Can I use you?

Yeah. You give em sex and the next thing you know they're talking about marriage and demanding a committment.

Not quite all of us men are that shallow....not quite all of you women are deep....just gotta figure out where to split the difference.

Hopefully this bird will find a really good man to rock her world....and then steady it.

Peace.

Well, Im a man and Im looking for a life long commited relationship with a white female. Im not just out looking for (QUOTE) one thing.

Hey it does happen! I want the long term thing to and when all you find are one nite stands hey at frist it was great but not no more...I want the real thing!

That's right, us men are the root of all evil...we also cheat, steal, and lie about everything...hell, I'm not even 23 and the pictures are of my pet dog dressed up as a human for halloween...and if we don't get what we want we will kill...uh...erm...errr...

Well at times it is best not to jump and go out with anyone that gives one some attention. As far as saying men only want one thing well if someone gives it to them then yeah they are most likely going to take it and if it was just that a one night stand they will not be back. But it is funny some women are the same way.

Believe me there are as many good ones out there as well that want more then a one night stand but many of them want turn it down if it is offered.

Just take your time and get to know them a bit more take things at a slower pace and hopefully things will work out for you.

An astute observation, darlin'.

Honey..I like how you put that..Because not all are like that! And slow is good...Smart women here

your funny..seen to be out for one thing

Its not just online. I'm living proof of that

Thank you for your kind words as well. But I have learned that not all men or women are like that I have talked to several men and they want the same thing that most women want.

To have someone that wants them as much as they do them. We all have had our share of heartaches but no since in putting the blame one way or the other. We are all at fault in some way at times we need to sit back and fix us first.

I will tell you what is wrong with men these days. It is so simple that I am surprised that women have not figured it out yet. But, here is Goof to give you the 411.

Blame it all on Viagra. Ever since the blue pill came out and men who are 22 years old use it...we have messed up our heads. Their you go. Plain and simple truth. Thank you and good night.

I think that we mix too much Tex-Mex chili with beer. This impacts our judgement. I apologize for any inconvenience this may have caused you. In addition, we're all assholes. It's a genetic thing.

Truthfully, I don't think it's the guys fault...it's the womans fault. How is this do you ask? It's because you LET it happen. If you would actually tell a guy what you want, then maybe you wouldn't end up with the same situation all the time.

I see it in a different way..Sorry dude..Its all of are faults hey lets face it..We all want something on matter what it is some want the hole thing and others just want to play..And sometime the path cross and someone get hurt!!

Uhhhhhh, you did say "men" right? If you lump us into that, then how are you so different? JMO