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You have a choice over being alone or being with someone. Want to be with someone? Go ask someone on a date. It sounds good, but there are circumstances in which it's just not possible to do so. Which are for example? Well, I'm living in a town where I don't know anybody, and I have no transportation to go anywhere else. Since my car accident in February, I've basically been abandoned by everyone I knew in real life. I have no options for meeting anyone in real life. Ergo, no one to ask on a date. That really sucks! What kind of people abandon someone who needs help??? 
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You have a choice over being alone or being with someone. Want to be with someone? Go ask someone on a date. It sounds good, but there are circumstances in which it's just not possible to do so. Which are for example? Well, I'm living in a town where I don't know anybody, and I have no transportation to go anywhere else. Since my car accident in February, I've basically been abandoned by everyone I knew in real life. I have no options for meeting anyone in real life. Ergo, no one to ask on a date. That sucks man. You all good now or still recovering? I don't know the whole story, maybe I shouldn't even ask. I'm new, forgive me! Just my opinion, what the helll do I know - BUT_ clearly there will be time frames in your life where there is obstacles. If I'm banged up from a car accident and need to recover and need to figure things out where I can own a vehicle again - those issues take precedence and I'm not very concerned about dating anyway. I would take care of my personal struggles, once they are gone and done with, then I try to involve someone else in my life. Maybe that doesn't make sense. There are times it probably is tough - but you are on this site while you are in a town where you don't meet people - you can meet someone here, no? |
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Edited by
willing2
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Wed 08/26/09 11:11 AM
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Yep. I believe I am one of those people. 
I can see two reasons I'd have to leave you living alone. 1. You are almost young enough to be my Granddaughter. 
2. You live in another country. 
You'll do fine, young lady. Just figgure out why you attract and/or are attracted to the type of men you eventually have prblems with. When you do that, you can avoid the attraction. |
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 Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
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I don't think anyone is meant to be alone. There is someone for everybody... whether or not you find those people is a matter of chance!
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Yep. I believe I am one of those people.
I can see two reasons I'd have to leave you living alone. 1. You are almost young enough to be my Granddaughter.
2. You live in another country.
You'll do fine, young lady. Just figgure out why you attract and/or are attracted to the type of men you eventually have prblems with. When you do that, you can avoid the attraction. So true. Words of wisdom.
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
  
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
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That sucks man. You all good now or still recovering? I don't know the whole story, maybe I shouldn't even ask. I'm new, forgive me! It's been a hell of a year -- major back injuries from the car crash -- followed by a nasty little bacterial infection and lots and lots of Cipro -- and watch out for THAT stuff, it comes with three pages of side-effects! -- but I'm planning on playing hockey this winter, if it all works out right.... Just my opinion, what the helll do I know - BUT_ clearly there will be time frames in your life where there is obstacles. If I'm banged up from a car accident and need to recover and need to figure things out where I can own a vehicle again - those issues take precedence and I'm not very concerned about dating anyway. Right, that makes sense to me, and I've given up on the whole dating/relationship thing anyway -- not because of my injuries or anything, just because I got tired of having nothing but horrible and disappointing entanglements all my life -- I would take care of my personal struggles, once they are gone and done with, then I try to involve someone else in my life. Well, it's kind of a moot point now....!! Maybe that doesn't make sense. There are times it probably is tough - but you are on this site while you are in a town where you don't meet people - you can meet someone here, no? That's what I was hoping when I signed up, back in December of 2006 -- but it hasn't worked out that way. |
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I am beginning to get that feeling...
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That sucks man. You all good now or still recovering? I don't know the whole story, maybe I shouldn't even ask. I'm new, forgive me! It's been a hell of a year -- major back injuries from the car crash -- followed by a nasty little bacterial infection and lots and lots of Cipro -- and watch out for THAT stuff, it comes with three pages of side-effects! -- but I'm planning on playing hockey this winter, if it all works out right.... Just my opinion, what the helll do I know - BUT_ clearly there will be time frames in your life where there is obstacles. If I'm banged up from a car accident and need to recover and need to figure things out where I can own a vehicle again - those issues take precedence and I'm not very concerned about dating anyway. Right, that makes sense to me, and I've given up on the whole dating/relationship thing anyway -- not because of my injuries or anything, just because I got tired of having nothing but horrible and disappointing entanglements all my life -- I would take care of my personal struggles, once they are gone and done with, then I try to involve someone else in my life. Well, it's kind of a moot point now....!! Maybe that doesn't make sense. There are times it probably is tough - but you are on this site while you are in a town where you don't meet people - you can meet someone here, no? That's what I was hoping when I signed up, back in December of 2006 -- but it hasn't worked out that way. Seem like a good dude to me. I'm just a young new punk on the site, so what do i know! if you get to that point, as long as you are happy, if you are not with someone, then F it. be alone. |
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
But I don't think there's any sort of supernatural intent involved. ah so rude ! ... Years and years only this reason was keeping my dreams and hope ... 
And now ???? Who to blame ????!!! 
 
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
But I don't think there's any sort of supernatural intent involved. ah so rude ! ... Years and years only this reason was keeping my dreams and hope ...
And now ???? Who to blame ????!!!
Blame....hmmmm.... Let me elaborate a little! "Meant" -- OK, but "meant" by who or what? There's my problem....the issue of intent, of determination, of decision -- who or what establishes what is "meant"? There is no one, no thing. It's all circumstantial. Blame the sun for fusing hydrogen into helium. Is there an "intent" there? Does the sun do this consciously, with an awareness of the process? It's hard for me to see it that way.... |
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
But I don't think there's any sort of supernatural intent involved. ah so rude ! ... Years and years only this reason was keeping my dreams and hope ...
And now ???? Who to blame ????!!!
Blame....hmmmm.... Let me elaborate a little! "Meant" -- OK, but "meant" by who or what? There's my problem....the issue of intent, of determination, of decision -- who or what establishes what is "meant"? There is no one, no thing. It's all circumstantial. Blame the sun for fusing hydrogen into helium. Is there an "intent" there? Does the sun do this consciously, with an awareness of the process? It's hard for me to see it that way.... 
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
But I don't think there's any sort of supernatural intent involved. ah so rude ! ... Years and years only this reason was keeping my dreams and hope ...
And now ???? Who to blame ????!!!
Blame....hmmmm.... Let me elaborate a little! "Meant" -- OK, but "meant" by who or what? There's my problem....the issue of intent, of determination, of decision -- who or what establishes what is "meant"? There is no one, no thing. It's all circumstantial. Blame the sun for fusing hydrogen into helium. Is there an "intent" there? NOOOOOOOO ITS JUST THE SUNS WAY OF FARTING.............Does the sun do this consciously, with an awareness of the process? It's hard for me to see it that way....
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
But I don't think there's any sort of supernatural intent involved. ah so rude ! ... Years and years only this reason was keeping my dreams and hope ...
And now ???? Who to blame ????!!!
Blame....hmmmm.... Let me elaborate a little! "Meant" -- OK, but "meant" by who or what? There's my problem....the issue of intent, of determination, of decision -- who or what establishes what is "meant"? There is no one, no thing. It's all circumstantial. Blame the sun for fusing hydrogen into helium. Is there an "intent" there? Does the sun do this consciously, with an awareness of the process? It's hard for me to see it that way.... pleaaaaaaaaaase .. I need this "meant" !! Leave it .. leave it this hope to me ...or I'll start to think that I'm so bad that no one wants me ...  
P.S. but God knows I'm sooo sweet/ but only he ... huh /
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raises hand!
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raises hand!FOR TRACTOR,,,,,,,,,, |
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Edited by
Quietman_2009
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Thu 08/27/09 01:45 PM
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_P-v1BVQn8 In a little while from now If I’m not feeling any less sour I promise myself to treat myself And visit a nearby tower And climbing to the top will throw myself off In an effort to make it clear to who Ever what it’s like when you’re shattered Left standing in the lurch at a church Where people saying: "My God, that’s tough She's stood him up" No point in us remaining We may as well go home As I did on my own Alone again, naturally To think that only yesterday I was cheerful, bright and gay Looking forward to well wouldn’t do The role I was about to play But as if to knock me down Reality came around And without so much, as a mere touch Cut me into little pieces Leaving me to doubt Talk about God and His mercy Or if He really does exist Why did He desert me in my hour of need I truly am indeed Alone again, naturally It seems to me that there are more hearts broken in the world that can’t be mended Left unattended What do we do? What do we do? Alone again, naturally Now looking back over the years And whatever else that appears I remember I cried when my father died Never wishing to hide the tears And at sixty-five years old My mother, God rest her soul, Couldn’t understand why the only man She had ever loved had been taken Leaving her to start with a heart so badly broken Despite encouragement from me No words were ever spoken And when she passed away I cried and cried all day Alone again, naturally Alone again, naturally |
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Is it possible that some people were just meant to be alone?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_P-v1BVQn8 In a little while from now If I’m not feeling any less sour I promise myself to treat myself And visit a nearby tower And climbing to the top will throw myself off In an effort to make it clear to who Ever what it’s like when you’re shattered Left standing in the lurch at a church Where people saying: "My God, that’s tough She's stood him up" No point in us remaining We may as well go home As I did on my own Alone again, naturally To think that only yesterday I was cheerful, bright and gay Looking forward to well wouldn’t do The role I was about to play But as if to knock me down Reality came around And without so much, as a mere touch Cut me into little pieces Leaving me to doubt Talk about God and His mercy Or if He really does exist Why did He desert me in my hour of need I truly am indeed Alone again, naturally It seems to me that there are more hearts broken in the world that can’t be mended Left unattended What do we do? What do we do? Alone again, naturally Now looking back over the years And whatever else that appears I remember I cried when my father died Never wishing to hide the tears And at sixty-five years old My mother, God rest her soul, Couldn’t understand why the only man She had ever loved had been taken Leaving her to start with a heart so badly broken Despite encouragement from me No words were ever spoken And when she passed away I cried and cried all day Alone again, naturally Alone again, naturally This is for all the lonely people Thinking that life has passed them by Dont give up until you drink from the silver cup And ride that highway in the sky This is for all the single people Thinking that love has left them dry Dont give up until you drink from the silver cup You never know until you try Well, Im on my way Yes, Im back to stay Well, Im on my way back home This is for all the lonely people Thinking that life has passed them by Dont give up until you drink from the silver cup And never take you down or never give you up You never know until you try |
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