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Topic: whats wrong with men these days
krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Tue 11/11/08 08:29 PM
Listen to the long haired biker...(Not Me!)...the man has practical words of wisdom.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Tue 11/11/08 08:55 PM
Mine says explicitly that I am here for an intimate encounter and all I get are marriage proposals!!!!!!!!! I'm pretty sure I would have noticed that... You caught me.

Engraven_Image Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 7798	Tue 11/11/08 10:04 PM Edited by Engraven_Image on Tue 11/11/08 10:04 PM
Funny, this is the same complaint all the guys have about me. I'm really trying to stop using them for sex. Wait--guys complaining about being used for sex? Now THAT is funny! Well, there are some of us MEN who get tired of being used the same way. I know not all women are that way, and I'm hoping to save every intimate moment I can for the woman that will be in my life loving me everyday of it. Not all males, want to sleep around, some of us want a real relationship. I know I am great at sex and I love it, but I really rather share that with one woman. I get those pretenders that put on an act just to get me into bed and after they do, they hope to just pop in my life whenever they want some great sex. I'm actually tired of that. I have had enough sex to last a lifetime, but I'd trade it all for a TRUE RELATIONSHIP with ONE WOMAN. After I get that, I will rock her World Everyday!!!

sexy_lady49 Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 5	Wed 11/12/08 06:16 AM
most of was the time the sex great from both our parts. you just dont hear from them again,I will give them the benfit of dought but it is so hard when someone tells you they realy like you and you never hear feom then again.I guess I just expect to much............

tiggeray Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 266	Wed 11/12/08 06:31 AM
First of all Welcome to the site and I see this is your first post ever. There are somethings that might help you on the internet please don't generalize. It isn't all men or all women. As for people chatting and drifting away that is part of the speil out here people change, get busy, meet someone, there are a thousand reason's why it happens. The thing to remembe is not to take it seriously it is the internet anyone can be anything they want behind a keyboard. Relax come out on forums get your feet wet, meet some people and take the negativity with a grain of salt. good luck

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 11/12/08 06:31 AM
most of was the time the sex great from both our parts. you just dont hear from them again,I will give them the benfit of dought but it is so hard when someone tells you they realy like you and you never hear feom then again.I guess I just expect to much............ hmm? How to word this Only you can control and be in charge of your own happiness, giving up that power to others is not their fault/problem/responsibiliity but your own.

tiggeray Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 266	Wed 11/12/08 06:35 AM
Life is a wave,,,sometimes you catch a good one.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Wed 11/12/08 06:48 AM Edited by lilith401 on Wed 11/12/08 07:01 AM
Men are actually pretty easy to understand. I'd say if you want someone for more than just sex, don't have sex right away. I know, I know, I know.... easier said than done sometimes. But you need to keep in mind, there are people, men and women, who will stay with you longer just for the sex and never tell you that they aren't interested in more. I've done it and had it done to me. Think about it... it is not so complicated. Can you please use capitol letters, OP? It would make it so much easier to read your posts.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 11/12/08 06:59 AM
most of was the time the sex great from both our parts. you just dont hear from them again,I will give them the benfit of dought but it is so hard when someone tells you they realy like you and you never hear feom then again.I guess I just expect to much............ ...quit having sex with them. Solution solved. Just say no. State your intentions clearly. Set boundaries. If you can't control yourself you can't control your life. Behave accordingly and you won't have to make generalizations lumping all men into users. Can't blame all men for your behavior. I didn't get in your pants then ditch you. How can I be blamed for this? I understand- you're venting. But be practical with your judgements. A little common sense goes a long ways. I wish you the best of luck.

usernamefayou Joined Tue 08/26/08 Posts: 1195	Wed 11/12/08 07:01 AM
What's wrong with kissing a bull in a red tent?

tiggeray Joined Mon 07/30/07 Posts: 266	Wed 11/12/08 07:07 AM
Can I evr find a woman who is not after my money/Z \

Justme12178 Joined Sun 02/04/07 Posts: 283	Wed 11/12/08 08:50 AM
Hey im with him on that one...

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 11/12/08 08:56 AM
Can I evr find a woman who is not after my money/Z \ here I go here I go your money is worth the same as mine whats mine is mine and whats your's is mine kidding

Justme12178 Joined Sun 02/04/07 Posts: 283	Wed 11/12/08 01:18 PM
I can tell you whats wrong with men these day!! WOMAN any better want prefection!

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Wed 11/12/08 01:19 PM
Men these days seen to be out for one thing and one thing only and when they get it you never here from then and if they dont get it you still dont here from them again even after they tell you they really like you.so what is going on with men anyone have any ideas. They are DOUCHEBAGS.................

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 11/12/08 01:20 PM
You're right. I want perfection. And, when I find the perfect guy I'm going to hold onto him. Flaws and all.

FETTS61 Joined Sat 08/18/07 Posts: 31425	Wed 11/12/08 01:23 PM
Men these days seen to be out for one thing and one thing only and when they get it you never here from then and if they dont get it you still dont here from them again even after they tell you they really like you.so what is going on with men anyone have any ideas. They are DOUCHEBAGS................. DONT FORGET WE ARE PICKY BASTARDS THAT ALL WANT SUPERMODELS TOO

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Wed 11/12/08 01:24 PM
Men these days seen to be out for one thing and one thing only and when they get it you never here from then and if they dont get it you still dont here from them again even after they tell you they really like you.so what is going on with men anyone have any ideas. They are DOUCHEBAGS................. DONT FORGET WE ARE PICKY BASTARDS THAT ALL WANT SUPERMODELS TOO love your honesty BABY..............

sexy_lady49 Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 5	Thu 11/13/08 08:21 PM
I have done just this taking things slow and talking to the person for a while to let them know what I want and to find out what they want.Also not to let things get to the point of no return.sometimes people are hard to read at frist....................

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 11/13/08 08:28 PM
Sooooo...if you are tired of taking it slow lady....go out and take your cookie...enjoy it... You got one life..and I guarantee...the ones you just use for a pleasure...will track you down again ....sounds terrible...but, it is fun!