Noo, I described it and he is interested in seeing it.... we discussed the whole meaning of the scene and it was cool.

Wickedly not vanilla.

Pimpage!

Racer~

Let it go... you are beating a dead horse.

if you want common friggin courtesy.. then read my profile..
dont email me tellin me what you will do to me when you get me alone on the first email from you when i dont even know you when my profile clearley states that i am in a relationship.
these are the kind of emails that i ignore.
common courtesy is to read someones profile to see if there would be a conection BEFORE you email them..
jmo


and to the OP.. welcome to the site.. and dont get discouraged.. it took me a year to find the man im with now. my advice.. post post post.. let us get to know you.. good luck

Soooooooooooooo......email what I want to do to you on the second email?

goof dear.. you wouldnt make it to a second email!

That I can understand being deleted. I was referring to sincere emails, not rude from the get go. I would expect those to be ignored.

I think it needs to be said:

One sentence or partial sentence fragment emails are NOT worth replying to and are RUDE.

Examples:

Hi wanna chat
Hey how are you
You seem nice
Nice smile I like you

what's up hit me up
I liked your profile
How was your weekend
Do you have messenger

Etc....

Meeting someone new on a dating site is no different than meeting someone face to face for the first time. They sum you up (by your profile or what you write, or your looks and what you say if in person). The outcome is not always going to be positive. For those of you that are old enough, how did you handle rejection before the internet? Well just do the same thing when you do not receive a reply to your email. I would just move and not worry about it.

As long as I don't initiate the first email, then yeah....you are right....I wouldn't.

sarcasm aside, it's too bad for the sincere guys who are writing to women with the hopes of building some sort of relationship, either one of friendship, or one of romance.

however, the majority of email one receives typically consists of: 'wassup?', 'ur hawt' 'hi sexy'

if the email isn't one or two words in length, it might say 'so, tell me about yourself'. ummm, YOU wrote ME - maybe you should be the one trying to gain my interest and attention, rather than the other way around.

or as pacificstar mentioned, gives out yahoo addresses/telephone numbers/other personal information immediately.

in the cases where the email sounds moderately normal and sincere, the woman will write back, being pleasant and displaying 'common friggen courtesy'.

then, she might get offered some raunchy photos, or asked to chat on cam, nude.

or, if she doesn't write back quick enough, the male gets all offended and possessive, wondering what took so long.

or he thinks that her writing back is a sign of interest and acts accordingly.

so when i hear the males sounding off about how rude we are by not replying, it sort of makes me laugh. if you want a reply, make yourself stand out in some way, besides just expecting her to be courteous and polite. just because you want something, or even demand it, doesn't mean it's gonna happen.

and is it not rude to not read someones profile before you email them??
is it not rude to just send an email to someone just because you like their avitar?

same thing in my book.
jmo

I know when I email a woman, for the first time, I tell them I am taken and this isn't a "pick-up" email. And, if I email them and I never have, it usually stems from a post they made on here, or something I read in their profile that just makes me laugh, or brings back a memory.

If I am good friends with a woman on here and I am comfortable with them, then I send a "UR HAWT!" email to them.

Goof gives GOOD mail....

and thats the difference..
if you state your intentions clearly.. then so be it..
and if its an email from a friend then i almost expect a joking pickup.. but when someone ive never seen/heard of before emails me.. tellin me..
your hot.. i think we could be a great couple.. want to message me..
then i get annoyed..
also anoying.. the friends requests from people i dont know!!
lol
ok done venting now..
btw.. goof. your hawt!!

I said it before and I'll say it again, I can understand the rude ones being deleted or ignored. I have only had a couple emails ignored, and they were sincere and not "one liners" and I don't have raunchy pics to offer, and I don't even have a webcam. I read profiles before I send anything, and if a profile such as yours says don't email me I won't. But in the short time I have been here I have been out for pizza with a Mingler and have chatted at length with another, and met some great people. So the way I look at it, the ones who ignored, it's their loss. But I still think it's RUDE. Simple as that.

that's the difference

i don't think i've ever - knowingly - not replied to a forum poster who's written to me in private email.

there's a difference between interacting via forums, however impersonal that interaction might be. even if i've never exchanged posts with them, just recognizing their name would be enough for me to reply, or write.

Awww Izzie....gonna send you a dirty email now.

BTW...You are a hottie too. Your man is a lucky fella!

just the way life is.

someone not emailing ya back,doesnt mean nothing so just go on,no need to wonder why someone didnt email back

on the other end of the spectrum, a lot of women receive so many emails in a day that its not possible to answer em all and they have to delete without replies

Hell, even I get unsolicited emails from women who obviously didnt read my profile to see I'm taken. And my whole profile consists of one sentence "I'm taken"

they get deleted without replies also