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If ya just met someone
And he's only an hour or so away Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together After like only two days of talking He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared HELP! |
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Scared of what?
Making a new friend? Sheesh! When he picks you up sms his rego plates (number plates) to a friend and make and model of the bike, and go have fun!!!!!!!!!! |
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Make sure it's public.Maybe third or fourth go for a ride.Jmo.Trust your gut soldier
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I would meet him someplace public first and see if there is any wierdness first before getting into a car with him.
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well me being me id wait a few more days but if you decided to go make sure its very public and leave yourself an escape plan let people know where you are going
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I would meet him in a very public place (UNLESS it is me, them I would go ANYWHERE he would take ya!!)
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Edited by
AGoodGuy1026
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Thu 08/27/09 03:45 PM
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afternoon ride in his car when you don't know him? uhmmm, personally I would recommend something public and a little more safe for you...
me? I like to meet because I do not like e-mail or phone very much (plus you can only get a feel for someones personality by meeting them)... but I always go to a public place... so everyone's personal safety is respected... if he has a problem with you modifying the plans... uhm... small flag?? |
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What everyone says. Meet publicly first before deciding on a drive for the day. And yes, tell a close friend what type of car he drives just in case. Just to be on the safe side, you know?
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Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing...
Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!! Think ill of everyone, and just stay small... WTF is this??? Really??? Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo??? If so, then so are you!!! This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!! Ok...hopping off my soapbox now... |
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If ya just met someone And he's only an hour or so away Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together After like only two days of talking He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared HELP! |
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If ya just met someone And he's only an hour or so away Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together After like only two days of talking He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared HELP! Just voice your concerns to him. I am sure he could understand and respect your concerns...... |
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Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing... Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!! Think ill of everyone, and just stay small... WTF is this??? Really??? Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo??? If so, then so are you!!! This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!! Ok...hopping off my soapbox now... There's a big difference between taking a risk and being just plain ole stupid. |
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Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing... Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!! Think ill of everyone, and just stay small... WTF is this??? Really??? Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo??? If so, then so are you!!! This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!! Ok...hopping off my soapbox now... There's a big difference between taking a risk and being just plain ole stupid. SO what the heck is everyone insinuating, that Tammi is incapable of keeping her personal safety? I find most of the responses patronising...I have way more regard for Tammi than stating the obvious.... |
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If ya just met someone And he's only an hour or so away Is it good to make plans to see each other for just an afternoon ride together After like only two days of talking He seems nice. He likes me. I like him But I'm scared HELP! I think your a good judge of character so if in your eyes he seems to be an ok guy go for it but always be careful with new people and go where you are not alone. |
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do it
just make sure you're packin heat just in case |
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bring a taser lol
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Edited by
Gossipmpm
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Thu 08/27/09 04:01 PM
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I ask because I have not dated in literally years. Or even really met many men
I've Been busy raising kids So itis all new to me And I'm a tough old broad. But everythings changed with the Internet and everything I'm just learning this whole dating thing. And yes I'm the first to admit it is damn ****in scary to me!!! Really!! It's so easy behind the computer! |
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I definitely wouldn't recommend going anywhere with someone you don't know. People may seem nice, but some are not always what they appear to be. I would make the first few meetings public ones, but that's just my opinion.
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I ask because I have not dated in literally years. Or even really met many men I've Been busy raising kids So of is all new to me And I'm a tough old broad. But everythings changed with the Internet and everything I'm just learning this whole dating thing. And yes I'm the first to admit it is damn ****in scary to me!!! Really!! |
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Geeeeeeez....or stay small...stay scared of the what ifs...and do nothing... Life is a risk!!!!!!!! Walking out your door is a risk!!!!!!! Think ill of everyone, and just stay small... WTF is this??? Really??? Is every single person a rapist, psycho weirdo??? If so, then so are you!!! This is why most of you are single....cause you think the worst of EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!! Ok...hopping off my soapbox now... Bad day?....... |
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