Topic: So fricking mad right now...
74Drew's photo
Wed 04/22/09 01:23 AM

Everyone is all "dump him dump him be as miserable as we are" LOL!

I say have some fantastic make up sex and show him why you are the better woman. If he doesn't deliver the goods THEN you dump his ass.

the OP has a previous thread where she talks about how she tries to initiate sex and he doesn't want it. how can there even be make up sex? the dude is just too much of a wuss to break it off with her.


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DestinysDream's photo
Wed 04/22/09 01:53 AM
And she is still with the guy??

Ok get the hell out of there lady. Run run run! Listen if a guy is saying no to sex there are some big problems starting with his little pokey. No jokey.

I would wager if you asked guys on here for sex some would jump at the offer. That's what you want not that limp gimp. G/l to you hope your head decides it's time to go.

Oh and if you really think that it is worth salvaging then talk to him not to us about how you feel. Lay it all out there sex included. He will likely get angry and play like a little boy doing the rejection game but at least you gave it a shot. Who knows maybe you will see the gong going off in his head meaning he is a total idiot.

K 'nuff said I am out of here. Take care all. Love love love.

keepthehope's photo
Wed 04/22/09 02:15 AM
Don't let him take advantage of you like that. There wasn't any reason for him to have to do that with her. He could have waited until she was through, gave her the kids back, and then maybe surprised you by taking you with him. He's just wrong. If he does that very often, especially with her, I would say he is not over her and find someone who will focus on you, not his ex, not like that.

Jess642's photo
Wed 04/22/09 05:05 AM
Edited by Jess642 on Wed 04/22/09 05:07 AM




With her name? Fu@k that tell him he's a goner if you ever see him again.

And twelve hours for a tat? How big was it?

I think that's kinda off.


How long does it take to get a tattoo?


well it sure doesnt take a freaken 12hours.. my daughter only took maybe less than a hour


Well it depends on how big the tattoo is..but 12 hrs..I mean no tattoo artist will sit there for 12 hrs one sitting..maybe 4-6 hrs per sitting. But not for a Teddybear and some little writing...


I've watched a tattoo of a full wrap around dragon done........... the outline................... from neck, wrapped across the whole back, down over the hips and onto both legs take 18 hours straight, with just short breaks, get created.....

jaggededge's photo
Wed 04/22/09 05:34 AM
what gets me ,,is what some of you girls will put up with before you relize they are jerking you around.Obviousley theres more going on with him and his ex than you wanna see.So your their new discount baby sitter,,your a pretty girl...you dont need that crap.. a little self love is in oder...your beautiful...look in the mirror

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 04/22/09 06:10 AM
I'm gonna put this real plain an simple like I would to my own daughter. He's playin u for a fool an ur lettin him. Put his sh!t out the door, change the locks an don't look back. All the signs of his screwin around are there right in front of ur eyes. Just open them up an see. I know ur proably thinkin, But I love him. Hun, love urself first. U deserve better. shades

misstina2's photo
Wed 04/22/09 06:16 AM
flowerforyou that would not be acceptable to meflowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:21 AM
If you wanted to do something about this you would have done so long ago.

The only thing you have a right to complain about is you, for not leaving him sooner.


You teach people how to treat you, and you've taught him he can do anything he wants to you and you'll stay.

Stop.

Or at least stop whining to us. You are in control of your life.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:23 AM
Marry him

misstina2's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:25 AM
flowerforyou oh now i'm recalling this situationflowerforyou not giving sex later bye bye see ya don't wanna be yasmokin smokin smokin

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:28 AM
She likes it or she wouldn't continue to let it happen.
I would have all his belongings at the curbside.

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:35 AM

She likes it or she wouldn't continue to let it happen.
I would have all his belongings at the curbside.


I woulda done stroded em across the yard long ago or perhaps had a bonfire. That would be a nice "Waitin To Exhale" moment don't ya think??? :laughing:


shades

TwilightsTwin's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:37 AM

YAARGHHH!....I am so p*ssed off right now....I had to vent. So...At 11 am my boyfriend tells me that he has to run watch his kids while his ex gets her tongue pierced. Then, he brings the kids back and says that he has to run do something with her and that it is a suprise for me and asks me to watch the kids. Says it'll take a couple hours. Throughout the twelve hours he was gone, he calls me periodically to tell me that it'll be a couple more hours, like three times. He just got back at 11 PM. He went with his ex and got a fu*king tattoo. Is it f*cking wrong that I am p*ssed that he did that with her and didn't ask me to go? I am also mad that I was watching these two's kids while they went and did this. I love the boys, but still....ugh. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind tattoos...it is just that his ex has been trying to break us up from the start and is a rude b*tch. He says he hates her and then does this sh*t....Is it terribly wrong to be p*ssed? He didn't tell me where he was going, just said he had an "appointment." I was worried sick. I was thinking everything from vasectomy to I don't know what else....I was two seconds away from calling every hospital in town. He acts like it is no big deal, but I am mad.


Don't make someone a priorty if they only make you an option.

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:37 AM


She likes it or she wouldn't continue to let it happen.
I would have all his belongings at the curbside.


I woulda done stroded em across the yard long ago or perhaps had a bonfire. That would be a nice "Waitin To Exhale" moment don't ya think??? :laughing:


shades
Yes it would laugh

no photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:41 AM
DUMP HIM!mad

misstina2's photo
Wed 04/22/09 07:44 AM


YAARGHHH!....I am so p*ssed off right now....I had to vent. So...At 11 am my boyfriend tells me that he has to run watch his kids while his ex gets her tongue pierced. Then, he brings the kids back and says that he has to run do something with her and that it is a suprise for me and asks me to watch the kids. Says it'll take a couple hours. Throughout the twelve hours he was gone, he calls me periodically to tell me that it'll be a couple more hours, like three times. He just got back at 11 PM. He went with his ex and got a fu*king tattoo. Is it f*cking wrong that I am p*ssed that he did that with her and didn't ask me to go? I am also mad that I was watching these two's kids while they went and did this. I love the boys, but still....ugh. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind tattoos...it is just that his ex has been trying to break us up from the start and is a rude b*tch. He says he hates her and then does this sh*t....Is it terribly wrong to be p*ssed? He didn't tell me where he was going, just said he had an "appointment." I was worried sick. I was thinking everything from vasectomy to I don't know what else....I was two seconds away from calling every hospital in town. He acts like it is no big deal, but I am mad.


Don't make someone a priorty if they only make you an option.
flowerforyou I agreeflowerforyou

MissIndependent69's photo
Wed 04/22/09 10:51 AM

He says he did it for me...It was a tattoo with her name on it...I am still mad though...I just wish he would have told me so I wouldn't have sat and worried all fricking day...
What the hell! Honey, I don't mean any harm, but he is f--king his ex. I know it is not easy, but you need to get rather of him and the sooner the better. I really hope you do, because you deserve better. I am sorry, if a ex keeps coming around and starting problems then something is not right.

MissIndependent69's photo
Wed 04/22/09 10:55 AM

how dense are you really?

a tattoo with her name on it is for you? WAKE UP!!!! HELLO!!!!



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Everyone needs a friend like you, because you keep it real.

MissIndependent69's photo
Wed 04/22/09 11:29 AM

Awesome reply yellowrose.


And seriously if he has her name, you have their kids and this is normal, Move it on lady Get to know some good female friends, and even better get to know a vibrator till you find a guy who's worth the trouble.
I know that is right. I know I enjoy mines and we getting to know each very well.

no photo
Wed 04/22/09 02:17 PM


a wise old man once told me, "You deserve what you tolerate." Those words took a while to sink in, but he's right. if you let people walk all over you then you deserve it.

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I like that quote a lot. Thank you.