Topic: Is being nice not a good thing anymore?
joshyfox's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:16 PM
Edited by joshyfox on Sun 10/26/08 04:16 PM
I heard the best expression, a "Nice Alpha". A Man/ Woman Who can quite easily take a position of authority, but is still kind, respectful, and compassionate.

The reason why a lot of jerks succeed in relationships is because they are Alphas, pushing their weight around. These jerks have no respect for those they hurt in their reckless command however. From what I can tell, "nice guys" fail because they turn into cowards and don't really express what they want.

That's why I like this "Nice Alpha" concept. That's what I want to be from now on, I want to be a Nice Alpha. I just have to figure out a nice balance between confident and being a jerk.

coz1976's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:19 PM


So ladies now days want to be treated like a hoe? lol ok bigsmile will try that route


Nice guy on the outside, but a tiger in the bedroom is what im lookin for. I like my men dirty behind closed doors.flowerforyou

i'm growling can you here medevil devil

Balky's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:20 PM
Beat the girl senseless till she likes ya ;) along with cheat, lie, whore her out and then do the same to her bestfriend seems like the thing to do.frustrated

joshyfox's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:21 PM

Beat the girl senseless till she likes ya ;) along with cheat, lie, whore her out and then do the same to her bestfriend seems like the thing to do.frustrated


It worked for Cavemen. Let me know how it turns out.

Etrain's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:25 PM
smokin Nice guys=No nutssmokin

joshyfox's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:35 PM

smokin Nice guys=No nutssmokin


Like I stated in my rant, people who go out of their way to be nice tend to lack confidence. There needs to be a balance between Being respectful and being over-confident. It's difficult to explain what i mean, but at least I know what I'm talking about.

buffry's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:52 PM



So ladies now days want to be treated like a hoe? lol ok bigsmile will try that route


Nice guy on the outside, but a tiger in the bedroom is what im lookin for. I like my men dirty behind closed doors.flowerforyou

i'm growling can you here medevil devil


hehe, cutie!flowerforyou

buffry's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:53 PM

Beat the girl senseless till she likes ya ;) along with cheat, lie, whore her out and then do the same to her bestfriend seems like the thing to do.frustrated


wow...that is horrible!

brenlee1965's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:54 PM

Seems like ladies like the guys that treat them like crap, soooo is that the way I should become?


Funny.....from my point of view it is MEN that want *****y, mean women.

Balky's photo
Sun 10/26/08 04:57 PM


Beat the girl senseless till she likes ya ;) along with cheat, lie, whore her out and then do the same to her bestfriend seems like the thing to do.frustrated


wow...that is horrible!


Yep so you heading to ca anytime soon?

no photo
Sun 10/26/08 05:20 PM
Op..

It's rather sad huh man,Anyway (Socratease)
shot you the best advice I feel! What he's sating is true man, If your a nice fella and want the same in return, You have to be careful man...

Cuss the days of Women wanting to be treated like a Queen is as used up as a box of Crispy Cream Donuts in a police station!

Just be prepared to punt the evil ones through the up rights, at anytime! But like he said,They don't wan't a tater-tot, And Don't sell out neither man.

Usually I've found it that women who want to be treated nice will just "Tell You"
Example; C'Mon take me out, lets go to dinner, Or grab a drink perhaps...
It's like the whole Wall Mart VS. Mall thing actually.

Keep it simple and real. You take a chick to the Mall and lets her have whatever, She'll only browse around...But man, You drop them off at Wall Mart, Dude there's baskets coming outta that store, They only need you to open the Trunk up!

That's Right

no photo
Sun 10/26/08 05:31 PM

Seems like ladies like the guys that treat them like crap, soooo is that the way I should become?


wow, another nice guy thread...jeeze, you guys in the woodwork or something??
huh

buffry's photo
Sun 10/26/08 05:50 PM



Beat the girl senseless till she likes ya ;) along with cheat, lie, whore her out and then do the same to her bestfriend seems like the thing to do.frustrated


wow...that is horrible!


Yep so you heading to ca anytime soon?


Hehe...wish it were that easy! But I can't uproot my kiddo like that!

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 10/26/08 05:53 PM

smokin Nice guys=No nutssmokin


Not true.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 10/26/08 05:54 PM
I'll say exactly what I said in a previous thread:



There's the "nice" guy...

There's the "a$$hole" guy...


And then there's the guy in the middle, which I like to call...


the "Great" guy.

He's the package deal. And he's the guy I want!love love
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

buffry's photo
Sun 10/26/08 05:55 PM

I'll say exactly what I said in a previous thread:



There's the "nice" guy...

There's the "a$$hole" guy...


And then there's the guy in the middle, which I like to call...


the "Great" guy.

He's the package deal. And he's the guy I want!love love
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:


Thank you very much! I agree!

Etrain's photo
Sun 10/26/08 06:18 PM
Actually...theres a:

1. great guy(Has nuts)

2. nice guy(tend to be used as welcome mats...lack of nuts)

3. Whussy(they tend to call themselves nice guys...cry when they get dumped by there girlfriend...no nuts)

4. @sshole

slaphead rofl rofl rofl rofl

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 10/26/08 06:21 PM

Actually...theres a:

1. great guy(Has nuts)

2. nice guy(tend to be used as welcome mats...lack of nuts)

3. Whussy(they tend to call themselves nice guys...cry when they get dumped by there girlfriend...no nuts)

4. @sshole

slaphead rofl rofl rofl rofl


And you know you're #1 baby!love :banana: :banana: :banana:

no photo
Sun 10/26/08 06:22 PM

I'll say exactly what I said in a previous thread:



There's the "nice" guy...

There's the "a$$hole" guy...


And then there's the guy in the middle, which I like to call...


the "Great" guy.

He's the package deal. And he's the guy I want!love love
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:
drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

Etrain's photo
Sun 10/26/08 06:23 PM
Edited by Etrain on Sun 10/26/08 06:24 PM


Actually...theres a:

1. great guy(Has nuts)

2. nice guy(tend to be used as welcome mats...lack of nuts)

3. Whussy(they tend to call themselves nice guys...cry when they get dumped by there girlfriend...no nuts)

4. @sshole

slaphead rofl rofl rofl rofl


And you know you're #1 baby!love :banana: :banana: :banana:

I was going for #4frustrated frustrated frustrated