After getting put down by some one from justsayhi that no longer uses the site but me and her where emailing one another using are personal email accounts. Even though I have blocked her from emailing me etc. I just thought I would ask the following question..

Any way's it got me thinking and I know I'm not but it just got me thinking.

Am I really an ugly person as I was told.

Also I know I don't have the best viewing picture on here and hopefully around summer time or before then I will be able to up load some newer pictures that are more up to date.

No, you are not ugly and that woman was a b!tch for judging....She is nothing but shallow that wanted to better her almost non-existant self esteem

Anywho, can't wait for newer pics

Thank you, for the kind words and being helpful.

You really shouldn't take some one's email to heart like that. Do they really know you? Or are they just lipping off... As far as pictures go... I am not sure which ones are really of you.. I would be guessing the first one and the fourth one... they are a bit blurry, but still that does not even come close to someone making a statement like that. Maybe you are not her type, but she could have said it a bit better. You just need to let your personality shine through.

Why are you letting someone control how you feel about your self? or how you feel about your looks? Let it go. An angry person that wants to hurt you will say hurtfull things. Its that simple. And you are letting them do that by thinking about it. Ignore them.

I'm the guy holding a championship title belt with a magazine in the back round.. that's a pic of me.

No she doesn't no me.. more inless lipping off.

how should i know? i dont know you personally.

i mean who am i or anyone else to judge your ugliness or lack of? i mean you could be an amazing person and i would hve no idea.

so really.. isn't this something you should be asking yourself?

don't let others dictate that answer.

You're only as ugly as you feel.

First off I would like to say as I'd stated before when I first posted this topic that I was just asking a simple question and I was in no way no how letting some one else have control over me etc. Although it may have seemed like that but it's in no way not at all that way.

Secondly I was just thinking about it and just thought I get some people's thoughts on it was all.

Wait, wait...you have a couple different pictures on your profile.
Is this one you? http://www.smeltproductions.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/joker.jpg

If so, then yeah, you're pretty ugly...



But if it's that other guy, yeah you look fine. I would even venture to say that if you were in pretty good shape, you'd be smokin'!

Good point.

I'm in alright shape and I'm the guy who is holding a championship title with a magazine back round. On the main pic is of me. The other pics are just fakes, although I may have one more pic of my self with a basketball jersey on. Which is the only two pictures of my self. That is after re-editing some of my pictures and all.

Yeah.. good point as well.

You are saying the woman is shallow and calling her names when you don't even know her?


and Johncena you are thanking them for that?

hmmm?

You're damned if you're honest,


you're damn if you're not.

I'm still trying to find out what the question is.

*EDIT* Nevermind, I found it. I didn't spot it at first, because I saw no question marks.

Not knowing what your emails contained, the comment about being ugly could be more about you as a person and not your appearance.

I have used the term at times when someone has written or treated me in an offensive way.

First off I like to say I wasn't thanking them for that, I was pretty much thanking them for there feed back and kind words and maybe I should have said that more clearly.

Secondly I never called her names what so ever, however I was sticking up for my self when she was calling me names. Surely I do not know her that well because of how she reacts.

And last if your going to call me out you should call me by my full user name not just part of it, thank you.

I understand where you coming from on that then, however I believe and that's just me I would never call any body names.. I would just drop every thing and move on. I feel that name calling is not right and just do not have time for that kind of BS.