What are guys really thinking when they read 'a few extra pounds?' Do they think that she has an extra 5-10 or an extra 30-50? Do they think curvy or fat? Just curious.

"A few more extra" than "average"

I could never figure that out

I think you look beautiful in your pics, so you shouldn't worry.

CURVY something to grab

it means doable

I'm pretty fly for a fat guy

What he said.

I'm not worried, completely comfortable with my body. I do know how many people lie online and put average when it should be heavyset, so I don't know if guys automatically add 10 lbs to what they think they see. Just being nosy....

That's what I was thinking

Somewhere between 5 and 900. People's interpretation of the definition is somewhat nebulous and arbitrary.

Well some people I notice when they put that are actually HUGE and not just extra baggage. But you look just fine.

i usually think a full bodied girl not chubby but filled ya know, unless te picture shows other wise and its like auviously not that.

I wish they would give people the option to put cushey. People don't want to lie but you pick from the options offered. Wish they would let you just post numbers.

I agree. Or at least give some better options. Curvy should definitely be on there. I wanna check that box!

Some women can't really differentiate or don't know what to measure against..so 'few extra pounds' will make every men to look carefully what she really meant. I'm being honest, while others trying to be nice and you want real answers instead of flirt lines so here I am.

The 'few extra pounds' is the border category, where many men get cautious. While everyone goes with the slim, slender, athletic, thin, the "few extra pounds' is the breaking point. And women, who aren't just "a few" extra pounds, should not be ashamed to say whatever size they are, because it makes all men suspicious, especially if there are no full-body pictures available.
And those who are 'more extra pounds' should not be ashamed either. Many people will value them for their honesty and many don't really care about, but they will more care about trust and truthworthiness and this is usually the first line of failure, where the men notice a problem with honesty.

Hate me now, I know weight is a problem for many, even I had a problem with it a couple of years ago..but please be honest, especially if you want to date and there is a chance of personal meeting and everything will come to the surface , sooner or later.

any femal i want has to have and ass

No hate here, I want the honest answers. I completely understand where you are coming from, because so many people do have a distorted picture of what their body really looks like.............

On the hunt for a full body pic so noone questions it. haha

It depends on the person's point of view.Ive been trying to figure it out myself so I asked women in stores about clothes sizes.
Average size for a woman is size 13 and under.Plus size is 14 and above.Petite is 5'4 and below.Misses sizes are in the odd numbers.Small is size six and under
If a person asks you about your weight just tell them your pants size lol

Curvy is gooooood...