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when there isn't an actual pic of them in there profile...there ugly boof least home dude keeps it real, |
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Bad first impressions are my business, and business is good
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For people who know you it is ok to have a joke as a pic but for those who just see your profile for the first time it gives a very bad first impression, base on your pic I wouldn't even want to be your friend, I might miss a great person but that is life. But that's exactly my point. When I first met Dan online, long before I ever met him in person, he's always had goofy pictures and came across as an ass. But that's just the way he is (meant in a GOOD way). The more I got to know him, the more I knew he was really a decent guy underneath all that sarcastic humor. I judged him on his value as a person, not by what his pic looked like. |
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this avatar expresses my true inner self...
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For people who know you it is ok to have a joke as a pic but for those who just see your profile for the first time it gives a very bad first impression, base on your pic I wouldn't even want to be your friend, I might miss a great person but that is life. Fish |
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Maybe I am or will but ain't first impression what this site is about, firsts impression on how we look, first impression on what we write in our profile. This place is a meeting place either for dating mingle or make friend so it's almost like a job interview and would you send the same picture you have there for an interview, probably not because you know that what the person who sees your picture thinks at that moment before he know you will determine if he calls you or not because we all know that skills or aptitude is not always the criteria when applying for a job firsts impression is, so this place is like that a little bit instead of applying for a job we are applying for love friendship or sex. Dan seems a great person if I judge on the support he got but if you don't know him and you just take a quick look at his picture not everyone would think that, again first impression, we have lots of people to choose from and if I had to choose between someone with his fingers up his nose (remember don't know him) and thousands who look more traditional I think my choice is obvious.
I apologize to Dan when I said I would not want to know him it didn't come out like I wanted but still express my first impression. I'm not a person to judge on images or how someone looks but more on his way of thinking and beliefs. |
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Heres the thing...I could give a sh!t what people think of my pic...this isn't an interview...and I get plenty of views and interest...you put the pic you want up and I'll put the one I want up...this is America...isn't it????
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If a lady doesn't like a man with a moustache she won't contact me because I have one and she sees it on my pic.
If someones doesn't like piercings and see a picture of someone with some it might help them decide to contact or not. I know that it is only the physical aspect we see on a pic not the real person but sometimes it helps on a site like this. |
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Heres the thing...I could give a sh!t what people think of my pic...this isn't an interview...and I get plenty of views and interest...you put the pic you want up and I'll put the one I want up...this is America...isn't it???? Like you said do as you wish I don't really care I thought this was a discussion place. |
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Heres the thing...I could give a sh!t what people think of my pic...this isn't an interview...and I get plenty of views and interest...you put the pic you want up and I'll put the one I want up...this is America...isn't it???? Like you said do as you wish I don't really care I thought this was a discussion place. and I gave my opinion...right??? |
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this is America...isn't it???? Ummmmm.....NO! Thanks for the apology Alz, though i wasnt actually offended! |
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this is America...isn't it???? Ummmmm.....NO! Thanks for the apology Alz, though i wasnt actually offended! bloody hell |
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Edited by
feralcatlady
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Fri 10/31/08 12:47 PM
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this is America...isn't it???? Ummmmm.....NO! Thanks for the apology Alz, though i wasnt actually offended! bloody hell I think you look good enough to eat me.....roglh |
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y'all are going to scare him
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If a lady doesn't like a man with a moustache she won't contact me because I have one and she sees it on my pic. If someones doesn't like piercings and see a picture of someone with some it might help them decide to contact or not. I know that it is only the physical aspect we see on a pic not the real person but sometimes it helps on a site like this. i'd rather be attracted and interested in somebody, without knowing all that, and be pleasantly surprised when i discover that i'm still attracted to them, that what attributes they had, or hadn't, weren't enough to deter my interest. |
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