Topic: would you rather be feared or loved?
bohemianbugeater's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:11 PM
rofl hubba hubba

I'm already loved and I had bean burritos for breakfast

fear me

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:13 PM



okay how many people who want to be loved choose to be feared instead? i know ive dated a few like that....how about you?


Sounds more like a tough guy image if you ask me.
course it is. oddly enough most of these men were beta males with alpha dreams.


Remember, you chose to date em. laugh laugh laugh

countrybelle6471's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:15 PM
Feared by those that have hurt me & the 1's I love..pitchfork

Loved By everyone else..flowers smitten

elwoodsully's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:17 PM


I'm 6ft4, and 280. I already intimidate alot of people just by being this size. I also have scared little kids just my speaking with my deep voice. So.. I guess loved.
ive always liked deep voices. my greatgrandpa was 7'3" and had a really deep voice. i always thought of him as my own personal giant and protector. kind of the my grandpas cooler than yours syndrome lol.


to this day tho i love a good deep voice. yum yum!
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My Grampas we're both about 5'6" or so, but had ball$ of steel (from what I'm told). My Dad was 5'10", but chased (on foot) after a purse-snatcher when he was 70. Didn't get him, but got his plate #.

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:18 PM
I just wanna live under my rock

no photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:20 PM
All I need is

no photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:21 PM
most people fear me.......I guess that would be called "intimidated" which I really hate....ohwell

I will take love for $400 alex!!:heart:

JoeW99's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:22 PM
Feared by enough people already... only loved by a few.

I'll take love from the right person, the rest can think what they will.

bohemianbugeater's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:37 PM




okay how many people who want to be loved choose to be feared instead? i know ive dated a few like that....how about you?


Sounds more like a tough guy image if you ask me.
course it is. oddly enough most of these men were beta males with alpha dreams.


Remember, you chose to date em. laugh laugh laugh
did i mention they were well disguised beta males...and well i never said they werent GOOD GUYS....just not for me. besides we all need transitional relationships in life no?

bohemianbugeater's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:38 PM

I just wanna live under my rock
ill still visit ya bug. i love the new pic btw lmao.
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scoundrel's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:39 PM
Oh, dear, you have just widened my vocabulary of "Cherished Phrases"!!!

Transitional Relationships. (Coming soon, to a thread near you!!)

bohemianbugeater's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:39 PM
:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: this reminds me of snl skits the penis mightier and jap anus relations lmao

most people fear me.......I guess that would be called "intimidated" which I really hate....ohwell

I will take love for $400 alex!!:heart:

bohemianbugeater's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:40 PM
flowerforyou

Feared by enough people already... only loved by a few.

I'll take love from the right person, the rest can think what they will.

bohemianbugeater's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:40 PM
flowerforyou

Feared by enough people already... only loved by a few.

I'll take love from the right person, the rest can think what they will.

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 01/25/09 03:43 PM

for me this easy...i want people to fear how much they love me....tongue2 joshing.

have at it.


When I was raising my kids *snicker* I would have said fear.
Actually achieving fear is relatively easy to do. Achieving love well that is another matter therefore that is what I strive for.

CChristo's photo
Sun 01/25/09 06:24 PM

for me this easy...i want people to fear how much they love me....tongue2 joshing.

have at it.
... you are pretty striking in your pics, great eyes. Oh, wait, got sidetracked ... Feared or loved .... I will say loved, feared gets lonely.

galendgirl's photo
Sun 01/25/09 06:26 PM
Loved...duh, no question about it for me!

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 01/25/09 07:13 PM
Acknowledged.

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 01/25/09 07:14 PM
appreciated.

ANTicz's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:43 PM
Depends...

fear does a better job of controlling people

love does a better job of keeping people loyal

Respect does both.

So if you had a third choice, I'd rather be respected.