... I'm weighing the difference between flirting/being seen online vs in person ~ the peramiters are entirely different; in person, I'm a big believer in chemistry ~ it's not something you can just conjur up because someone happens to have all the right physical features or likes/dislikes, it's either there or not, and you tend to know almost immediately. Online, however, your photo seems to be the number one indicator of how attractive someone is, or attracted to you are. This is a problem for alot of reasons, but the first one I think of is that I have met and known women who are just insanely sexy in person ~ you can't put your finger on it or quantify why they are, they just ARE, but those same women in a 1 dimensional pic look merely 'Ok'. Someone's chemistry (not referring to just sexual chemistry) is impossible to convey via a photo or description.
Yeah, yeah, I know this is the cool thing to do for safety etc. etc., I'm just sayin. It'd be cool to just meet for a cup of coffee, see what happens & shoot from there. |
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... This is exactly what I DO love about this site, though ~ you all; everyone who has responded to my posts has been just super cool about stuff. Thanks you guys.
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its competitive remember there is someone who is always better and when it doesn't work with them then they'll email you back Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain. He's just bitter. |
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its competitive remember there is someone who is always better and when it doesn't work with them then they'll email you back |
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... This is fascinating to me, let me explain: in the 'real world', I am a pretty successful guy at meeting new people (women), I'm not shy, very confident, and typically my approach, which is to just be myself, works extremely well ~ I'm a big believer in chemistry, and I tend to 'read' people extremely well, I can tell when a girl is interested, not, etc. However .... apparently my personality, appearance, or both, are much better in person, because on this website, I think I am around 2 for 10 ~ what the hey is going on ;) ! Is it that women on this site are hit on by such a huge number of men that they don't even feel it necessary to even respond at all ? Or is the line of etiquette her here that if you're not interested, just say nothing at all, don't waste your time responding ? Heck, I have no idea. So, has anyone else here seen that their 'real life' experiences are as different to this 'dating' experience as mine has been ? Just curious (not complaining, just trying to get a feel for this) ....
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... you guys are cool ~ thanks for the kind words & giving me some insight :)
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go ahead. Tell me about my profile, pics, yada yada.
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Ok fine, Rate Me.
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Just be gentle...I'm a sensitive spirit. lol ...Yummy. |
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what do you think..
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people find most attractive about you... |
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thank you !
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The first tattoo here is of the Archangel Michael killing the devil ~ the eternal battle between good and evil fascinates me
[image]http://assets.mingle2.com/images/users/42/62/863757_2536.jpg?1233085216 The next one is one of the oldest Christian symbols that happens to have an interesting Celtic history to it as well [image]http://assets.mingle2.com/images/users/75/0/863757_9011.jpg?1233085223 |
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I have more on the way ... left and right calves have designs ready, but the top of my shoulders down to the backs of my arms are next ... I wish the details showed up better in the pics, but hey, cel phone pics are what they are, you know ?
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Be smarter than the average bear ~ don't start
'em, swallow your pride because who wins the fight doesn't matter, who understands the other person does. |
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... would anyone mind replying with simple, step by step on adding a picture to a reply ? Thank you
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How do I add a picture in a reply ?
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Strictly for art's sake ? Meaningful ? Sentimental ? Someone double-dog dared you ?
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okay...your opinion.....
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Does this picture make me look like an Irish Ugly Betty? I haven't had bangs in years and the girl gave me bangs!! |
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... OK, they're posted; I will take better pictures so the details come up clearer, and they're alot darker than they appear in the photos. Thanks you guys ...
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Let's see!! Let's see!!!!! As long as it isn't somewhere..... |
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post pics of my tattoos ? I have just the pics from where I got the inspiration from, but not the actual tattoo work itself posted. Thoughts ?
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