

but it takes two to do it right. a break down in one leads to problems in the othersflowerforyou flowerforyou


I think I would add courtesy. It implys a lot but the core of it is that you treat the other with respect and kindness.

I think many people will see any of the C's as being weak or making themself vunerable. To some extent that is true because it does require a certain level of a "C" that is not listed; Confidence;that the person you love actually finds you loveable and will not abuse your effort to be compassionate, communicate, compromise, and be committed to the relationship.
FITS UNDER COMPASSIONflowerforyou

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