Good. Glad she's going to be ok.

I've read through this entire post and I just want to tell everyone how strong they are.

I myself suffer from depression, I was never officially diagnosed to the point where I need medication but when I have a bad day it is really obivous.

I think the biggest thing that affects me is my dads death. We were treated poorly at the hospital the night he died..and we are being treated poorly by his side of the family completely.

You see, my dad was a police officer but he had a business of his own. He created (with my mom and my mom only) a personal care home unlike any other. The men that reside at the two sites are like my family..I grew up with them and I also work there.
When he passed away my uncle (who was made VP 2 years into the business) held an emergency board meeting and slipped right into my dads position. He then went on to file a lawsuit for the farm site and all of the gas royalties that land provides.
The farm site can be sold for over $400,000. My dad bought it for $125,000 and my uncle wants to by it for 70% of that..he also wants to move the first business to that site so that we are also out of that rent. The rent from both sites pay the mortages on all of my dads properties. The gas royalties give my mom a little bit of money to take care of my little sister..
he locked her out of her position at work so we are also out her salary.

If my uncle gets all of what he wants then my mom will lose our house & we will be forced into the streets.

He has also told the employees at the business sites that if we come there for anything he is to be notified..

So my family not only lost my dad, we lost his side of the family, & the guys we've come to love.

That is what depresses me.
It may not be long and it may not make any sense but that is my life as of now.

I am so sorry! This is a tradgedy I've always seen unfortunately. This really is something you should talk to a lawyer about. Your mom has to have some rights. Fight the circling vultures! They did something similar to this to my uncle when he passed. Don't let it slide. OK? ANd thanks for posting. If you ever need anything, e-mail one of us. We care. ok?

Aww thanks so much. I really appreciate that.

As for my mom having rights, each lawyer we've seen has been saying that she doesn't because they were never married and did not live together.

I refuse to let it slide. I don't care if I am paying legal fees until I am 40..I'm going to fight with everything I have.

Depression????? How about having your intire world ripped out all in one night? It is a lot to over come.

you and your sister have rights.you are next of kin.get a lawyer..
Nothing screws ya like family..hugs jax

I think a depression topic would be great... I am bi polar myself and properly medicated but sometimes I get depressed and just need someone to talk to... I have trouble with people not accepting me for who I am... they only wanna look at my mental illness and not what is in my heart... I think I am a good hearted person who has just had a hard life.. to others... they think it is a disease they can catch... People like that really upset me.

I know how ya feel there jkk, I suffer from depression and people look at me like I oozing diseases out of my skin. And thats when I kick them in the shins and run

Is it just me who feels like I am an outcast to everyone... I mean, people are so mean to me when they find out that I am bi polar... is it true that people hate me because of it, or is it the bi polar making me feel like everyone is out to get me.

They are prolly scared cause they think you'll be nice one min and then try to kill em the next (I ain't never met a person like that EVER). But maybe you need a new group to hang out with?

I don't go anywhere anyways...I don't have friends because they all think that I am going to KILL them... I wouldn't think of KILLING anyone. When I get mad, I go to my room and cry.. or go for a walk, depending on what was said to me that was uncalled for...

2Btrue2One: I read your post and I hope you are ok. If you need to talk, or just rant, e-mail me or just let it fly in here.........

Jkk, no it is not you. Most of "us" were trained to feel insecure by the stupid actions of those who don't understand and what the media has hyped up. They have taken the few real messed up people and now the whole world thinks we are al killers.

Yeah I know it sucks but there are real people who understand and they don't have to have the problem either. You just have to weed out that assholes.

((((damnit)))) please keep an eye on 2Btrue2One. I have to go for the time being but if you hear from them, let me know ok? I'm worried.

Everyone! I have seen this thread come alive with people that have MI in common. Even if only for a short time, or lifers like us or just to come in and support. There are people who have known others and understand, or have had/have family members who have MI.

If you would like to see this become a perm topic, please write to Mike and Van and ask them. Tell them to read through the tread to see for themselves how many people have responded to it. If you agree.

Lubya's all

Karen

easier said than done...but try to not let it get to ya. People can be evil esp when they know your weakness. Granted i have no right to offer advice cause I'm in the same dingy you are but thats what i try to do. Or go cuddle some kittens and cats, that helps alot too

people ain't as evil as you think they are, they're just assholes. if you are a good person than what everyone else thinks don't mean ****. you can't let someone have that much control over you.

you guys make me feel better... thanks so much for caring and understanding... it just puts a on my face.

JKK - what Karen, King and Damnit said is true. There are a lot of good people on here, people who care. Many of us suffer depression, some bipolar or other forms of MI. Don't let someone make you feel bad because of a medical diagnosis, you are a good person, I can tell just by reading your posts that you are a caring person. Anytime you want to talk you can write one of us or post here, I try to keep an eye on this thread too, I know Karen does also, and some of the others.

Welcome to the site. Have fun in the forums and make some friends. Take care.

thanx Marie55... greatly appreciated...

call 911 dont waste any time.

sorry that was for a few dasys ago
the other post that is

no problem... just coming back here to say that today is not going well for me... I wake up and get on here, and the batteries die in my wireless mouse... So I go the storage area to get a new mouse that don't take batteries, because I am fed up with buying them... and come back, and the mouse don't fit the computer. So I go to the store to by batteries, and come home only to realize I bought the wrong size. Luckily I bought two packs, because that was the last of my money, and I had already opened one pack.. so I go back to the store and exchange them for what I need... I am online for a while, and I start getting hungry... so I go eat a bowl of Ramen noodles, and I was about to heat up some left over chili from two days ago which was in the fridge, and the speghetti noodles stunk, and the chili was molded... UGGHHHH So needless to say.. my day has not gone good so far...