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People that drink scare the hell out of me. I used to be one of em, and I aint going there again either

If I have something to say to a guy I will say it. Doesn't mean I am hitting on him. I have become a bit more hesitant since when I do chat with a guy they sometimes think I am interested in more than what they have to say. So I am a bit more choosey in that area.

Been with too many of them, seen too many of them kill themselves with alcohol -- both slowly and otherwise. I don't want to go through that again. It's never going to be a part of my life.

Eh, women can be hard to read. If they are coy it can be fun to pursue them. Confident women are great too. They make sure that you give them what they like. It's nice not to have so much guess work all the time. After all, pretty much all women only tell you what you are doing wrong when you manage to piss them off.

I don't drink, either, and I would also like to add to this that I don't dance.

My "dancing" can be compared to a full-body dry heave set to music.

I feel that you have a wrong perception, I think you might only listen when you pissed them off

you are right if you are not interested it is a piece of cake, but when there some attraction it is a diferent story.

Thanks for the compliment Beautiful!

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Who said it had to be in a bar, maybe you were at a family wedding...why does everyone have to assume you are talking about a bar?? def assume - ass out of u and me
& I also didn't say you had to dance just save her from the a'hole that's bothering her, Jeez!! You missed the whole dam point!!

Chill pill, anyone?

What, are you trying to say that people don't drink at weddings? That would be a new one on me.

I also am not going to go out of my way to "save" her from some a-hole that's bothering her. Why should I? Women are ALWAYS quick to say that they're 'independent' and they 'don't need any help from a man', and other such nonsense, so why should I waste my efforts? Let her deal with it herself. She'll tell you she can, anyway.

Besides, that a-hole that's bothering her was probably the person who made the first move, so who is in the wrong here?

Take or leave I was just staing its a conversation opener, I really dont care what you do or dont do....it was just an idea. There are times women are grateful fro a little help evry once in while though!! Recoveries so non-open minded to another views and some people can handle going to family functions, like weddings and such. Maybe she was being harrassed at the dam gas station, ohh but some of them sell beer, and I guess you never need gasoline??

I can understand your point and view as seeing somthing like that to be a conversation starter. By the same token, more often than not, she's already pissed off at the asshole that was trying to make moves on her, she'd be more likely to tell me to go f*ck myself if I tried to 'help' her.

I understand your point, but if you do not put yourself out there and try then you get no results, and just because some women are idiotic b!tches that think too highly of themselves doesn't mean we all are. And if you don't one day you may miss the one that was meant to share with you, just by having the predipositioned mind set that every woman is that idiotic b!tch that thinks too highly of herself. I, also, might add there just as many men with that think too highly of themselves as well. Just as there are ones that dont think highly enough of themselves.

Speaking just for myself, I don't 'put myself out there and try' because I choose not to. If I get no results, then I'm no worse off than I already am, which, incidentally, ain't so bad. Saves myself a lot of headache and heartache. I speak from enough of my own experience with this. Tried it, didn't like it, wasn't happy with the results, so I simply don't do it anymore.

i once picked up a girl at a funeral,but she turned out to be dead in the sack..
then there was this girl i picked up in church and every time i tried to put the move on her she would give me a right CROSS,sometimes a left CROSS,i guess she couldnt make up her mind which denomination she belonged to,
then there was this girl i picked up at a bar once when we woke up and saw each other we both tried to gnaw off our arms(coyote ugly)..
then there was this time i went out with a bi-polar chick but she was cold as hell no matter which end was up...
dating is for the birds...i'll just sit on this wire and wait for a nice ride to pass under..i have a message to deliver...

like I said take it or leave it

I consider myself old-fashioned, but men approaching ladies is one old-fashioned idea I do not like.

I end up out there whether I intended to be or not.

problem is, I don't remember how I got there.....