admit...

okay...how many gals out there are mean ones???


you know, nagging


overly judgmental

or wants to CHANGE everything about, everything

or is just plain rude....

Oh this is a good one

A lot of em. It all depends on what they have been through and how they are now dealing with it.

I'm mean!!!


Because I'm one of those "strong" minded females

I'm to much of a gentlemen to say that. I'll say some are not my type but i won't go anywhere else.

oooohhhh your right I am getting some paper and pens taking notes

I don't know that I'm "mean" per se, but I generally say what's on my mind. As for trying to change someone, the only one I try to change is myself If I find myself being constantly critical of someone, I find that there's really no place for them in my life as that's not exactly a healthy relationship.

Something i have been wanting to know

I don't give a toss what you do or don't do....

just don't do it around me....


I got better things to do, than whinge and moan...

surely there are more willing to own up???

i'd say im a major ***** in my relationships... thats the reason i'm single. because if a guy isn't exactly what i want, i jump his case about it. i dont settle, and guys find it "mean" when i bring up the problems to them, even why i try to be nice lol

I don't take crude off a man, and I could care less what you do just keep it away from me and don't cheat on me.
So I would not say I was mean just tough

Not mean here, I'm a giver...

Im mean,its a coping mechanism ,push people away so they cant hurt me

I've been called mean, or a B!tch from H3ll at times. I've also been called sweet ange.

Like someone said above, "A lot of em. It all depends on what they have been through and how they are now dealing with it."


Of course, I've been working on becoming kinder and nicer for many, many years. I believe I have come a long way.

Ok, in all honesty, I have a nasty side. Don't we all? This nasty side used to show itself a great deal 20 years ago when I would "take someone to the gravel" for the silliest things. It was all I knew back then.

I had a gentleman, rather large in stature (6'4") tell little ol' me (5'3") one day, "You intimidate the daylights outta most folks." When I asked why, he could not give me an answer. Keep in mind, I was the lead bartender in a rather..um, rough bar. It was my job to "never show fear" and not allow the place to get torn up. So I suppose I came off as one tough lil' biatch.

I have since spent years working on myself, my thought processes, and improving the quality of my life, relationships, etc. Thank goodness I had the time and opportunities to change. I am much wiser now.

I try not to judge because there is no possible way I can know everything about why a person acted the way they did in each situation. I would be more prone to use the word 'discerning' to describe what it is I am willing to allow into my life. Rude? That rarely applies to me at all. Nagging? Please, give me a break here. I don't harp on others about the choices they make because it's a waste of time.

<----- just plain rude

I learned when I was younger (my 20's) that naggin doesn't work. It's a waste of time and hot air.
I learned when I was younger (my 30's) that I couldn't change a person to suit me. I either accept them for themselves or move on.
I have recently learned (my 40's) that it is wrong to be overly judgemental because that can always come around and bite u right in the hinny.
However I am opinionated and have no problem with sticking up for myself and my opinions. My opinions aren't always everyone elses. As they say that's the great thing about opinions they're like as*holes, everyone has one.