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Edited by
PBug
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Fri 11/21/08 11:09 AM
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At lilith:
Don't really care about that, there hasn't been any harm done and debating is good for the brain. It's a win-win for me. 
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This is basic, but I'd still like to clarify. We are humans. Alpha male in human society has a lot different meaning than in other mammal groups. In example: You are really good at what you do, You are good-looking, You show extrordinary social skills, You have SELF-CONFIDENCE THAT SHOWS(ie. Leader), You are intelligent, etc... If you have only one of these, then the chances are that you are not the alpha male(excluding the leader-position). When you meet someone for the first time, it helps to be the alpha male of only that given situation to gain her affection. You don't need to be the president, or anything like that, just the guy that get attention when he asks it, gets laughter for his jokes, controls the situation and is interesting. What else you would use as criteria for choosing you partner then your instinct? It's called intuition, and that's debatable as well. There a few zillion better ways to select a mate than intuition. Late There seems to be a misunderstanding between us. How exactly do you define instinct? Edit. And I agree with you. There are many better ways to choose a love-of-a-lifetime. We just don't use them. Instinct to me is behavior somehow passed down genetically, forcing us to act involuntary-like in response to whatever stimulus there is for reasons of survival--survival instincts. We don't use our extraordinarily dynamic minds in the selection of our mates? Come now. |
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I'm glad you are all good, PB... 'cus guy is simply an arguer without a point. He is, after all, throwing my own phrase back at me because he thinks it will bother me!
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I'm glad you are all good, PB... 'cus guy is simply an arguer without a point. He is, after all, throwing my own phrase back at me because he thinks it will bother me!
Lilith, I don't argue. You seem to be the one that likes to argue, though. Conceptualizing things has the point of conceptualizing things. If you are unable to do that, clearly that might be the case, then just move on instead of trying to belittle me. |
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Of COURSE nice guys finish last...they let their lady finish first!!
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Lilith, I don't argue. You seem to be the one that likes to argue, though. Conceptualizing things has the point of conceptualizing things. If you are unable to do that, clearly that might be the case, then just move on instead of trying to belittle me. I am making an observation, as I am able. I am not the only person who holds the opinions I do, however. Hardly. You argue... argue argue argue. |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Fri 11/21/08 11:21 AM
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Most women appreciate a guy that finishes last or, even better, at the same time they do.
 I'm just saying......
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Nice to see you, Mitch!
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Likewise Holly. How've you been?
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The same, just with my furnace running!
TGIF.... |
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Lilith, I don't argue. You seem to be the one that likes to argue, though. Conceptualizing things has the point of conceptualizing things. If you are unable to do that, clearly that might be the case, then just move on instead of trying to belittle me. I am making an observation, as I am able. I am not the only person who holds the opinions I do, however. Hardly. You argue... argue argue argue. I'm not going to let you trap me into actually arguing with you so you can all of a sudden say, oh see look see I was right after all. Make your concrete observations and opinions and direct them right at a person, but do expect some type of response. |
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What's a nice guy? I'm a bad boy dat gets all da box. I be stayin a bad boy. Word. Pppppfffftttttt!!!
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Lilith, I don't argue. You seem to be the one that likes to argue, though. Conceptualizing things has the point of conceptualizing things. If you are unable to do that, clearly that might be the case, then just move on instead of trying to belittle me. I am making an observation, as I am able. I am not the only person who holds the opinions I do, however. Hardly. You argue... argue argue argue. I'm not going to let you trap me into actually arguing with you so you can all of a sudden say, oh see look see I was right after all. Make your concrete observations and opinions and direct them right at a person, but do expect some type of response. You are as free to make observations as I am..... |
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Lilith, I don't argue. You seem to be the one that likes to argue, though. Conceptualizing things has the point of conceptualizing things. If you are unable to do that, clearly that might be the case, then just move on instead of trying to belittle me. I am making an observation, as I am able. I am not the only person who holds the opinions I do, however. Hardly. You argue... argue argue argue. I'm not going to let you trap me into actually arguing with you so you can all of a sudden say, oh see look see I was right after all. Make your concrete observations and opinions and direct them right at a person, but do expect some type of response. You are as free to make observations as I am..... Not when you're trying to deliberately belittle someone, it's against forum rules, as I found out today, when I really don't see I've ever tried to belittle anyone. |
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i like toaster strudels. lilith, do you like toaster strudels?
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i like toaster strudels. lilith, do you like toaster strudels? I do like them, very much. I like them without the frosting the best! I mean, it's good, but too sweet. Dontcha think? |
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I am always under my rock is why
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I'm not going to let you trap me into actually arguing with you so you can all of a sudden say, oh see look see I was right after all.
too late |
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i like toaster strudels. lilith, do you like toaster strudels? I do like them, very much. I like them without the frosting the best! I mean, it's good, but too sweet. Dontcha think? i love the frosting. i just hate trying to squeeze it out of that little packet they give you |
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Ohhh you know what? I bought them for my kid and he didn't like them! Said they were icky and too hot....
So darn, I had to eat the box myself.... 
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