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Topic: guys, shall women start conversation?
Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 07:20 AM
no heck no, bad idea...the guy will think you are too pushy, let him make the first move! Screw that. If he thinks I'm to pushy because I said hi first then we're not going to get along anyway. I've spent to much of my life waiting on men... not gonna happen anymore.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/22/09 07:21 AM
no heck no, bad idea...the guy will think you are too pushy, let him make the first move! Screw that. If he thinks I'm to pushy because I said hi first then we're not going to get along anyway. I've spent to much of my life waiting on men... not gonna happen anymore. Jill, if you have the time, would you mind instilling that into every other woman in the world? -- Particularly the ones in Braidwood?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 07:22 AM
no heck no, bad idea...the guy will think you are too pushy, let him make the first move! Screw that. If he thinks I'm to pushy because I said hi first then we're not going to get along anyway. I've spent to much of my life waiting on men... not gonna happen anymore. Jill, if you have the time, would you mind instilling that into every other woman in the world? -- Particularly the ones in Braidwood? It would be my pleasure

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Thu 01/22/09 07:24 AM
The last time a woman whom I was unfamiliar with approached me for ANY reason, but particularly with the intent of a "li'l sump'm-sump'm" on her mind: 1989. I was 22 years old. I really find that hard to beleive... perhaps you just dont notice?.... Honey, I may be crazy, but I ain't stupid, and I sure as hell ain't blind.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 07:26 AM
The last time a woman whom I was unfamiliar with approached me for ANY reason, but particularly with the intent of a "li'l sump'm-sump'm" on her mind: 1989. I was 22 years old. I really find that hard to beleive... perhaps you just dont notice?.... Honey, I may be crazy, but I ain't stupid, and I sure as hell ain't blind. It's not about whether or not you're blind. It's whether or not you can tell if a girl is interested in your or not. Some guys have no idea. And other guys think we're ALL interested.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 07:27 AM
no heck no, bad idea...the guy will think you are too pushy, let him make the first move! Screw that. If he thinks I'm to pushy because I said hi first then we're not going to get along anyway. I've spent to much of my life waiting on men... not gonna happen anymore. Jill, if you have the time, would you mind instilling that into every other woman in the world? -- Particularly the ones in Braidwood? I'll make Braidwood my first stop on my tour

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/22/09 07:28 AM
It's not about whether or not you're blind. It's whether or not you can tell if a girl is interested in your or not. Some guys have no idea. And other guys think we're ALL interested. That's true, I NEVER have any idea. My female friends always give me a hard time about that, too. But I honestly have no clue.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 07:30 AM
It's not about whether or not you're blind. It's whether or not you can tell if a girl is interested in your or not. Some guys have no idea. And other guys think we're ALL interested. That's true, I NEVER have any idea. My female friends always give me a hard time about that, too. But I honestly have no clue. Then you need your female friends to tell you.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Thu 01/22/09 07:31 AM
It's not about whether or not you're blind. It's whether or not you can tell if a girl is interested in your or not. Some guys have no idea. And other guys think we're ALL interested. That's true, I NEVER have any idea. My female friends always give me a hard time about that, too. But I honestly have no clue. This is due to plenty of prior experience (or LACK, thereof). Nobody's paid any attention before, why should we think they should pay any attention NOW?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/22/09 07:34 AM
I'll make Braidwood my first stop on my tour You know where Berkot's is?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 07:35 AM
I'll make Braidwood my first stop on my tour You know where Berkot's is? No

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/22/09 07:36 AM
Then you need your female friends to tell you. They do, but it's always after the fact. "Did you see what she was doing? Did you see that look she gave you?" -- this, 45 minutes after the fact. My friends like to see me suffer.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/22/09 07:37 AM
I'll make Braidwood my first stop on my tour You know where Berkot's is? No Braidwood's not that big - 5203 people. Just stay on 53 going south, you can't miss it!

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Thu 01/22/09 07:38 AM
Then you need your female friends to tell you. They do, but it's always after the fact. "Did you see what she was doing? Did you see that look she gave you?" -- this, 45 minutes after the fact. My friends like to see me suffer. 45 minutes?? So SOON??

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 07:40 AM
Then you need your female friends to tell you. They do, but it's always after the fact. "Did you see what she was doing? Did you see that look she gave you?" -- this, 45 minutes after the fact. My friends like to see me suffer. You need new friends dear Lex

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/22/09 08:01 AM
You need new friends dear Lex That's why it would be BETTER if the would just come up to me and say something! Then I wouldn't have to rely on unconfirmed allegations down the road!

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/22/09 08:03 AM
You need new friends dear Lex That's why it would be BETTER if the would just come up to me and say something! Then I wouldn't have to rely on unconfirmed allegations down the road! I'll start a training program pronto

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Thu 01/22/09 08:06 AM
what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion. I was old fashioned at one time but with the "equal" of everything in todays society I do expect that a woman should / could approach a man.. Sometimes its in a subtle way... I have caught women looking, checking me out, making eye contact, smileing.. Does that mean anything other then hey.. I looked at you? well there is one way to find out.. smile back or approach her. Its not about she wants to boink you right there.. just she may be interested in you..

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Thu 01/22/09 08:10 AM
We are all insecure and sometimes our brains go duh duh duh when we see someone we like. And some people are better off being thought of as a fool, than opening their mouths and proving it.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Thu 01/22/09 08:19 AM
We are all insecure and sometimes our brains go duh duh duh when we see someone we like. And some people are better off being thought of as a fool, than opening their mouths and proving it. I ain't skeered! puffs chest out