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Topic: Do you think?
Jill298's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:29 PM
That maybe Mingle has become a lil to "cliquish?" lol if that's even a wordlaugh

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:31 PM
oh no not you too!!!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:31 PM

That maybe Mingle has become a lil to "cliquish?" lol if that's even a wordlaugh
flowerforyou It has with some of the longtime members(like me):tongue:

Jill298's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:31 PM
?? What??? what did I do??noway

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Mon 11/24/08 08:32 PM
:heart: Riding_dubz:heart:

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Mon 11/24/08 08:32 PM

:heart: Riding_dubz:heart:
love love love love

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Mon 11/24/08 08:37 PM
There was a time (early JSH) when it was a LOT worse.

Now, it's basically a few small groups who like to post 32-page threads of the same 6 people making the same 6 posts 100 times each. They're boring and there's no substance and most of the dialogue sounds like third graders who have spent too many hours sniffing glue in an unventilated area.

The OLD cliques at least had a little class -- when they excluded you, you FELT excluded. The new ones are just pathetic. You wouldn't WANT to be a part of those groups....



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Mon 11/24/08 08:40 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Mon 11/24/08 08:41 PM

There was a time (early JSH) when it was a LOT worse.

Now, it's basically a few small groups who like to post 32-page threads of the same 6 people making the same 6 posts 100 times each. They're boring and there's no substance and most of the dialogue sounds like third graders who have spent too many hours sniffing glue in an unventilated area.

The OLD cliques at least had a little class -- when they excluded you, you FELT excluded. The new ones are just pathetic. You wouldn't WANT to be a part of those groups....



scared Their into a lot of bad stuff.scared Drugz and risky sex.:tongue:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:41 PM
clictky clictky

theres no place like mingle,

theres no place like mingle

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Mon 11/24/08 08:45 PM
Hmm

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Mon 11/24/08 08:45 PM

That maybe Mingle has become a lil to "cliquish?" lol if that's even a wordlaugh


It is a little. But, for the most part, I don't think it's too bad.

shoesmonkey's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:46 PM
Well, who should WE TOAST TONIGHT?

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Mon 11/24/08 08:46 PM

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Mon 11/24/08 08:49 PM
Well the main reason I ask this is because I have seen people here beat up on some newbies who may not "know" how things work here laugh But the way I see it is most times we are just protecting our site from becoming trashylaugh drinker There's true friends here and most people are really cared for and welcomed. And to be honest, when I see some of the posts some people put up... they kinda deserve to be beat up on just a lil but :tongue:

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Mon 11/24/08 08:50 PM
smokin Dam those new Mingolianssmokin

Thomas27's photo
Mon 11/24/08 08:56 PM
I always try to remember where I came from...

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Mon 11/24/08 08:56 PM

Well the main reason I ask this is because I have seen people here beat up on some newbies who may not "know" how things work here laugh But the way I see it is most times we are just protecting our site from becoming trashylaugh drinker There's true friends here and most people are really cared for and welcomed. And to be honest, when I see some of the posts some people put up... they kinda deserve to be beat up on just a lil but :tongue:


Re: the beating up of newbies -- There was recently a shameful exhibition of behavior by some members here, who ganged up on a new person whom they apparently believed was the recipient of too much attention (whatever that means) -- I didn't see THAT as a "clique" situation so much -- more like a sort of loose affiliation of different members, some of whom wouldn't qualify as cliquish in the least, uniting for the sole purpose of attacking someone they perhaps were jealous of, or felt threatened by -- a sad display, but I learned a lot by watching the debacle....

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Mon 11/24/08 09:00 PM


Well the main reason I ask this is because I have seen people here beat up on some newbies who may not "know" how things work here laugh But the way I see it is most times we are just protecting our site from becoming trashylaugh drinker There's true friends here and most people are really cared for and welcomed. And to be honest, when I see some of the posts some people put up... they kinda deserve to be beat up on just a lil but :tongue:


Re: the beating up of newbies -- There was recently a shameful exhibition of behavior by some members here, who ganged up on a new person whom they apparently believed was the recipient of too much attention (whatever that means) -- I didn't see THAT as a "clique" situation so much -- more like a sort of loose affiliation of different members, some of whom wouldn't qualify as cliquish in the least, uniting for the sole purpose of attacking someone they perhaps were jealous of, or felt threatened by -- a sad display, but I learned a lot by watching the debacle....
Lex, I'm not referring to the "shameful exhibition" I have seen those and there's just no excuse for that. I mean the ones their whole 1 whopping post is why cant I find anyone? No one ever emails me. Or "I'm looking for a hot cougar" Or "wheres all da females at? I need 2 of um" laugh Those are just trashy and I don't mind if they go away a lil mad :angel:

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Mon 11/24/08 09:00 PM


Well the main reason I ask this is because I have seen people here beat up on some newbies who may not "know" how things work here laugh But the way I see it is most times we are just protecting our site from becoming trashylaugh drinker There's true friends here and most people are really cared for and welcomed. And to be honest, when I see some of the posts some people put up... they kinda deserve to be beat up on just a lil but :tongue:


Re: the beating up of newbies -- There was recently a shameful exhibition of behavior by some members here, who ganged up on a new person whom they apparently believed was the recipient of too much attention (whatever that means) -- I didn't see THAT as a "clique" situation so much -- more like a sort of loose affiliation of different members, some of whom wouldn't qualify as cliquish in the least, uniting for the sole purpose of attacking someone they perhaps were jealous of, or felt threatened by -- a sad display, but I learned a lot by watching the debacle....


And there was once a guy named Bill....

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Mon 11/24/08 09:01 PM



Well the main reason I ask this is because I have seen people here beat up on some newbies who may not "know" how things work here laugh But the way I see it is most times we are just protecting our site from becoming trashylaugh drinker There's true friends here and most people are really cared for and welcomed. And to be honest, when I see some of the posts some people put up... they kinda deserve to be beat up on just a lil but :tongue:


Re: the beating up of newbies -- There was recently a shameful exhibition of behavior by some members here, who ganged up on a new person whom they apparently believed was the recipient of too much attention (whatever that means) -- I didn't see THAT as a "clique" situation so much -- more like a sort of loose affiliation of different members, some of whom wouldn't qualify as cliquish in the least, uniting for the sole purpose of attacking someone they perhaps were jealous of, or felt threatened by -- a sad display, but I learned a lot by watching the debacle....
Lex, I'm not referring to the "shameful exhibition" I have seen those and there's just no excuse for that. I mean the ones their whole 1 whopping post is why cant I find anyone? No one ever emails me. Or "I'm looking for a hot cougar" Or "wheres all da females at? I need 2 of um" laugh Those are just trashy and I don't mind if they go away a lil mad :angel:



What's wrong with looking for Hot Cougars???:smile:

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