Topic: To the people that have been married
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Sun 12/28/08 04:30 PM

Let's just say I have enough ex-husbands that they could form their own support group.


Love it!!!

Me once...12 years...miss it..but enjoying some things about being single too.

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Sun 12/28/08 04:34 PM

Marriage to me, is just a piece of paper. If I love someone, I dont need to sign a marriage license to prove it. So I will NOT be married again. Plus the cost of divorce sucks.:tongue:
I hear that a lot... my divorce cost a sum total of $149.56...... seriously I did all the paper work myself kept up to date with current laws and represented myself in court.. OF course it helped she never showed for any court appearences..:banana:

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Sun 12/28/08 04:36 PM
twice, both had very poor memories; could not remember which bed they were supposed to be sleeping in. Maybe I have poor choice in women?frustrated

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Sun 12/28/08 04:40 PM
Once for almost 22 years... should have gotten smarter like 11 years earlier then that...

I won't say never again... but it will be awhile definetely... spock

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Sun 12/28/08 04:43 PM

twice, both had very poor memories; could not remember which bed they were supposed to be sleeping in. Maybe I have poor choice in women?frustrated

Sounds like my ex hubby, he had a problem with the zipper on his pants...he just couldn't keep the darn thing up.

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Sun 12/28/08 04:51 PM

How many times have you been married?

Me, just once was enough for me to know that I didn't like it.drinker


So, what do you like?

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Sun 12/28/08 04:55 PM

Let's just say never again.


What about a guy who didn't wear shoes?

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Sun 12/28/08 05:04 PM
Once.

Maybe one day, I will be again. Its my dream, but I have no expectations that I'll even ever date again.

Just accepting that maybe I'm meant to be single.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:04 PM
Twice.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:10 PM
Once. And can see maybe doing it again.... some day.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:15 PM
I actually read divorced folks that live together with new partners (before marriage) are like 20% more likely to divorce again than those who do not live together before marriage.

Given the rate of divorce for 2nd marrieds, that is exceedingly high.

I briefly shared my space with two of my last long-term partners. I won't be doing that again before marriage, assuming I ever date again.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:18 PM
Edited by isaac_dede on Sun 12/28/08 05:19 PM
Once, next time i'll be VERY cautious. Plus the experience taught me what i really want in a partner "fail forward"

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Sun 12/28/08 05:21 PM
Just once but the next and I do hope there is a next time will be with the right person not just because I was lonely and horny

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Sun 12/28/08 05:24 PM


How many times have you been married?

Me, just once was enough for me to know that I didn't like it.drinker


So, what do you like?


I like seeing my sons face light up seeing me when I pick him up from daycare.

I like pinot noir.

I like bowling.

I like being single.

There is more, but I will spare you.:wink: laugh

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Sun 12/28/08 05:25 PM
once... never again though without deep and thoughtful introspection on both sides...

I was 19, she was 17... lasted 19 years...

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Sun 12/28/08 05:26 PM
I was married once...

for 9 months...

long, boring, story...

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

But I wanna get married again someday, for sure!


If some poor slob will have me...

that is...lol.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:35 PM
First time 3 yrs
Second time 17 yrs

Twenty years and out.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:37 PM
Was married twice.

First husband gave me three beautiful, wonderful children.

Second husband gave me "myself".

Far wiser and much better for having had both experiences.

Third time a charm? Who knows... Not what I am looking for, but the Universe conspires to give us what we need - not what we want.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:39 PM
Never married.

Almost proposed once.

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Sun 12/28/08 05:42 PM
twice.....14 yrs and 9 yrs.....
both had good and bad......
neither was faithful.........

wont rule it out........