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Topic: What type of friend are you?
Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 08/11/09 01:27 PM
My children yea That's a whole diff relationship My partner.? Nap I don't need anyone snitching I'd most likely find out myself. It's between us good or bad. Don't like a third nose in there

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 08/11/09 01:30 PM
My children yea That's a whole diff relationship My partner.? Nap I don't need anyone snitching I'd most likely find out myself. It's between us good or bad. Don't like a third nose in there so long as it works for you I do agree with you, re: the children scenario

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Tue 08/11/09 01:31 PM
I would prefer if someone say my partner kissing someone else that they tell me.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 08/11/09 01:36 PM
My children yea That's a whole diff relationship My partner.? Nap I don't need anyone snitching I'd most likely find out myself. It's between us good or bad. Don't like a third nose in there would be a sad sad thing if you had that happening, for if he were sleeping around on you and caught diseases or AIDS . passed it to you and thats how u had to find out.. for then i guess you wouldnt have to worry about your children doing something wrong then..or if he was messing around with a stalker and she freaked on him cause he cheated on her with the third woman and she went to your house in a rage!! i guess that would not affect your children either...i guess your friend should not care about your well being or your childrens for that matter... there is a difference of letting someone know and medeling in their business...one does with the concerning peice of information what they want to..

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Tue 08/11/09 01:46 PM
i'd tell and expect the same in return

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Tue 08/11/09 03:54 PM
My children yea That's a whole diff relationship My partner.? Nap I don't need anyone snitching I'd most likely find out myself. It's between us good or bad. Don't like a third nose in there would be a sad sad thing if you had that happening, for if he were sleeping around on you and caught diseases or AIDS . passed it to you and thats how u had to find out.. for then i guess you wouldnt have to worry about your children doing something wrong then..or if he was messing around with a stalker and she freaked on him cause he cheated on her with the third woman and she went to your house in a rage!! i guess that would not affect your children either...i guess your friend should not care about your well being or your childrens for that matter... there is a difference of letting someone know and medeling in their business...one does with the concerning peice of information what they want to..

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Tue 08/11/09 03:58 PM
What do I do in that situation? Approach him...let him know, that I know...and offer him an opportunity to fess up. Depending on his response, is what I do next. Women know when all is not right in their little worlds...they may not want to admit it, but they know something is amiss. If she asks me...I tell her. I am a no holds barred person in every part of my life.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 08/11/09 04:01 PM
My children yea That's a whole diff relationship My partner.? Nap I don't need anyone snitching I'd most likely find out myself. It's between us good or bad. Don't like a third nose in there would be a sad sad thing if you had that happening, for if he were sleeping around on you and caught diseases or AIDS . passed it to you and thats how u had to find out.. for then i guess you wouldnt have to worry about your children doing something wrong then..or if he was messing around with a stalker and she freaked on him cause he cheated on her with the third woman and she went to your house in a rage!! i guess that would not affect your children either...i guess your friend should not care about your well being or your childrens for that matter... there is a difference of letting someone know and medeling in their business...one does with the concerning peice of information what they want to.. I really don't understand your ranting!! You and I disagreed a lot today on other threads. You become very angry with me(?). That's ok. We just have diff opinions. That's great we can do this !! I won't rant at you though. Or anyone else. I love you all

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Tue 08/11/09 04:01 PM
My children yea That's a whole diff relationship My partner.? Nap I don't need anyone snitching I'd most likely find out myself. It's between us good or bad. Don't like a third nose in there would be a sad sad thing if you had that happening, for if he were sleeping around on you and caught diseases or AIDS . passed it to you and thats how u had to find out.. for then i guess you wouldnt have to worry about your children doing something wrong then..or if he was messing around with a stalker and she freaked on him cause he cheated on her with the third woman and she went to your house in a rage!! i guess that would not affect your children either...i guess your friend should not care about your well being or your childrens for that matter... there is a difference of letting someone know and medeling in their business...one does with the concerning peice of information what they want to.. Agreed... I told my best friend that her ole man had hit on me...hard...& she ditched me instead of him. It hurt me momentarily...until I realized "Why would I want a friend who didn't trust & believe me?" I heard he dumped her for another woman...oh well...

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Tue 08/11/09 04:04 PM
My children yea That's a whole diff relationship My partner.? Nap I don't need anyone snitching I'd most likely find out myself. It's between us good or bad. Don't like a third nose in there would be a sad sad thing if you had that happening, for if he were sleeping around on you and caught diseases or AIDS . passed it to you and thats how u had to find out.. for then i guess you wouldnt have to worry about your children doing something wrong then..or if he was messing around with a stalker and she freaked on him cause he cheated on her with the third woman and she went to your house in a rage!! i guess that would not affect your children either...i guess your friend should not care about your well being or your childrens for that matter... there is a difference of letting someone know and medeling in their business...one does with the concerning peice of information what they want to.. Agreed... I told my best friend that her ole man had hit on me...hard...& she ditched me instead of him. It hurt me momentarily...until I realized "Why would I want a friend who didn't trust & believe me?" I heard he dumped her for another woman...oh well... EXACTLY! They can believe the friend or the boyfriend/girlfriend. One way or another it WILL all work itself out in the end.

lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3531	Tue 08/11/09 04:13 PM
If you saw your friends girlfriend/boyfriend kissing another person, do you tell? How would you handle it? im the sort of friend who sends you a txt saying "get to the hospital, its your mum" just so i can take my time screwing your chick

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 08/11/09 04:14 PM
Hahaha

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Tue 08/11/09 04:16 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Tue 08/11/09 04:16 PM
Uhhh... hm, i dunno, i mean if thats going on this would probably mean that this "friend" already has all kinds of drama going on, and i typically stay away from that crap anyway, i dont know if id have too many friends with that crap going on with someone so low class in their life. If it were a really close friend, of course i would tell them, but i would hate it, cos that person probaly wouldnt go by something that hadnt seen themselves. So kinda.. i wanna say no, because its like.. whats the point? shruggs I dont want all up in that crap. Ive got MY OWN children. If it involved you, if your bestfriend spotted your b/f kissing someone would you think the same? honestly, i dont think it would be a surprise for anyone if their man was cheating on them. Im pretty sure there would be signs. 99% of the time. I dont care WHO the guy im with is kissing.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 08/11/09 04:32 PM
honestly, i dont think it would be a surprise for anyone if their man was cheating on them. Im pretty sure there would be signs. 99% of the time. I dont care WHO the guy im with is kissing. Ah ok, if this works for you couldn't work for me for I don't like to share

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Tue 08/11/09 04:33 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Tue 08/11/09 04:34 PM
How do ya know he hasnt? Every time you meet a guy you expect him to commit from first meeting?

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Tue 08/11/09 04:38 PM
How do ya know he hasnt? Every time you meet a guy you expect him to commit from first meeting? read OP again, a boyfriend, girlfriend, mate, significant other - no one has mentioned anyone has to commit at first meeting. a boyfriend I am assuming is someone you know, you like and are in a relationship with, not a joe schmoe you just met.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Tue 08/11/09 04:47 PM
If you saw your friends girlfriend/boyfriend kissing another person, do you tell? How would you handle it? Hell yea, I would tell and support her on whatever she decides to do about it as long as it is legal...lol

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Tue 08/11/09 04:48 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Tue 08/11/09 04:49 PM
How do ya know he hasnt? Every time you meet a guy you expect him to commit from first meeting? read OP again, a boyfriend, girlfriend, mate, significant other - no one has mentioned anyone has to commit at first meeting. a boyfriend I am assuming is someone you know, you like and are in a relationship with, not a joe schmoe you just met. no difference imo, he could have done it in the beginning when you are first dating, he could do it after youve committed. Its not up to me how other people act and react to situations outside my control, be it with my partner or not. If im not told by someone, I would find out eventually. Most people do. Honestly, I dont know if I would believe someone who told me this was happening. People find things out when they are supposed to. I also stated I would have not liked to, but I would tell the person.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76436	Tue 08/11/09 04:50 PM
What do I do in that situation? Approach him...let him know, that I know...and offer him an opportunity to fess up. Depending on his response, is what I do next. Women know when all is not right in their little worlds...they may not want to admit it, but they know something is amiss. If she asks me...I tell her. I am a no holds barred person in every part of my life. This is so true it's a gut feeling at times your friends only confirm what you already know but don't want to admit it. But at times it is that last push that makes you face the music and put the ball rolling in motion.....

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Tue 08/11/09 05:05 PM
I did............Once! I got told by my friend that I was jealous of her being married and me being single and I was trying to spoil her marriage.Are they still together? No, she caught him having it off with a teeny bopper and threw him out.Now THAT had nothing to do with me telling her he was a habitual philanderer.