Is it scary to you if somone is inexperienced in dating and sex? For me it's not, it kinda makes things easier, but then again, because they are not experienced, they are more likely to be unsure of what they want. Do you agree?

There is such a long period inbetween my dates, I'm new at it everytime

I would think that it would be a nice learning/teaching experience.

Poor Pat - you are probably getting more than anyone on this site and just not telling us!

Now that's funny!!

What do you mean

I am inexperienced in both of those

I don't want to train anyone in how to function either in an adult relationship or in the bedroom.

There is one phrase I will always 'test' the waters with when I start dating someone to see if they are open sexually and have experience.

If they look at me like a deer in the headlights -- I'm out!

I cannot handle boring, close-minded, or clumsy lovers.

Same is true in a relationship. If they are not functional, logical, compassionate and respectful -- I'm out!

If their mamma didn't teach them any manners then I certainly won't start now!

I would like a woman to at least Spit on it

That means I'll have to wear shades?

I'm very inexperienced in sex so i avoid it at all costs. I had a good relationship going for 7 months so I hope I have enough experience to try again and be successful again

no experience necessary. it is an experience getting the experience.

There is experience and then there is too experienced. Personally I don't think I would want to be with someone that had been around the block so many times that there weren't new things to try together. I am not saying I prefer no experience that is just unrealistic, but I think a person that had experienced it all prior to our relationship would be bored with life in general as learning helps us grow and challenges us.

I want to gain some experience with Feisty Baby

Is this a proposal or a proposition??????

I like experience!!

Don't want to give them an owners manual!

I think communication is the key...I don't care if no experience by one and a ton by other..Your new to each other and as such communicate and just get lost in it. My husband is much younger and not a lot of experience, I taught and man oh man did he.....The key is communicating and asking what each other likes....

A little of both

If you really care about the person, I don't think it should matter if they are experience or not. It don't better me if they have experience or not. Like feralcatlady said communication is the key. I think it is good that the both of you try something new together. That what keep the spice in the relationship or marriage.

When the chemistry is right, lack of experience makes no difference because everything comes naturally.

If the woman is inexperienced then it is less likely that she can tell when I don't know what I am doing. So I think that is a good thing.