Topic: A guy who calls you beautiful
Schwartz84's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:44 PM
Hopfully that will happen 2 me.

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Tue 06/16/09 02:45 PM
I've seen it to many times, you treat them with all the respect you have, buy them gifts, and do things for them, you become so predictable, they get bored with you. I still believe they really want the bad boy that excites them and makes them feel alive. I have done that and know other guys also that have, Treated them to nicely.
just an opinion.

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Tue 06/16/09 02:47 PM
Yeah, if one person hangs up on the other there is either a huge problem in her life or a a real problem in the relationship that needs to be addressed. I've been the one to call and try to understand what is wrong and what I can do to help, but thats not something to take casually. She's got to know that hanging up on someone is not how you help a relationship grow. Maybe I sound like a wuss for being flexible/understanding/willing to try, but there is something to be said for realizing how much sincere emotional distress she may have. You do it out of caring for the other person, not because you are a doormat or afraid of losing them.


auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:47 PM

I've seen it to many times, you treat them with all the respect you have, buy them gifts, and do things for them, you become so predictable, they get bored with you. I still believe they really want the bad boy that excites them and makes them feel alive. I have done that and know other guys also that have, Treated them to nicely.
just an opinion.


Please do not make a sweeping statement. Not all women are as the ones you've encountered. Some women know how to appreciate someone who does those kinds of things.


Mr_Music's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:48 PM
Edited by Mr_Music on Tue 06/16/09 02:49 PM

I've seen it to many times, you treat them with all the respect you have, buy them gifts, and do things for them, you become so predictable, they get bored with you. I still believe they really want the bad boy that excites them and makes them feel alive. I have done that and know other guys also that have, Treated them to nicely.
just an opinion.


Perhaps you're seeing this from the wrong angle. It's about doing those things for a lady and her appreciating them that makes all the difference. When those types of things start being taken for granted, that's when you know there's a problem.



*EDIT** Great minds, Connie!
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msmyka's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:49 PM


Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...



and then what?


Then club him over the head and tie him up in your basement pitchfork

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:50 PM



Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...



and then what?


Then club him over the head and tie him up in your basement pitchfork


:laughing: THEN, call down to the basement from the upstairs and hang up on him!

msmyka's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:51 PM
Don't think he'll be calling back slaphead rofl

tngxl65's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:52 PM

Don't think he'll be calling back slaphead rofl


I'd call... but I don't get a signal down here :wink:

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Tue 06/16/09 02:52 PM

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...




Hey thats me! I'm real romantic and crap.

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Tue 06/16/09 02:56 PM

I once thought this very way when I was a young lassie.....I thought surely I will find this young man and be head over heels in love...

but now at my age the best I can hope for is heels over head...smokin


These days I don't want someone to fall head over heels over me but would not mind having her heels over my head.

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:57 PM


I'd settle for a guy who just thinks I'm beautiful.ohwell


Chrissy, you ARE beautiful! You're also a million miles away (with rounding) flowerforyou


You suck at math.laugh But thank you very much.:wink:

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Tue 06/16/09 03:00 PM

when you hang up on him


Wanna piss me off beyond belief? This is how you do it, I promise you.



I was thinking the same thing. Hanging up on me before the conversation is done is rude, disrespectful, childish, outrageous, dramatic, selffish,... I could go on. Would only call you back to let you know I'm on my way to pick up my belongings

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Tue 06/16/09 03:10 PM
Edited by gayfifer on Tue 06/16/09 03:11 PM
if he ever turns to his friends and says thats her, why i'd, i'd, have a hissy fit! grumble

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 06/16/09 03:12 PM

if he ever turns to his friends and says thats her, why i'd, i'd, have a hissy fit! grumble


Now that would be a beautiful thing to behold. Do you stomp your feet and hold your breath?:wink:

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Tue 06/16/09 03:14 PM


if he ever turns to his friends and says thats her, why i'd, i'd, have a hissy fit! grumble


Now that would be a beautiful thing to behold. Do you stomp your feet and hold your breath?:wink:


Chrissy how'd u know? winking

DestroyerDave's photo
Tue 06/16/09 03:31 PM


Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...



Well much of what you've just painted is the fairytale that many women say they want but many (most?) have no understanding that a relationship is work and effort from both parties.

And, if she hangs up on me then I'll wait until she calls me back. And I'll probably be expecting an apology. Hanging up is rude and controlling. It indicates a selfishness and lack of respect.

So I don't think I really care to be that guy.
exactly my position, I have been in that situation several times!

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 06/16/09 03:45 PM

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...




Just make sure he takes a good picture first.

DestroyerDave's photo
Tue 06/16/09 04:22 PM
and I would say that it is dificalt to determin a type, it can take monthes to find out anything signifigant about a person, at first glance most people would think I was an ignorant "hick", not knowing that I can explain to them the complexitys of special reletivity!

so I guess I dont have a type ither!

krupa's photo
Tue 06/16/09 04:23 PM
Wait a minute!!!!! You wear sweats to be paraded out in public?

Wow! Didn't see that one coming!