Topic: people lying about their looks
transientmind's photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:33 AM
<---That's really me, as of this week.


No, I don't look exactly like that in person.

no photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:33 AM

Why would ya lie about what ya look like?

I can't even begin to wonder why

My man met me on here while I had no pic. He fell in love with me. After a coupla weeks I sent him a pic

It was the icing on the cake he said

Anyway. I've never seen a truly. (ugly?) person

I mean who's to say?:heart:


how u no see a truly ugly person Tammy? they are freakin everywhere!

transientmind's photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:35 AM


Why would ya lie about what ya look like?

I can't even begin to wonder why

My man met me on here while I had no pic. He fell in love with me. After a coupla weeks I sent him a pic

It was the icing on the cake he said

Anyway. I've never seen a truly. (ugly?) person

I mean who's to say?:heart:


how u no see a truly ugly person Tammy? they are freakin everywhere!
laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:37 AM
what????

Serious????

I know I always sound pollyana but most of the time what others see as ugly. I look to the inside and 99% of the time they are beautiful

And what are we rating this beauty against?

I think your beautiful fife!!!!

no photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:40 AM

what????

Serious????

I know I always sound pollyana but most of the time what others see as ugly. I look to the inside and 99% of the time they are beautiful

And what are we rating this beauty against?

I think your beautiful fife!!!!


don't be facetious, am not grumble yes they can be beautiful inside but call me shallow i don't want some one that hit every branch falling out the ugly tree! noway

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:44 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

I wasn't being faceitious at all

What if the love of your life did fall out of a tree

And hit every branch and then some

You wouldn't love him anymore cause he would be considered ugly?
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


no photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:45 AM
Edited by gayfifer on Sat 08/15/09 09:51 AM
well no if he became ugly thru whatever thats ok, but born ugly and i wouldn't be with him - i don't think! laugh


oh and also Tammy it must be remembered u are a nice person, i however.......

cesca27's photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:49 AM
I met up with a chick in my local area, who had a totally hot photo. She turned out to be like 50 lbs heavier than her photo, but I felt compelled to stay for dinner. The worse thing is, I have to see her around and I even felt so bad I changed my number and look the other way! Mean, I know.. but I felt very deceived. I was too chicken to call her on it!

Moral of the story? Date people at least 10 miles away from your local shopping district!

Cesca x

no photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:50 AM


Why would ya lie about what ya look like?

I can't even begin to wonder why

My man met me on here while I had no pic. He fell in love with me. After a coupla weeks I sent him a pic

It was the icing on the cake he said

Anyway. I've never seen a truly. (ugly?) person

I mean who's to say?:heart:


how u no see a truly ugly person Tammy? they are freakin everywhere!


laugh drinker

metalwing's photo
Sat 08/15/09 10:56 AM
Some of the ugliest people I have ever met were attractive.
Some of the most beautiful people I have ever met were unattractive.

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Sat 08/15/09 11:21 AM



Anyway. I've never seen a truly. (ugly?) person



I truly hope your eye sight can be restored!!!
You most likely went blind as a baby by looking at a reeeaaaly ugly person when your mom took you shopping with her!

You should see my sister in law (Brothers wife), she is about the ugliest gal I have ever seen, and has the nastiest attitude ever!!!
she also don't bath, has never brushed her teeth, hell their kids are just as ugly and so are the grandkids!!
NOT JOKING!

My Brother said "at least I don't have to worry about her cheating."slaphead

Reallllly ugly or stupid people should not be allowed to breedlaugh noway

no photo
Sat 08/15/09 11:23 AM

I met up with a chick in my local area, who had a totally hot photo. She turned out to be like 50 lbs heavier than her photo, but I felt compelled to stay for dinner. The worse thing is, I have to see her around and I even felt so bad I changed my number and look the other way! Mean, I know.. but I felt very deceived. I was too chicken to call her on it!

Moral of the story? Date people at least 10 miles away from your local shopping district!

Cesca x


I'm a lesbian!!!flowerforyou

losthighwayman's photo
Sat 08/15/09 09:04 PM
Edited by losthighwayman on Sat 08/15/09 09:05 PM

trublu4u's photo
Sun 08/16/09 09:40 AM
Edited by trublu4u on Sun 08/16/09 09:45 AM

i've seen people complain about meeting someone on a dating site such as this one alleges to be, and then on seeing them in person, they look nothing like their pictures. with such indignation, these people say that it's not about their looks but the fact that they were being dishonest by displaying a picture that isn't up-to-date etc.

so i was wondering...

would that same attitude prevail if the person turned out to look better than their pictures? huh



I say post LOTS of recent (as in the last month) pix, and change them every month.
List corresponding captions in your profiles' body text as to when each pic was taken.
Mug shots optional.
Hmmm...come to think of it, arranging profile pix like mug shots ain't a bad idea!
BIG, BIG PLUS: SMILE, DA**IT!!! AND SHOW RECENT (WITHIN THE LAST MONTH) FULL BODY SHOTS!
Be completely honest from the start...in words, and in pix!
Maybe is someone is too lazy to keep their profile updated and fresh, including pix, then they shouldn't expect to meet their "soulmate" here...harsh, I know, but realistic.
Also, why waste so much energy wondering why you don't get any "bites" when you are unwilling to keep your profile/pix fresh and interesting?
Considering this, just how hard can your new-found significant other-mingler expect you to work at your new relationship?
Ouch, right?
Which means my entire profile is to be updated very soon...


no photo
Sun 08/16/09 09:42 AM


I met up with a chick in my local area, who had a totally hot photo. She turned out to be like 50 lbs heavier than her photo, but I felt compelled to stay for dinner. The worse thing is, I have to see her around and I even felt so bad I changed my number and look the other way! Mean, I know.. but I felt very deceived. I was too chicken to call her on it!

Moral of the story? Date people at least 10 miles away from your local shopping district!

Cesca x


I'm a lesbian!!!flowerforyou


scared scared

countrybelle6471's photo
Sun 08/16/09 09:48 AM

<--- even cuter in real life! Winks...




aw my kind of man ..makes great bar-b-Q--devil :laughing: slaphead ..just joking..no harsh emails PLEASE..

Inlikeflynn78's photo
Sun 08/16/09 09:56 AM
Tons of people are attractive till they open their mouth. If I had no personality I'd be screwedsmokin

crystel's photo
Sun 08/16/09 10:14 AM
I think its always best too just be honest, I started on here with just a face picture so as i am a bigger girl and didn,t want too feel i decieved anyone i put my dress size on my profile.
At the end of the day why lie its a really bad way too start isn,t itohwell
And there is someone out there for everyone so why try too be something your nothuh

no photo
Sun 08/16/09 10:19 AM
I have a friend (male) that is always saying ''she's ugly, she's fat, she's this and that'' he is not what I am sure woman would consider handsome and probably even yucky (and I'm generous) and everytime a decent nice looking woman flirts with him he always says she's ugly etc.

He is a good guy and great friend but looks are not his best asset. So if your a $0.25 and you only want a $100.00 woman you'll probably be alone a very long time base on looks.

So people before you dish how people look take a good look at yourself in the mirror first, that's what i told him and saying to people here.

no photo
Sun 08/16/09 10:23 AM

Some of the ugliest people I have ever met were attractive.
Some of the most beautiful people I have ever met were unattractive.


This is very very true... it's the attitude and ego I can't stand on some people who think they are hot and or beautiful...

Be genuine is my favorite motto and stay honest. If you are beautiful inside out?....that would be what I call beautiful person!:banana: :banana: :banana: