That's what i was afraid to happen.:^(

The beginning of Crap and paranoia


TO Whoever do this .... Stop, please

NOT on JHS, PLEASE!

JSH sorry typo

"Emoturb,
I hope I didn't imply that any newbies lied. I don't believe that and
that wasn't my intent. Just sharing my experience.
As far as who I told I was going to sign up? I made a joke on a thread
about heading a raid to rescue some others."

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no, hon. I didn't think that at all.=0)

I do know though that it has been a huge shock to members here to have
his explosion of people come in.
And, I would be worried if no one was wary.=0)

It does show how unproffesional it has become, and not in any way
reasonable, or rational...

thanks for the info. I left because so many of my friends left. There
was no one there left to talk to that I knew. Hope to keep some of my
former friends and make some new ones.

well i was leaving for now

but a point to ponder

if you leave and do not delete profile

you add to base membership which

helps dictate advertising rates

so you may inadvertantly supporting them

just a thought

but hey what do i know

I know BG.. not like there's enOUGH drama in REAL life EH??

this site to many is our Home away from home.. where many friends and
Famillia meet daily.. and we protect it as our OWN.. so couldn't agree
with you more.. an OUNCE of prevention is always valuable...

but as invisible stated.. we shouldn't let that change who WE are.. just
go about our normal business and continue to avoid the DRAMA!! ANY
newbie is just that.. someone we will welcome with open arms .. then
take each day as it comes..

besides.. most of us will fight to keep it this fun, great place it is,
specially with Mike and Van EVER vigilant in keeping us all safe from
the riff raff

Without appearing too glib on the whole subject of that site way back
there in the past....

My profile is here now...and it is with JSH I log in, and communicate
with those here...

What went on there, went on there...

And although our former world, (site) and our current world, (JSH) have
overlapped, there are enough astute people from both sites now here, to
sniff out any who are not here in the right spirit, or with the best of
intentions.

So realistically, for me, I am here in good faith that between both
camps,(now ONE camp) and Van and Mike, all will be sorted if the
situation arose that a less than honest person appeared.

Z,
Well said and I couldn't agree more. It's amazing to me how a guy who a
year ago laughed at the thought of cyber chat has grown to love this
community of ours.

bravo lee

very well put

Hi Jess.

Thanks Robin.


And hi Glenn.

you are welcome

your wisdom leads me to read your posts

may much good come to you and yours

I hear ya BG.. never did I think by joinin this group months ago that I
would find SOOOO many caring and like minded people..

people who like myself are just looking to fill our lives with
friendships, caring and love and leave all the drama of reality behind..
I've been fortunate to meet many awesome people by being open minded and
respectful.. and friendships have blossomed.. people in here are THERE
for you no matter WHEN or HOW you need them.. it's truly a caring
community and we WILL continue to be ever vigilant in keeping it that
way... this IS our home.. and we're PROUD to be a part of something
GREATER than us...

Our doors our wide open and we embrace new connections.. those that
can't get that WON'T benefit.. all I can say about that is .. I feel
sorry for them.. they've NO idea what they're missing out on.. as my dad
would say "they're diggin their OWN graves"

Thanks, Glenn, this is hysterical! Yeah, it's all a major conspiracy on
behalf of a certain "faction" of troublemakers at CS.

What a HOOT!

I did break forum rules over there, but I felt I was in a position where
I was forced to. Posters were getting away with making rude, insulting,
personal attacks and NOTHING was being done about it. If you even so
much as called it to their attention, you risked being banned.

And that's what happened to me.

I can see the reason behind not wanting to get arguments carried away in
a forum, but NOT if nothing's ever going to be done about it.

If someone starts attacking me and insulting my personal character, I
feel I have the right to defend myself. I don't want someone else
reading what is being said and thinking that it could possibly be true.

The trouble with CS is, it seems, they want to have the site and reel in
the advertising bucks, but they want to do little to nothing in order to
maintain it, or encourage harmony amongst its members.

I told them their actions would come back to haunt them some day, that
word of mouth advertising could also hurt them tremendously...and looks
like my predictions were right.

I doubt they're that worried about it, as they obviously still have a
client base and will continue to reel in unsuspecting members.

But if they don't eventually change their ways, they're not going to be
in existence too much longer. Most of their members are not the
imbeciles they apparently think they are.

lol I checked the site last night and my profile is still on there. I
never knew how to erase it so its still there lol

that's freaking bull...
stay away from cyber hell A.K.A connecting singles

I just want to reiterate,
I didn't post this to destroy the "other" place either. I didn't post
this to start a witch hunt.
I simply care about this place and the people in it.

Glenn -- Their explanation sounds bogus to me. Why would they blindly
accept information provided by a "past member"? What would be the
incentive for a "past member" to give them any information in the first
place?

It's to their advantage to make us believe they have a plant here. But
that doesn't need to be the case at all -- all that's needed is one
person who knows a bunch of people left CS and came here. CS is going
to try to come up with a story that justifies its
behavior....incorporating the idea that the ones who left are a bunch of
troublemakers. Doesn't make it true, just shows what level CS is
willing to stoop to in order to avoid coming across as the "bad guy."

From a tactical standpoint, you're not going to install a mole
simultaneously with a mass influx of new people. You would send in one
person, quietly, who makes no mention of where he/she came from. The
trick there is to stay "under the radar" -- and many of our newcomers
have been very vocal about CS and the problems there.

I suppose if you wanted to be extremely sneaky, you could arrange a mass
exodus, drawing a lot of attention, and then install a mole who has no
tangible connection to the larger group. While the focus is on the new
group, the mole slips in unnoticed.

But -- for WHAT?? What would be the point? What is a mole going to
tell CS anyway? "Yes, I went over there and I found out JSH is a better
site." This is news?

It's hard to imagine a site whose search engine is so bad it thinks
North Carolina zip codes start with a 6 (yeah, I've done a little poking
around myself), would have the resources or the level of brain function
required to formulate something like what we're talking about here.

Worst case scenario: There's a CS spy on JSH. So what? What is he/she
going to go back and tell them? "They have fun over there." I
mean.....are they going to try to recruit new members? One note to VC
and Mike will take care of that problem. Is anyone really going to want
to sign up with CS after hearing what our new people have told us?

Not to mention the "testimonies" of some older JSHers who had tried CS
way before any of this happened....and all of those stories mesh very
well with what we've been hearing the past few days.

I think this is just CS trying to do some "damage control" and trying to
get back at the ones who left, in the only way they can -- by slandering
their reputations. It's a common tactic, and it often has no basis
other than "sour grapes."

i love JSH, it's my home i feel it that way.
But from all the people who has been deleted or banned, or whatever term
u want to use. I was the first, and for the simple reason of honoring my
friends we were send to the naughty chair for a week, and those who
support them.
My heart still hasn't heal.

Like I said Lex,
I'm just sharing my experience and the conclusion my little ol' mind
came up with at the time.
As far as the "mole"? It's obvious, they're watching, That's all.