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Topic: HELP!
Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:40 PM
If ya just met someone

And he's only an hour or so away

Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together
After like only two days of talking

He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared

HELP!

Jess642's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:42 PM
Scared of what?

Making a new friend?


Sheesh!


When he picks you up sms his rego plates (number plates) to a friend and make and model of the bike, and go have fun!!!!!!!!!!

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:42 PM
Make sure it's public.Maybe third or fourth go for a ride.Jmo.Trust your gut soldierlaugh flowerforyou

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:43 PM
I would meet him someplace public first and see if there is any wierdness first before getting into a car with him.

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:44 PM
well me being me id wait a few more days but if you decided to go make sure its very public and leave yourself an escape plan let people know where you are going

no photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:44 PM
I would meet him in a very public place (UNLESS it is me, them I would go ANYWHERE he would take ya!!):wink: :heart:

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:44 PM
Edited by AGoodGuy1026 on Thu 08/27/09 03:45 PM
afternoon ride in his car when you don't know him? uhmmm, personally I would recommend something public and a little more safe for you...

me? I like to meet because I do not like e-mail or phone very much (plus you can only get a feel for someones personality by meeting them)... but I always go to a public place... so everyone's personal safety is respected...

if he has a problem with you modifying the plans... uhm... small flag??

chickayoshi's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:46 PM
What everyone says. flowerforyou Meet publicly first before deciding on a drive for the day. And yes, tell a close friend what type of car he drives just in case. Just to be on the safe side, you know?

Jess642's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:46 PM
Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing...


Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!!


Think ill of everyone, and just stay small...


WTF is this??? Really???

Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo???

If so, then so are you!!!


This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!

:angry:

Ok...hopping off my soapbox now...ohwell :laughing:

no photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:47 PM

If ya just met someone

And he's only an hour or so away

Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together
After like only two days of talking

He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared

HELP!
Meet him in a public place,tell someone where your going and his name and most of all have a nice timeflowerforyou

newarkjw's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:48 PM

If ya just met someone

And he's only an hour or so away

Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together
After like only two days of talking

He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared

HELP!


Just voice your concerns to him. I am sure he could understand and respect your concerns......smokin

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:51 PM

Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing...


Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!!


Think ill of everyone, and just stay small...


WTF is this??? Really???

Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo???

If so, then so are you!!!


This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!

:angry:

Ok...hopping off my soapbox now...ohwell :laughing:


There's a big difference between taking a risk and being just plain ole stupid.

Jess642's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:54 PM


Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing...


Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!!


Think ill of everyone, and just stay small...


WTF is this??? Really???

Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo???

If so, then so are you!!!


This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!

:angry:

Ok...hopping off my soapbox now...ohwell :laughing:


There's a big difference between taking a risk and being just plain ole stupid.



SO what the heck is everyone insinuating, that Tammi is incapable of keeping her personal safety?


I find most of the responses patronising...I have way more regard for Tammi than stating the obvious....

no photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:54 PM

If ya just met someone

And he's only an hour or so away

Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together
After like only two days of talking

He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared

HELP!


I think your a good judge of character so if in your eyes he seems to be an ok guy go for it but always be careful with new people and go where you are not alone.

Quietman_2009's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:55 PM
do it

just make sure you're packin heat

just in case

southern_bee's photo
Thu 08/27/09 03:57 PM
bring a taser lol

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 08/27/09 04:00 PM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Thu 08/27/09 04:01 PM
I ask because I have not dated in literally years. Or even really met many men

I've Been busy raising kids

So itis all new to me

And I'm a tough old broad. But everythings changed with the Internet and everything

I'm just learning this whole dating thing. And yes I'm the first to admit it is damn ****in scary to me!!! Really!!
It's so easy behind the computer!

Mystique42's photo
Thu 08/27/09 04:00 PM
I definitely wouldn't recommend going anywhere with someone you don't know. People may seem nice, but some are not always what they appear to be. I would make the first few meetings public ones, but that's just my opinion.

no photo
Thu 08/27/09 04:01 PM

I ask because I have not dated in literally years. Or even really met many men

I've Been busy raising kids

So of is all new to me

And I'm a tough old broad. But everythings changed with the Internet and everything

I'm just learning this whole dating thing. And yes I'm the first to admit it is damn ****in scary to me!!! Really!!
Good luck 2 yaflowerforyou

newarkjw's photo
Thu 08/27/09 04:03 PM

Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing...


Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!!


Think ill of everyone, and just stay small...


WTF is this??? Really???

Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo???

If so, then so are you!!!


This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!

:angry:

Ok...hopping off my soapbox now...ohwell :laughing:


Bad day?.......smokin

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