If I have to deal with a lot of drama then I rather be alone. I am not afraid to be alone anyway. I think I rather wait for that special person.

Will it look good.

Will it look good.

You know how you go and get copy of pictures from a photo shop? Is there a way you can do it at home from your computer?

Simply Red, Sunrise

I just had at least one or two people that have gotten an attitude about my post. I am not the first or the last that had ask a question like mines. What other people do with their life is their business, but I was talking about what happen to me and I am smart enough to figure out if someone is lying to me or not. Like I said before, I am over it and I guess it was not that serious. Life goes on. I did apologize before, because I should have made it clear from the beginning. I was mad when I wrote the post and I hope I pull myself together before I post anything.

I rather meet someone else where.

Hello, you will love it here, because there are som cool people here.

I am okay now. I guess it was not all that serious. I hope noone take it the wrong or I offend anyone. I should have made it clear. There is nothing wrong being in a relationship and you are only up here in the forum only, but if you are up here trying to meet someone, that is different. This guy have change his profile again. I am dating right now, but I am only looking for conversation only(yeah right, he looking for a piece of azz). The woman he is talking about, stays in NJ( if that is true). Whatever these guys do is their business not mines, but it is my business when you trying to hook up with me and you know you have someone in your life.

What are good colors for family picture. I was going to do white shirt and blue jeans.

I know that is right. I know I enjoy mines and we getting to know each very well.

Everyone needs a friend like you, because you keep it real.

What the hell! Honey, I don't mean any harm, but he is f--king his ex. I know it is not easy, but you need to get rather of him and the sooner the better. I really hope you do, because you deserve better. I am sorry, if a ex keeps coming around and starting problems then something is not right.

I am thinking about checking out some younger guys(not too young). I guess if the person makes you happy and treats you right then go for it.

You are right. They are online and not online and I should have known better.

Okay you are in a relationship and you only come up here, because you enjoy the forums. That all good, but when you have someone in your life and you going on dating sites and you are not on the forum, you have a problem. The guy have lied and now he try to change it around. What it was is that he thought he was going to get some booty and that was it. That is not going to happen and if I needed sex, I don't need to come up here to get it. He don't have any respect for his lady. One thing I hate about some men is they alway bragging about their ladys then why are you out here cheating. If someone was to ask me, is being online chatting with the opposite sex was cheating then I would say yes. How would anyone feel if their bf/gf or whatever did that to them. He was the first and the last I will exchange numbers with.

I don't understand why some men come up here and they have someone in their life. I have exchange phone numbers with this guy and we started talking on the phone some. At first I was interset in him and then I have seen him on another dating site and he was lying. Today we got into it and he went and updated his profile. On his profile it says at the moment I am dating a dark skin sister then why are you on a dating site if you are dating someone. He ask me if I will get marry again and I say yes. He was like I am not trying to get marry. It not like I am going to ask him to marry me. Some people take stuff the wrong way. This man had two profile on the other dating site. It is like he think he is all that and he is not. When we talk on the phone, he always talking about his house. He alway cuts me off. He talking about he is looking for friends only. Yeah right, he looking for a booty call. If I had a man in my life, why I want to be up here and meet men. He said in his profile I am not insecure, who said he was insecure. I believe he is and he want everybody think he got it going on and he don't. The list goes on about this guy. Some men are full of s--t. Now I know why I am single. The more older men I meet, the more stupid they are.In away I was hurt, because I thought I meet someone. I am not looking for marriage now, but I do have enought good sense to know you have to become friends before lovers. You do have to let the person know where you stand. What is up with these people on these dating site?

Jazz- Paul Hardcastle

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Chocolate. I love myself some Ben & Jerry.