Men these days seen to be out for one thing and one thing only and when they get it you never here from then and if they dont get it you still dont here from them again even after they tell you they really like you.so what is going on with men anyone have any ideas.

hello and welcome

there is nothing wrong with men, they have always been out for just one thing - multi tasking is not one of their stronger suits

really, men and women are just choosy - always want whats just beyond their reach

join the forums, make friends and have some fun

good luck

This is an odd trend.

Women join MINGLE and their very first post is just complaining about men.

Honestly, thats a pretty crappy way to say hello.

Honesty is the best policy...

welcome

Seriously, who would want to hook up with some one (male OR female) who makes their very first post a bunch of complaining about the opposite sex....maybe the problem is with yourself and your attitude and not with MEN or WOMEN.

First of all Welcome to the site and I see this is your first post ever.
There are somethings that might help you on the internet please don't generalize. It isn't all men or all women. As for people chatting and drifting away that is part of the speil out here people change, get busy, meet someone, there are a thousand reason's why it happens.
The thing to remembe is not to take it seriously it is the internet anyone can be anything they want behind a keyboard.
Relax come out on forums get your feet wet, meet some people and take the negativity with a grain of salt.
good luck

Vox -

not new to online dating but the same thing happens over and over I guess just pick the wrong men. I know not all are bad but where are they.

i run into the same things, only wanting to cyber thats not my kinda thing, an when ya say you dont, they move on to someone who will, beginning to feel like im the only one who doesnt type dirty!

Seems to me this record has been played before....and before....and before....and before....and before....

Not all are like that. Just have to go throw the pile of sh!t to find the flower!

Just stick around in the forums and get to know everyone, relax and have fun...you will find so many wonderful people....good luck

Maybe you need to take more time with the guy or be a better judge of character? I don't know.

For the guys who don't want to talk to you any more because you won't "put out", well, you're better off w/out them.

Here's another thought. Did you ever think that maybe, that maybe the sex wasn't good and that was a deal breaker for him? I've done it. But I've at least had the decency to tell the guy that it's over.

well if honesty is the best polacy, why do i get slapped for being honest and striaght forward?

You're not, trust me!

I'll type dirty with you bear.

Funny, this is the same complaint all the guys have about me. I'm really trying to stop using them for sex.

Wait--guys complaining about being used for sex? Now THAT is funny!

Use me, Use me