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YAARGHHH!....I am so p*ssed off right now....I had to vent. So...At 11 am my boyfriend tells me that he has to run watch his kids while his ex gets her tongue pierced. Then, he brings the kids back and says that he has to run do something with her and that it is a suprise for me and asks me to watch the kids. Says it'll take a couple hours. Throughout the twelve hours he was gone, he calls me periodically to tell me that it'll be a couple more hours, like three times. He just got back at 11 PM. He went with his ex and got a fu*king tattoo. Is it f*cking wrong that I am p*ssed that he did that with her and didn't ask me to go? I am also mad that I was watching these two's kids while they went and did this. I love the boys, but still....ugh. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind tattoos...it is just that his ex has been trying to break us up from the start and is a rude b*tch. He says he hates her and then does this sh*t....Is it terribly wrong to be p*ssed? He didn't tell me where he was going, just said he had an "appointment." I was worried sick. I was thinking everything from vasectomy to I don't know what else....I was two seconds away from calling every hospital in town. He acts like it is no big deal, but I am mad.
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Dump him and move on
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The guy sounds like a tool... and he totally just used you. He knew it would piss you off, that's why he didn't tell you what he was going to do. Men aren't as complicated as you think. He knows what he's doing. If it's like this quite often, he's not worth the trouble.
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You have every right to be mad. I would not take that from him if you do he will walk all over you.
Tell him its me or her and don't back down. That stuff sounds like drug addict behavior.... |
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Is this your fiance that has been snapping at you and won't have sex with you?
And now he's off doing something with his ex for 12 hours while you watch their children for them? 
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why put up with it? get rid of him.
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Is this your fiance that has been snapping at you and won't have sex with you? And now he's off doing something with his ex for 12 hours while you watch their children for them?
Thankyou Winx....my thoughts and questions exactly? Is this the same roofer that deserves the OP putting herself last, because she is ONLY a cashier?? The same allegedly depressed fiance that can barely speak to her? That has no bills, nor has to manage the rent? Hmmmmmm....Kiena...here is your wakeup call, lovely. Time to go. |
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no you shouldn't be mad at him. he's been doing this sort of thing consistantly and you're expecting him to change.
you should be mad at yourself for tolerating this sort of behavior. a wise old man once told me, "You deserve what you tolerate." Those words took a while to sink in, but he's right. if you let people walk all over you then you deserve it. but i think you're wanting us to tell you that he's going to change and that you should give him some time to straighten out and blah, blah, blah. we've already told you in your other thread what a tool this guy is, but that doesn't seem to be enough for you. maybe when he gets you pregnant and moves on to some other girl you'll realize. i hate to be such a pr!ck but i'm not here to sugar coat things for you. you want an opinion and here's mine. . . . |
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He says he did it for me...It was a tattoo with her name on it...I am still mad though...I just wish he would have told me so I wouldn't have sat and worried all fricking day...
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Is this your fiance that has been snapping at you and won't have sex with you? And now he's off doing something with his ex for 12 hours while you watch their children for them?
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no you shouldn't be mad at him. he's been doing this sort of thing consistantly and you're expecting him to change. you should be mad at yourself for tolerating this sort of behavior. a wise old man once told me, "You deserve what you tolerate." Those words took a while to sink in, but he's right. if you let people walk all over you then you deserve it. but i think you're wanting us to tell you that he's going to change and that you should give him some time to straighten out and blah, blah, blah. we've already told you in your other thread what a tool this guy is, but that doesn't seem to be enough for you. maybe when he gets you pregnant and moves on to some other girl you'll realize. i hate to be such a pr!ck but i'm not here to sugar coat things for you. you want an opinion and here's mine. . . . well said drew |
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how dense are you really?
a tattoo with her name on it is for you? WAKE UP!!!! HELLO!!!! . . . |
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He says he did it for me...It was a tattoo with her name on it...I am still mad though...I just wish he would have told me so I wouldn't have sat and worried all fricking day... I'm confused. He got a tattoo with her name for you? How can that be for you? |
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no you shouldn't be mad at him. he's been doing this sort of thing consistantly and you're expecting him to change. you should be mad at yourself for tolerating this sort of behavior. a wise old man once told me, "You deserve what you tolerate." Those words took a while to sink in, but he's right. if you let people walk all over you then you deserve it. but i think you're wanting us to tell you that he's going to change and that you should give him some time to straighten out and blah, blah, blah. we've already told you in your other thread what a tool this guy is, but that doesn't seem to be enough for you. maybe when he gets you pregnant and moves on to some other girl you'll realize. i hate to be such a pr!ck but i'm not here to sugar coat things for you. you want an opinion and here's mine. . . . cheers to ya 
Very well put |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Tue 04/21/09 10:34 PM
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He says he did it for me...It was a tattoo with her name on it...I am still mad though...I just wish he would have told me so I wouldn't have sat and worried all fricking day... WHAT????????????????????????????WHAT THE BLOODY HELL??????????????? HE GOT A TATTOO WITH HIS EX"S NAME ON IT>>>>>>>>>>>>FOR YOU?????????????? HELLO???????????????????????? geeeezuz f*cking Cherist! Wake up woman!!!!! |
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With her name? Fu@k that tell him he's a goner if you ever see him again.
And twelve hours for a tat? How big was it? I think that's kinda off. |
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Is this your fiance that has been snapping at you and won't have sex with you? And now he's off doing something with his ex for 12 hours while you watch their children for them?
Thankyou Winx....my thoughts and questions exactly? Is this the same roofer that deserves the OP putting herself last, because she is ONLY a cashier?? The same allegedly depressed fiance that can barely speak to her? That has no bills, nor has to manage the rent? Hmmmmmm....Kiena...here is your wakeup call, lovely. Time to go. No kidding. |
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 GIRL!!!! WAKE UP!!! I know you don't want to hear it...but I mean this out of caring...DUMP HIM!!! He is NOT worth it and you let him get away with it...why???????
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With her name? Fu@k that tell him he's a goner if you ever see him again. And twelve hours for a tat? How big was it? I think that's kinda off. good point |
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With her name? Fu@k that tell him he's a goner if you ever see him again. And twelve hours for a tat? How big was it? I think that's kinda off. How long does it take to get a tattoo? |
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