Topic: Meant To Be Alone?
Ruth34611's photo
Sat 08/29/09 05:39 AM



:heart:Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?:heart:


No one is meant to be alone. Just like no one was meant to not have a roof over their heads or enough food to eat. Unfortunately, it's just the way life is sometimes.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 08/29/09 05:40 AM

Let me phrase it a little differently -- I have yet to run across anybody who I'd rather be with than be alone.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think being alone is the best-case scenario possible, but it's better than any of the alternatives I've run into so far.






Ditto.

peppydog50's photo
Sat 08/29/09 05:42 AM
I agree with what Ruth said

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 08/29/09 07:41 PM




:heart:Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?:heart:


No one is meant to be alone. Just like no one was meant to not have a roof over their heads or enough food to eat. Unfortunately, it's just the way life is sometimes.
flowerforyou

misswright's photo
Sat 08/29/09 09:07 PM



:heart:Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?:heart:


Yes, anything's possible. :wink:

I personally believe it is, and I am.

I was born into the world alone, will be buried alone, why not walk the path of life alone? Is it meant to be? Don't know for sure, but I figure if I was meant to be with someone, I would be. Apparently I'm not.ohwell





TxsSun's photo
Sat 08/29/09 09:26 PM
I will always be alone but never lonely!

heartbreaker123's photo
Sat 08/29/09 09:54 PM


Let me phrase it a little differently -- I have yet to run across anybody who I'd rather be with than be alone.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think being alone is the best-case scenario possible, but it's better than any of the alternatives I've run into so far.






Ditto.
flowerforyou :heart: i say Ditto as well and have 2 agree.i like bein alone sometime's.and u can b n a rm full of folk's and still b lonley:angel: winking

Jhavez's photo
Sat 08/29/09 10:05 PM
(((Suzanne waving ))))


heartbreaker123's photo
Sat 08/29/09 10:24 PM

(((Suzanne waving ))) (((((((((Jesswaving ))))))))))))how r u? me recouping from surg bein bored 2 death can not do notta not even drivegrumble

Jtevans's photo
Sat 08/29/09 10:28 PM



:heart:Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?:heart:



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Jhavez's photo
Sat 08/29/09 10:31 PM


(((Suzanne waving ))) (((((((((Jesswaving ))))))))))))how r u? me recouping from surg bein bored 2 death can not do notta not even drivegrumble


I am fine Suzanne, noticed you posting on the board, and thought I would drop you a hello. Hope you feel better flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 08/29/09 10:32 PM
I think that being alone is more of a choice...than anything. If you choose to be alone you will be. If you do not want to be alone then it is up to you to change you situation and circumstance. It is equally important to improve you social activity inorder to increase you chances of changing you situation. This might be looking into Church activities or other community related activities. Or maybe at work you have a activity board that has fun things to do. Don't be afraid to try something new and expand your horizons...:smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/30/09 12:06 PM

I think that being alone is more of a choice...than anything. If you choose to be alone you will be. If you do not want to be alone then it is up to you to change you situation and circumstance. It is equally important to improve you social activity inorder to increase you chances of changing you situation. This might be looking into Church activities or other community related activities. Or maybe at work you have a activity board that has fun things to do. Don't be afraid to try something new and expand your horizons...:smile:
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bedlum1's photo
Sun 08/30/09 02:37 PM



:heart:Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?:heart:
im a firm believer that there is someone for everyone, and you normally find them when your not looking and in the least likely place.
have patience,be yourself,and live life it will comedrinker

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/30/09 02:44 PM
I do ok on my own (mentally) .... I do feel lonely sometimes (physically) pitchfork

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sun 08/30/09 02:47 PM




:heart:Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?:heart:
im a firm believer that there is someone for everyone, and you normally find them when your not looking and in the least likely place.
have patience,be yourself,and live life it will comedrinker


You got it. When we're out looking there's something in our aura that sends a scary vibe to those around us. Shine it on and it will happen. {Easier said than done.}

miko1960's photo
Sun 08/30/09 02:52 PM
We tell others and even ourselves that we have no problem being alone and that some of us even prefer it,I think we are only lying to ourselves to make ourselves feel better I for one don't like being alone, well at least some of the time.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 08/30/09 03:20 PM
I don't really feel anyone is meant to be alone but sometimes after the heart has been wounded it needs some time and a gentle spirit to heal and really be healthy enough to offer love to someone new.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/30/09 07:53 PM

I do ok on my own (mentally) .... I do feel lonely sometimes (physically) pitchfork
flowerforyou

FisitMan's photo
Sun 08/30/09 08:35 PM
"Meant" can have a dozen meanings. Whether or not we're 'meant' to be alone is up for debate - as is obvious in this thread. But some of us are destined to be alone. That's just how it is.frown