Topic: What type of friend are you?
Inlikeflynn78's photo
Tue 08/11/09 11:02 AM

If you saw your friends girlfriend/boyfriend kissing another person, do you tell? How would you handle it?


Depends, if I am friends with them both I go to the cheating party and essentially give them a choice, tell them yourself or leave if your going to cheat or eventually I will have to tell them. Maybe not my place but I would want to know. If only friends with one tell of course. I've had to do it before and it sucks.

franshade's photo
Tue 08/11/09 11:04 AM


If you saw your friends girlfriend/boyfriend kissing another person, do you tell? How would you handle it?


Depends, if I am friends with them both I go to the cheating party and essentially give them a choice, tell them yourself or leave if your going to cheat or eventually I will have to tell them. Maybe not my place but I would want to know. If only friends with one tell of course. I've had to do it before and it sucks.

:thumbsup:

catseyes1's photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:43 PM
I would approach him and say does your girlfriend know about this?

buttons's photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:47 PM
never know the circumstance if you dont know the other person... if its a kiss on the cheek quick peck, could just be a aunt, cousin or whatever... i would of walked up to the person u knew right when it happend and say hey... jeff hows it going. or hey sally... so they knew that you saw...

no photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:47 PM

If you saw your friends girlfriend/boyfriend kissing another person, do you tell? How would you handle it?


I handle it straight with my friend, but first ask the one DOING IT,,,,,WTF??? I am crazy like that.....lol

SO,,if ya know me and I know your in a relationship with someone,,friend or friends with both of you....
WE GONNA TALK MAN,,,,,,,,grumble drinker :wink: drinker
IT might not be right THEN,,,but very SOON there after,,,

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:50 PM


I walk right into the middle of it and say "WTF?'

and make a big scene and embarrass everyone

anyone who betrays my friends incurs the wrath of the redneck


guess that'll make me a redneck too :thumbsup:


Hummmmmmmmmmmm count me in on being a redneck too hehehehe

franshade's photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:53 PM

never know the circumstance if you dont know the other person... if its a kiss on the cheek quick peck, could just be a aunt, cousin or whatever... i would of walked up to the person u knew right when it happend and say hey... jeff hows it going. or hey sally... so they knew that you saw...


This I did once, eons ago - saw my friends girlfriend in a heavy duty make out session with some shmoe... tapped her on the shoulder, and said, I knew that was you, what's all this. She ran home with a ridiculous story to her b/f (my friend), that I didn't like her and wanted them to break up. But I am glad to say that the few that are considered my friends, know me well and know me better than to believe this crap.

He cut her loose. Mind you, I never said a word, she did it for me.

tanyaann's photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:54 PM


I walk right into the middle of it and say "WTF?'

and make a big scene and embarrass everyone

anyone who betrays my friends incurs the wrath of the redneck


guess that'll make me a redneck too :thumbsup:


And depending on the situation, I might have the friend on the phone while I did it!

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:56 PM

If you saw your friends girlfriend/boyfriend kissing another person, do you tell? How would you handle it?


:smile: I would stay out of it:smile:

buttons's photo
Tue 08/11/09 12:57 PM


never know the circumstance if you dont know the other person... if its a kiss on the cheek quick peck, could just be a aunt, cousin or whatever... i would of walked up to the person u knew right when it happend and say hey... jeff hows it going. or hey sally... so they knew that you saw...


This I did once, eons ago - saw my friends girlfriend in a heavy duty make out session with some shmoe... tapped her on the shoulder, and said, I knew that was you, what's all this. She ran home with a ridiculous story to her b/f (my friend), that I didn't like her and wanted them to break up. But I am glad to say that the few that are considered my friends, know me well and know me better than to believe this crap.

He cut her loose. Mind you, I never said a word, she did it for me.
noway thats what im talknig about!! cause if it is known that they have been seen.... i dont beleive that something had to be said... cause it will bite them in the azz.... but if my friend came talking to me about it then id let them know why i didnt say anything to them... cause u knew by what u did it would all come out....

franshade's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:08 PM
Had she not confessed, I surely would have ratted her A$$ out without a second thought.

buttons's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:14 PM

Had she not confessed, I surely would have ratted her A$$ out without a second thought.
laugh laugh i think i would of let her sweat for a couple of visits first!laugh maybe say something to him kinda quiet.. that didnt have anything to do with the kiss. and watch her squirm lmao!

buttons's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:16 PM
maybe invite them both over for dinner at your place...

franshade's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:17 PM


Had she not confessed, I surely would have ratted her A$$ out without a second thought.
laugh laugh i think i would of let her sweat for a couple of visits first!laugh maybe say something to him kinda quiet.. that didnt have anything to do with the kiss. and watch her squirm lmao!


rofl I like how you think rofl

buttons's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:18 PM
how cool that would of been if u could of invited the kissing guy too?laugh laugh without any of them knowing the other is coming?laugh laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:18 PM
I never get involved in another couples biz
:heart:


franshade's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:18 PM

how cool that would of been if u could of invited the kissing guy too?laugh laugh without any of them knowing the other is coming?laugh laugh

rofl rofl let's play pictionary rofl rofl
rofl let's play charades rofl


buttons's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:20 PM
rofl rofl rofl

franshade's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:22 PM

I never get involved in another couples biz
:heart:



cool, not here to judge anyone just asking who would and who would not say anything?

Would you want to know if your partner was kissing someone else?

What about if it involved say your child, someone saw them doing something they should not have been doing? do you want to know? if you saw someone's child doing it would you tell?


auburngirl's photo
Tue 08/11/09 01:24 PM
I'd tell my friend. My friends mean too much to me to stand by and watch them be involved with someone like that.