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| Topic: Is being nice not a good thing anymore? | |
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Actually...theres a: 1. great guy(Has nuts) 2. nice guy(tend to be used as welcome mats...lack of nuts) 3. Whussy(they tend to call themselves nice guys...cry when they get dumped by there girlfriend...no nuts) 4. @sshole  
And you know you're #1 baby!  
I was going for #4 
Are nuts included? 
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Actually...theres a: 1. great guy(Has nuts) 2. nice guy(tend to be used as welcome mats...lack of nuts) 3. Whussy(they tend to call themselves nice guys...cry when they get dumped by there girlfriend...no nuts) 4. @sshole
And you know you're #1 baby!
I was going for #4
Are nuts included?
Extra large...WOOOO!!!!!!!!!
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Actually...theres a: 1. great guy(Has nuts) 2. nice guy(tend to be used as welcome mats...lack of nuts) 3. Whussy(they tend to call themselves nice guys...cry when they get dumped by there girlfriend...no nuts) 4. @sshole
And you know you're #1 baby!
I was going for #4
Are nuts included?
Extra large...WOOOO!!!!!!!!!
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i was that guy in the middle. based on what i am reading here its pretty true. i gave my wife everything and anything and always tried to be nice.... worked out great we have been separated for 4 almost 5 weeks now, she got mean about the whole thing and who knows what goes on from here
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They want to be treated nice and with respect, except in bed of course!
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Beat the girl senseless till she likes ya ;) along with cheat, lie, whore her out and then do the same to her bestfriend seems like the thing to do.
Any male that believes this load of $#@% isn't looking for a real woman but, a Barbie Doll!. Don't waste our time whinning about being nice doesn't get you anywhere. The truth is that it takes more than simply being "nice". It is about being sincere, honest, kind, and compassionate. |
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Op.. It's rather sad huh man,Anyway (Socratease) shot you the best advice I feel! What he's sating is true man, If your a nice fella and want the same in return, You have to be careful man... Cuss the days of Women wanting to be treated like a Queen is as used up as a box of Crispy Cream Donuts in a police station! Just be prepared to punt the evil ones through the up rights, at anytime! But like he said,They don't wan't a tater-tot, And Don't sell out neither man. Usually I've found it that women who want to be treated nice will just "Tell You" Example; C'Mon take me out, lets go to dinner, Or grab a drink perhaps... It's like the whole Wall Mart VS. Mall thing actually. Keep it simple and real. You take a chick to the Mall and lets her have whatever, She'll only browse around...But man, You drop them off at Wall Mart, Dude there's baskets coming outta that store, They only need you to open the Trunk up! That's Right
In this case, it is about the quality of the person - not an apt description of all women. I can honestly say that this kind of behavior does not reflect the majority of my sex. If this is the kind of woman that you are attracked to you than I think you are getting what you deserve. 
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I don't think being nice is bad, but I treated my ex great and she dumped me. She told me after we broke up that I treated her like '****', but it was bs on her part. I never did anything to her, but I guess this is a bad example.
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Beat the girl senseless till she likes ya ;) along with cheat, lie, whore her out and then do the same to her bestfriend seems like the thing to do.
Yes. Oh be still my heart.
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Seems like ladies like the guys that treat them like crap, soooo is that the way I should become? Don't you dare. It's just so hard to find one that doesn't, we always seem stuck with them.
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Just be who you are and stay that way, if your not yourself than your lying to the world and that never works in the long road. For every type of person (good,bad, nice, rude) there is a match its just sometimes hard to find our type but they are out there.
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i agree with alzeimer. if you change who you are and the way you are you wont even know who you are later down the line. i thought of doing the same thing, the heck with being a nice guy. some girls will appreciate it all the way thru and some wont. like me you just have to learn to not be a total pushover and stand your ground on things that matter to you
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i gave my wife everything and anything and always tried to be nice. I made the same mistake and it was a mistake.Giving a woman that constantly complains and is never happy is telling her that her behavior is acceptable. I know now "DO NOT REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR". |
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i gave my wife everything and anything and always tried to be nice. I made the same mistake and it was a mistake.Giving a woman that constantly complains and is never happy is telling her that her behavior is acceptable. I know now "DO NOT REWARD BAD BEHAVIOR". <Shakes Head> The fact that you are obviously oversimplifying indicates lack of understanding the basic requirement of all relationships - communication. I strongly suspect that you may have thought you gave her everything but, in reality completely ignored her needs. |
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ANY person will teach how they would like to be treated. So not listen to the words, but watch the actions that follow. Every one likes a little adventure. MEN and WOMEN. They key is how to balance it.
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With a rebel yell she cried more, more, moreee!
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ANY person will teach how they would like to be treated. So not listen to the words, but watch the actions that follow. Every one likes a little adventure. MEN and WOMEN. They key is how to balance it. ???????? I don't disagree with you necessarily. To judge a person, it is best to understand their actions. With that being said, a person's words still have power and still have meaning. Thus it is still important to listen to their words but, also listen to what they are not verbally saying. I think the user that began this thread has some unresolved issues. For instance, he isn't actually sincerly seeking advice but, is using this thread as an excuse to treat women badly or at the very least without thought or consideration because he is pissed at his ex. It is okay to be mad or angry. All is fair in love and war but, the person that he is doing the most arm to is himself. What he needs is ...........Be mad, Be angry, But be honest w/ himself. |
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They want to be treated nice and with respect, except in bed of course! WTF????
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just need a 50/50 mix of nice genuine guy and im still a guy and i got a pair mix. some days ur the dog some days your the hydrant
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seems to me they want the cheaters and the liers
... the caring, sincere, and honest of us just become their "friends" (not even with benefits LOL)...
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